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timeforacatnap Junior Member     man like alot of the people here, i've just read 'the game' it was awesome, and since then i've been getting my hands on all sorts of other books and stuff. at the end of the day though, i'm still pretty green out in the field, but i've tried some of the stuff, i almost had it with this one girl, but it was pretty messy (she had a boyfriend, was about an 8/9, and had 2 other guys gaming for her) suffice to say i ended up being LJBF'ed, i guess thats what i get for jumping in the deep end. anyways, any advice for making those first few steps? ----- signing on with mystery method» in UK in august Total Posts: 75 | Joined Nov. 2005 | Posted on: 2:22 pm on Nov. 11, 2005 | IP Guyver Newbie     Hey I'm in the same boat. I've got this friend who claims that it's IMPOSSIBLE to seduce her because I don't have the qualities/personality she's looking for and she keeps giving me the LJBF line even though I know that she wants more deep down, and I've been getting the line for about 3 - 4 months now. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. ----- Life's a journey not a destination. It's all about what you do on your way that matters. Total Posts: 8 | Joined Nov. 2005 | Posted on: 8:02 pm on Nov. 12, 2005 | IP MrTbone Newbie     I found it interesting that as I read that "The Game" I found that I had unconsciously used some of the techniques desribed. I've been particularly good at "kino"ing. I met this HB at a party recently and managed to get her to join me for an icecream afterwards. By end of the evening I was caressing her lower back. I asked her out later and she gave me the LJBF line (she had a BF). I did not get fazed and took her out a couple of times - and now she told me dumped her BF and the kino stuff is getting a little heavier. I did the palm reading stuff - and it seemed to work. Expecting to *close anyday now. Mistakes I've made (at least as per the "Rules" 1. I may have overdone the wining and dining bit - does that mean she may walk over me? 2. Still trying to figure out the right moment to *close. I had a chance tonight and I blew it. She thanked me and complained that I had paid for dinner three times already - and I just waved it off with a gesture. Perhaps I should have asked (in a light vein) for a kiss in payment? ----- I crawl like a viper through these suburban street.... Make love to these women, languid and bittersweet Total Posts: 1 | Joined Nov. 2005 | Posted on: 11:07 pm on Nov. 14, 2005 | IP sas01 Newbie     Heh I've just started at this but I've been progressing fast. For me my perfect formula goes like this. See the target>Go and introduce yourself (opener)>Neg>Close. Be careful with the neg not to be too insulting... Also another really cool move is the old "what's this behind your ear?" trick, really if you start looking at their ear in a way so they ask "what are you looking at?" and just reply "Well you've got this (insert object here) behind your ear" and before they can do anything go and take your desired object from behind their ear. It's funny,it's confident and it can be any object you want (apart from cars and things :p). Remember when your closing don't look like you've just scored or had a big success. You'll look needy and lame. Just look like you get girl's numbers all the time (if you keep practicing you will eventually...) in saying that don't look uninterested. A large part of seduction is controlling your emotions. If you're interested in learning how to tell if they're attracted to you learn about body language. Especially if their eyes contract or widen. If they widen they're interested and if they contract your better looking somewhere else. Unlike a lot of body language this is involuntary and can't be faked. I hope some of this helped and good luck in all of your seduction endeavours. Regards sas01 P.S Mr Tbone you should definetly ask her for a kiss in payment! Do it in a mock serious/half joking tone of voice. Make sure she doesn't know if you're joking or not, that way it'll be open to her to decide and you'll know if she's happy to kiss you. You win both ways . Try it and keep us posted. Total Posts: 4 | Joined Dec. 2005 | Posted on: 2:17 pm on Dec. 11, 2005 | IP ajkbarr Newbie     I too  have read 'the game' and I'm on my second reading just to not only refresh my  memory of a few routines but also to take a few notes for future reference. I too like your selves, Guyver/ Timeforacatnap have had various encounters with women and when I get so far it comes to a grinding halt with the LJBF line. but unlike  yourself Guyver my female friend has given me  the line for a few years now  and also includes  the Never have fancied me  nor will she ever although her body language can be contradictory. Also she has the temprament of blowing Hot and Cold depending on her mood. Now my question as a newbiew to the established players is this.... Have you known a woman a few months/ years who gives advice to get to know women 1st - As Friends (Before Lovers),  get to know her likes/dislikes ect. ,as well as giving her  -  her own space/ Idependance Only to find  she is  too independant  and when out wants you to be more serious or More relaxed depending on Her mood and only wants to be seen with you when it pleases her so she can get off with someone else  right in your face even if the other guy is a complete jerk. So you end up as the perverbial spare wheel.  So when it goes pearshaped she comes back to me as  a safety net and bemoans  the fact  she can't find a Decent Man - So What am I? Chopped Liver!!   Hope  I  havent sent anyone to the nearest cliff to become  an  hounourary Lemming but any advice would be welcome. Thankyou,Style for a most inspiring book   ----- AJKBARR Total Posts: 1 | Joined Jan. 2006 | Posted on: 8:16 pm on Jan. 4, 2006 | IP MrEngineer Newbie     So, a few weeks ago my sister's roommate showed me "The Game". I thought that it was bullshit, but I soon found myself buying a copy, and I'm reading it now. I just tried some of the stuff in there, when I invited a girl I sort've know (she's in a few of my classes) to dinner with us, when we ran into her on the street. I tried a few neg's, I ignored her a little bit, but I was talkative and made her laugh a few times. I think I might have even gotten on IOI when I suddenly went silent and found her still looking at me for about 2 seconds. I am now convinced that this is REAL, and I am moving forward. Best of luck to everyone in the field and in your sets. Total Posts: 3 | Joined Jan. 2006 | Posted on: 6:31 pm on Jan. 13, 2006 | IP booyaa Newbie     Blokes, sounds liek alot of you want the girl you've known for a long time. The one who knew you before you became an AlphaMale recently. So here's what you can do. Set it up so you see her but you didnt come to see her, like be at a party she's at or come to her place to aks her brother something etc.. Now she is going to expect you to be the same leech loser that she thought you were before but no! Be a new man. You look good, your moving like your going somewhere, you don't hangaround and when she aks you how you are, you tell her everything is fantastic (because it is!, if you dont believe it neither will she) Then you leave because you have somewhere important to be (do have somewhere to be, get a hobby or another girl to visit). Have this attitude long enough and she will call you. Keep it going, remember life is great! sas01, i'm sorry but pulling something out form behind the ear is just not cool but throwing a pillow at the girl, getting her to throw it back at you then throwing her onto the bed and having wild sex with her is! Have fun bro, remember your the man now. Total Posts: 3 | Joined Jan. 2006 | Posted on: 1:09 am on Jan. 27, 2006 | IP The Russian Newbie     This is my forst post on the forum, at first I only inteded to get information out of it but readin thorugh the post it made me realize that people are facing same problems as I did. I have read "The Game" and also number of other books on Social psychology, and also have watched the saminars of famous PUA's. 2timeforacatnap: For your problem I would have came up to a solition given by *Mystery If the guy is sitting next to the girl he is play his game on which is your target you can use one of his lines "So you are here for some of that ( While gesturing finger in the hole with your hands) huh? , well congratulations!" That is an ultimate Game shutdown theres no way he can make a move on her again. That actually would depend on a situation, but go for the same motive. 2ajkbarr: Your situation really inspired me for this post. Your situation is so obvious you should have seen it already. You are in a "Mr. NICEGUY" position... as *David DeAngelo once said in one of his seminars as a response to LJBF speach is "Great then you can hook me up with some of your hot friends." But this is not the case but a good example for many of you. In your case you have to be more dominnat to her... your weakness is your "nice" attitude, as *sisonpyh said "Be nice but not a niceguy" Try  to use neg on her try to make her want to talk to you but not the opposite. Read through "The game once more especially in the beggining of the book it talks a lot about it. I would like to quote *booyaa with a great closing line "remember you'r the man now." ----- Just call me Russian Total Posts: 1 | Joined Feb. 2006 | Posted on: 10:20 pm on Feb. 5, 2006 | IP Annihilation Newbie     Slight problem following these techniques. Self confidence. See, I've been in the position where I could have said something, but regardless of the 3 second rule, of going too fast for you to question yourself, I find myself saying nothing. So, how do you actually become confident in yourself? Total Posts: 2 | Joined Mar. 2006 | Posted on: 4:56 pm on Mar. 24, 2006 | IP Tommy Demonic Newbie     Ahhh, the ultimate shit test.   When a girl says LJBF that means that you are being a wimp.  So next time, don’t be a wimp.  But for this time you can try a few of these tricks I picked up: Next time a girl says LJBF to you can do this: Just stare blankly in the girls eyes like your looking past her.  (Try not to look sexy, not creepy) She will immediately start justifying her self to you.  Don't say anything.  As her self confidence shatters and she desperately tries to validate her self you can build a library of cannon fodder and trance words.  Then give it to her alpha style.  Possibly: Turn her reasons for no into reasons for yes (reframing).  Mirror her sorry state briefly then lead her into a sexual state (they feel real good as an alternative to self validation).  Kiss her to shut her up (bold move, but then again so is LBJFing someone).  Just be a man. Some other things... If she has a BF that means she wants to cheat.  Girls love doing the wrong thing.  Q" Wait if I make her cheat on her boyfriend then that makes me the bad guy?" A "That's the idea".  Cheating is hot. Here’s something messed up: If she say’s you’re like a brother, tell her you would prefer to think of yourself as her father.  Then pattern, role play, punish.  Electra is hot. So my advice in short: Talk as little as possible, stare fuck, mind fuck and make her do things she’s ashamed of.  In the mean time vibe sex, use Kino, and feel no fear. Timeforacatnap: The deep end is where the big girls swim.  You have three seconds… JUMP! Annihilation: if you want confidence we can do one of two things.  I can lock you in my dungeon and torture you for months on end until you no longer fear death.  Or you can just fake it until you make it.  Dude just pretend you’re confident.  Think of something you can do confidently then anchor that feeling to everything you are scared of then approach constantly until you Pavlov yourself out of your disability. ----- http://www.tommydemonic.com Total Posts: 3 | Joined Mar. 2006 | Posted on: 5:51 pm on Mar. 24, 2006 | IP

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