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Access Newbie     Hi. Can someone help me I need some very good advice.I dated a girl for awhile i cared about her a great she was moving for school and when i just met her i found out this by that time i had already started like her.Ive never Fallin for a girl before she my first.But she plays alot of head games and her friend acts like a bitch when she see's me with another girl how can i use her friend who i know tells my ex stuff about me to make my ex jelious ...I really like this girl and i want to get her back talking to her dont work soon as she finds out i like her she plays head games. Total Posts: 10 | Joined Dec. 2005 | Posted on: 10:44 pm on Dec. 6, 2005 | IP omgwtfbbq Newbie     Though I'm newbie, I know the typical answer to this question is GFTOW. (go fuck ten other women) If she's the jealous type.. well.. it'll give her something to be jealous about. But its more about your own perspective. The girl you described (crazy-jealous + head games) doesn't exactly sound ideal. It sounds like you have a strong case of one-itis (being as this is the first girl you've fallen for). Having been there, I know its very hard to change your image of someone when you care for them so much. So what is it that this women has, that 10 other, non-jealous, women who wont fuck with your head, (and will hapilly fuck your body), are lacking? Total Posts: 5 | Joined Dec. 2005 | Posted on: 11:26 pm on Dec. 6, 2005 | IP LighT Newbie     I agree with the other reply dude. Try to get out of the 'falling' thing cuz you're only going down deeper and deeper. Ignore her for a while and try to meet other women and see what they have to offer you. Total Posts: 10 | Joined Feb. 2006 | Posted on: 1:25 pm on Feb. 12, 2006 | IP liveitup Newbie     Well, I have been in this situation before.... I had a GF for a year and a half and the nicer I was to her, the more she fu*c*k*ed with my head. She even went out with my best friend to make me jealous. The best thing to do is if you really want her a back as a GF or as a FWB( Friend with Benefits) is to mess around with some of her hot friend. OR else, tell her that you want to be just friends with her because you think that she is a nice person. Tell her how you went out with some chick on a friday night and had great fun with her. Never give her the complete details - Keep it vague. Tell her great things about this great girl you met and how this girl wants you more. And when she tells you about her fantasies with her present BF, just change the topic. Never tell her that you miss her - She will say that to you in a few days. Let the stories that you tell her stay with her for a few days. She may never say that she wants to get back with you. Start messing with her, like kiss her and stuff - then apologize telling her that you guys shouldnt be doing it. Push in, push out - Thats the strategy. She will start thinking about you all the time. If not all the time, she would want to make love to you since you are desirable by other women. The more you act that you are enjoying yourself, the more she will be wanting to be with you. Follow the rules of the game ); ----- Life is too short - Live it up Total Posts: 3 | Joined Feb. 2006 | Posted on: 8:51 pm on Feb. 12, 2006 | IP Tyranny Newbie     I liked LighT's answer.  It is also the right answer. Even if you don't fuck 10 other women, she sounds like she has to mature and you are better off without her. Some less obvious routines in getting her back or getting over her:   1.  Write her clever letters and/or interesting and long-ish emails.  Why?  Because that kind of thing doesn't happen anymore and women love it.  Tell her how much you miss her, want to spend time with her, blah-blah-blah.  Describe your activities (although not the fucking 10 women bit) and it will demonstrate what a great guy you are and how much fun she is missing.  It's good to practice and you can probably recycle the letters in piecemeal with other women.  Although I don't think this is going to work with your woman (she sounds like a dope and you write like one--get some grammar dude), it allows you to play headgames with her while coming out of the whole thing smelling like a rose.       2.  Don't ask one of her friends out unless you are absolutely sure she is going to go for you.  Ask someone out whom you know she knows (but isn't a friend) and this will probably intrigue her even more.  Why?  Your girlfriend can always sabotage you with her friend.  Also, if your girlfriend's friend negs you, then you look even more pathetic than you are.           3.   Do something to increase your status--this has nothing to do with women but a great way to get over a chick.  For instance, take dancing lessons--you meet a helluva lot of chicks and when you finally do go dancing you can tear it up.  Other stuff you can do:  yoga--great way of meeting girls and getting rid of stress, social exercising--running, biking, etc.  You get the drift.  But for goddsakes, turn it around and get something positive out of it.  You sound like a total chump.        (Edited by Tyranny at 4:58 pm on Feb. 13, 2006) ----- ANCIENT WEAPONS AND HOKEY RELIGIONS ARE NO MATCH FOR A GOOD BLASTER BY YOUR SIDE, KID.    Total Posts: 8 | Joined Dec. 2005 | Posted on: 7:55 pm on Feb. 13, 2006 | IP timeforacatnap Junior Member     right you newbies really need to listen in. i've been in the game for about a year now, i've had supurb amounts of success, granted i used to be natural, until my last GF and i broke up...i'm telling you now ONE-ITIS IS BAD. you need to reframe you inner self, you need to reposition your self perception so that you realise your self worth, use your acheivements to justify yourself not the affection of some little girl. you should always see yourself as the prize, that girls have to work hard to get, you should know and believe you are actually too good for them. if the girl isnt smart enough to realise what a great guy shes with then shes obviously not right for you and shes disqualified herself to you already, in which case shes saved you the trouble of having to disqualify her yourself. hell shes jsut some girl. as you progress through the gmae you'll see that with increased sarging the sheer amount of interacttions will make you immune to getting hung up on one girl, for the most part. and whne you do get hung up you'll know how to deal with it. just go out there start sarging and getting to know all those great girls who are dying to meet someone as cool and fun and enthusiastic as you are, go have some fun, toy with them, see what you can get away with, becasue for every girl that turns you down, thats one girl you'll never have to worryabout or care about ever again! every girl that turns you down is one girl less you have to interact with till you find that perfect one/ones for you! its actually saving you time. and more over, theres so many girls out there, if one turns you down, find another, its that simple ----- signing on with mystery method» in UK in august Total Posts: 75 | Joined Nov. 2005 | Posted on: 6:22 am on Mar. 10, 2006 | IP Tommy Demonic Newbie     First listen to timeforacatnap.  Then if you want to grow some horns listen to me too. LTR is synonymous with vampirism.  The longer you go out with a girl the more sirens song makes you forget all your PUA, or even slightly the effective AFC, pretty much the man inside of you.  Slowly your metamorphosis into a placating woman is taking place…  Quickly kick her to the curb and start acting like a man.  Tell her you just want to be friends because you want to sleep with other women.  Then actually sleep with them.  Ignore her feelings.  Reframe the situation and vamp her.  This should drive her nuts.  Congratulations you have yourself a slave.  Now if anyone knows how to get them to go away let me know. ----- http://www.tommydemonic.com Total Posts: 3 | Joined Mar. 2006 | Posted on: 6:07 pm on Mar. 24, 2006 | IP Stacks Newbie     There is one clear answer here. Have sex with her friend that is a bitch. Show no remorse afterwards. 1. If there is any chance she will get jealous, this is will envelope here with jealousy. this is check mate. You win. 2. If it blows everything by pissing her off too badly, oh fucking well. You fucked her friend and got inside of her head. You win. If you fuck her friend you win. It will probably show here that you don't care and cause her to want you badly. You can't lose. ----- Drive drunk and don't wear condoms. Total Posts: 19 | Joined April 2006 | Posted on: 5:34 am on April 30, 2006 | IP bitchonwheels Newbie     my ex who told me he luved me and introduced me to his whole fam tried this on me. we broke up. then he wanted to be just friend so he could sleep w/ other girls.  i said cool cause i always have a backup man myself.  he starts sleeping with like 3 girls one of which was not my friend but a girl i was cool with.  me and him stayed friends (not fwb) and kept hangin out, we even talked bout the other people we where hookin up with. but his game was flawed and he ended up fuckin himself.  all his other ex girls were crazy stalkers who still fucked him after they broke up. he was counting on me to be all up on his dick the same way. but his plan backfired.  we hung out one day and he begged me to start sleeping w/ him again.  he asked me if i ever thought about hookin up and i was like why, and he was like cause i think bout sleepin w/ u all the time. i almost started to laugh in his face. i replied no i never think bout sleepin with u again cause after we broke up u turned me off.  he was like, well all my other ex girlfriends wanted to hook up after we broke up. well thats the diff tween me and them, ur beggin me like the dog u r and even w/ all ur other girls u still cant have the one and only one that u actually begged 4. he even offered to give up his other women for me! i still said no. gotta break 'em down. make 'em want u so bad they will give u their pride and balls gift wrapped. ----- adam asked god about eve, "why did u make her so beautiful?" god replied, "so u would luv her." adam then asked, "why did u make her so stupid?" god repled, "so she would luv u." Total Posts: 11 | Joined Aug. 2006 | Posted on: 4:15 pm on Aug. 22, 2006 | IP aesop Member     Im gonna tell you the one thing you dont want to hear.  Cut All Ties.   You need to stop this girl cold turkey.  Dont have her pictures out, no phone calls, no text messages, no emails. If she wants away from you then give her what she wants.  Go on with your life and one of two things will happen. 1. She realizes that she is thinking about you all the time now that you really are 'gone' from her life and she will contact YOU. 2.  You never talk to her again and realize that she wasnt the right one for you and you'll be a better man for it.   It is so easy to remember all the wonderful moments that you had w/ a girl, but also remember how many times she fucked with your head and made you crazy.  There is better out there, someone who will want you for who you are and not try to turn you into someone you arent. ----- Pray for a good harvest, but continue to hoe!! Total Posts: 150 | Joined Sep. 2005 | Posted on: 12:25 pm on Aug. 23, 2006 | IP

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