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“‘Secret Weapon’ For Attracting Women” – April 16, 2002

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“’Secret Weapon’ For Attracting Women” – April 16, 2002

This week I’m going to do something a little different than usual.

I’m going to give you some homework.

I’m going to teach you one of the most important keys to attracting women (and keeping them attracted), then I’m going to give you some homework so you can see it in action for yourself.

The secret that I’m going to share with you is called COMPOSURE.

Guys who are successful with women keep their COMPOSURE in all situations. Guys who are UN-successful with women LOSE their composure constantly (or never have it in the first place).

What exactly do I mean by COMPOSURE you ask?

Here are a few examples:

1) Staying completely cool and confident no matter what happens, what a woman says or does, or how you FEEL.

2) Maintaining cool, laid-back body language» in the face of emotional situations.

3) Not getting upset or nervous if a woman isn’t receptive to your advances.

4) Not getting mad or emotional if a woman plays games or acts flaky.

I think you get the picture.

Here’s the point:

Almost every guy I know who is ULTRA successful with women keeps their composure in almost every situation.

Almost every guy I know who is UN-successful with women LOSES their composure in challenging situations.

Keeping your composure is a skill.

Not letting things get to you is a skill.

Not letting things take you off balance, not wincing, not sighing, not getting emotional, not acting like a WUSSY is a skill.

It can be learned.

So here’s your homework for the next few days:

1) Watch a few of the new “reality” shows like Blind Date, Cheaters, and Dismissed. Notice the difference between the guys who wind up with the girl and the guys who don’t. You’ll see something interesting: The guys who end up with the girl are the ones who keep their composure, and the guys who don’t are the ones who act nervous, uncomfortable, emotional, sensitive, and WUSS-like.

Does this absolutely happen in every single situation? No, of course not… but you’ll see it happen in probably 90%-95% of the situations you pay attention to.

2) If you haven’t visited the Double Your Dating» website recently, go there and check out the audio clip of me talking, read the sample material that’s available, and pay special attention to “The 8 Personality Types That Naturally Attract Women”. Watch for them when you watch the shows I mentioned. Just go to:

[ebook download link]

3) If you haven’t downloaded your copy of my eBook “Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women And Dating”, make sure you do that while you’re visiting the site. This will give you an unfair advantage and a unique perspective while doing your “homework” this week.

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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