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You can become an alphamale
5/25/01 11:16:01 AM Eastern Daylight Time


My latest voice personals ad (pressing "3" on the system I use advances you
to the next ad, pressing "1" requests a live conversation, and pressing "2"
allows you to leave a message for the person who's ad you've just listened

"If you are looking for a husband, press 3 now.
If you are looking for a nice guy who will do anything you ask of him, press
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If you are looking for a sucker to spend all his money on you, press 3 now.
If you are looking for someone who will stare at your chest while he talks
to you, press 3 now.
If, however, you are looking to meet someone attractive who also has a
brain, who will enjoy getting to know you for who you are while sharing a
little intimacy, but who isn't only interested in getting you into bed as
fast as possible, press 1 or 2 now."



Don Diebel's site has been updated and he has quite an impressive number of
"how to succeed with women" books and videos available.


Overheard at the Major Mark/Steve Piccus Seminar in Montreal:  When a woman
you are in the process of picking up is giving you a hard time, say "Hey,
lower your standards.  I did."  This should crack her up, get her to relax
and put things on the right track.


Below is an excerpt from one of the recent emails you sent regarding the
weekend workshop you did with Major Mark and Steve.  I am really impressed
with Steve's work because by what you describe, that is right up my alley!!!

I do most of that sort of healing a healer.  It is great to see
being offered at the workshops because it is obviously needed.  Overcoming
emotional blockages and past hurts and re-enforcing positively and with
total self-acceptance is the key to any type of success in life...including
'right relationships'.  It stands to reason that no amount of SS will work
if there are blockages in the way.  This is why some guys succeed and some
do it's good to see the real issues finally being addressed here.
>While Mark's focus is hypnosis, Steve's is in healing and he has great
>knowledge in Past Life Regression, Chakra cleansing and Chakra work, energy
>work, guided inward journeys, hypnosis and NLP, connecting to guides and
>masters, metaphysical counseling and healing, Huna techniques, pre-natal
re->imprinting, and others.  He has had tremendous results helping people
who had a >variety of problems, including depression, bi-polar disorder,
quitting smoking,
>healing the wounded heart, and other areas in life where people are stuck.
>seems clear that that seduction is not their main topic but I think a
seminar on
>helping guys overcome issues which have them stuck and are keeping them
>from having success with women might be a direction they may consider.
Steve is
>available for individual sessions as well.

By the way, I have recently undertaken a personal development business that
deals with all that, too....about overcoming personal obstacles permanently
and creating the perfect life.  I use the material and am a product of the
product so I know it works.  There are a lot of people hurting out there
....they have such deep fears and don't know true they
seek satisfaction and happiness outside of themselves...which is the last
place they will ever find it.

If anyone is interested to find out more about this, please let them know
because I want to share something that will change lives in whichever way
people want!  I am not exaggerating.  I want to share this with as many
people as possible because I care about people and want to see humanity grow
and prosper and be all that they can be.  This is a part of my mission

My Comment:  Anyone interested in learning about what Steve Piccus and/or
Eleni can
do for them, please contact me and I will forward your inquiry.  I am still
looking for people to let me know that they would be interested in more
seminars in Montreal with Steve and Major Mark, so please contact me about
this as soon as possible.  Eleni is in Australia, Steve is based in Southern
Mark, of course, is in Toledo, Ohio (


>I believe this observation to generally be correct but here is an
>interesting situation that I don't quite understand. I started dating an HB
>that has a 10 face, and an 8.5 body. I'm probably a solid 4 or 5. I'm self

STOP right here. This is not the reported problem, but it is probably more
significant. You just rated this girl above yourself, and not only above,
but double. As Mark would say "BAD THING". First of all, I don't think
yourself is useful, but if you insist on it....what if you were to rate
yourself based on your strongest qualities, as opposed to your weaker ones?
It's your scale, your universe, you decide what counts for what. Getting
sucked into the environmentally based vacuous abyss of social constructs is
probably something other than a useful behavior. Perhaps you can look inside
and recognize the you that is unique and has much to offer and share with a
woman. This is the identity of a man who absolutely knows that he has what
this woman needs, not what she wants... because that is never important, but
what she needs deep down to feel fulfilled.
>...employed and work 70 hours a week and don't have a hell of a lot of
>extra time to spend with this girl. She is used to having her every needs
>to by her past boyfriends, and is constantly yelling at me for not spending
>time with her, or paying enough attention to her. I don't really put up
>a lot of the crap that her ex-boyfriends have put up with, and she says she
>doesn't freaken understand why she always feels like she is begging me for
>attention when there are guys constantly hitting on her. So far so good, at
>least I thought. I present challenges to her and treat her in a way that
>isn't used to, but now she is saying that she wants to date other people,
>and feels less attracted to me because of my behavior. Just out of
>what is happening here?

She wants TIME, but that is not what she needs. She needs to feel
appreciated and loved. She needs to feel that she is special and that you
that.  If you wish to keep her, you have to satisfy this need. In the same
way that
your "reported problem" is not your real problem, neither is hers. Focus on
quality, not quantity. If you are busy, then make small surprise gestures
with irregularity... "just because". Not too much! Just occasionally,
randomly, and when you are NOT in a fight. You can express that you wished
you had more time to share, but until you are dedicated to making that time
more special to her, you aren't going to get there. The key here, is little
things, not big things. Find her core values, meet those core values. This
does not mean do what she WANTS, which is always the road to disaster. You
remain interesting by NOT giving them what they want, at least not exactly
the way they wanted it. You remain valuable by giving them what they NEED.

In conjunction with the above you can also use time distortion with her to
make your time seem longer, also reframe time together as a special treat or
reward (of course, then you have to make it so, by making her feel
wonderful, on the inside).
>In a sense that comes back to the idea of being, "the man".  I know the
>whole alpha thing has been discussed before, but it really hit me as being
>very essential in understanding yourself, and knowing what to change and
how to
>So, once again, a summary that begs to be answered. In your all's opinion,
>is the status of a male (alpha, omega....) a fixed genetic determinant, or
>learned role (I can't help but see a genetic influence to say the least).

I think it is both. Anywhere in the animal kingdom, including humans,
dominant behavior is evidenced even in infancy and certainly in childhood.
When I was a child I was anything but the "Alpha", I was much closer being
the "Omega".  When I left the 8th grade, for high school, I made the
decision that Omega sucks, and the only thing to be is Alpha (although I
didn't know
the terms, I knew the behaviors and the results).  I decided I would do
everything I needed to do to become the Alpha, whatever it took. I modeled
alpha behavior and integrated it as a part of who I am. It took a couple of
years before it felt like the natural thing for me to do and be, but after
that it became an unconscious way of being. I am dominant, I am the "alpha",
it is never something I even every give one second of thought. Every last
molecule in my being is that, and I think anyone who knows me will tell you
the same thing.

The point is that, regardless of environmental factors, or predisposed
behaviors, you can absolutely learn and integrate more useful ways of being
into the very core structure of who you are.
>Perhaps you might include in your model of the
>world some sexually adventurous, beautiful women who are open, friendly and
>looking to meet people and enjoy sex.

Ummm... is someone suggesting that there is another kind of woman???? I
don't know, but if there is, they must be invisible.


I recently finished reading "How the Mind Works" by Steven Pinker (and I've
also read his "Language Instinct") and there appear to be a lot of
implications for seduction. If anyone has read either of these books I'd
appreciate any
relevant comments.

He uses evolutionary psychology, and the computational theory of the mind as
the framework for his ideas.


>I've been into the whole SS thing for going on 3 years now and my results
>have been, well, mediocre at best. It seems that SS offers some valuable
>communication skills but right now I have a hard time believing that it
>get you pussy unless you have ideal circumstances (i.e.. quiet environment,
>attention on you the whole time, no interruptions, environment conducive to
>talking about DEEP topics, no competition in the proximity from guys who
>match her ideal, etc.)
>2) Has anyone else had to put up with ages of getting poor results (I've
>probably got laid more in the last 3 years than I did in the previous 3 but
>as a Hit Ratio - it's far less. I wonder whether the "major successes" that
>some guys talk about are just a result of approaching ten times more women
>rather than being ten times "better") and then had a breakthrough? What did
you do

I had a similar experience for the first couple years. And really, I had
only myself to blame. Not only is it important to practice early and often,
it's also pivotal that you treat yourself right after any result that you
get. Looking back, I would have shaved the time it has taken me to get to my
current skill level by 90% if I had buckled down and done the homework I'm
doing now. But hey! You cannot start anywhere other than where you are. You
just can't.

Also, I see you looking for a big old breakthrough that will serve as an
honorable discharge from having to work on your skills anymore. I've got
news for you. It never happens. I used to talk about "the big insight for
me was...(as recently as last week!)," but I don't do that anymore. It was
all baby steps. All significance is in little things that get done over and
over, moment to moment. Rome wasn't even BURNED in a day.

One of those many baby steps that might prove helpful: Do you think that you
must believe in SS in order for it to work? I don't think that was in the
instructions anywhere. I've heard my fellow students slip up and say you
gotta believe, but I never remember Ross saying that, and for good reason.
You don't have to believe in a tool. It just works.


> Eclypz:
> How about colorblindness?  If you don't have the correct rods and cones in
> your eyes, you can't see certain colors distinctively. Can hypnosis change
> that? Then how about your role as a male?  Did your mother and father pass
> on to you some gene that determined your stance in life?
> [snip]

Well, the question really comes down to what makes an alpha male».  I
certainly think genetics plays a role in that being tall makes it easier but
I would say 90% of it is your personality, and I believe that a ton of that
is environmental.  I definitely think you can become an alphamale.  Go for

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