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scanning Newbie     ahhh long story... met this chick out one night.. after the week after week meeting at the same place.. hooked up a few times, i ended up at her place one night, through the week, we just kicked back watching tv, talking... we both had just came out of relationships... anyways, she has been doing the whole pull away, then when i go out pickup other chicks, she sends messages... i ended up finally pashing her the other night, then (even after i told her that this was her last chance with me) she insists on ignoring her phone when i call... so currently, im going to do the whole... move on thing, but i know in a week or two she will send me a message or somthing and try and get me back in... what i need to do is turn it around and have her chase me... just dont know how... i've already try'd working the angle to fill the gap that she is weak on.. but dont really know if its working..... Total Posts: 3 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 9:39 am on June 18, 2006 | IP riverspecialist Newbie     I have a problem with this sort of thing too.  I think love stories in the movies help perpetuate beliefs that this will work.  Although these movies are no more realistic than other movies like Men in black, the matrix or spiderman etc.  Almost always a guy is after some girl.  When he gets rejected one of 2 thigns usually happen.  He wins her with persistence or he moves on and she falls for him the way u suggest.   The truth is, in real life, a little well calculated persistence goes a long way.  In the movie the guy usually turns his life upside down to win her, not to mention hes always a 6'4" knockout.  Unless you are brad pitt or clooney (most people arent), then your not sweat and dreamy....your a stalker! Now for the other wya to win...by ignoring her?  This takes even more calculation.  This might work for girls you are going to be around a lot because of the circumstance (coworker, etc), inwhich case player tricks arent that useful anyway.  Unless cirumstances will keep her around to see what a prize you are, making them chase you is easier said than done.  I really like the LJBF-pivot thing.  Ive unknowlingly used a few times with success.  I really dont see many other options anyway. ----- Shoot for the moon, at least you'll be among the stars Total Posts: 18 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 5:36 pm on June 18, 2006 | IP scanning Newbie     yea, its interesting... i know i have become the bitch, so just need to turn it around and not give a shit, then she'll message me and thats the point where i have to turn it somehow... now i've kissed her, i should try and let that sink in and play on her mind without any words from me... (Edited by scanning at 8:55 pm on June 18, 2006) Total Posts: 3 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 8:52 pm on June 18, 2006 | IP riverspecialist Newbie     sounds like you got it all figured out.  But, i dont know what age you are or where you live...but a kiss is not anything like sealing the deal.  I live in pittsburgh and im 23, a kiss is hardly a close here.  They might give me their number, but unless i make a real close, its like i just waved hello.  Maybe I just need to find better places to sarge and do more NLP.  gl (Edited by riverspecialist at 3:54 am on June 23, 2006) (Edited by riverspecialist at 3:54 am on June 23, 2006) ----- Shoot for the moon, at least you'll be among the stars Total Posts: 18 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 3:53 am on June 23, 2006 | IP scanning Newbie     well, more developments... went out again last night, ended up bing with her again for most of the night, got her to open up allot more about why she's so scared... ends up she wants me to call her on the weekend again..... no doubt tho, she will pull the old "ignore the phone" again.... FARK.... Total Posts: 3 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 8:00 am on June 23, 2006 | IP Zao Newbie     ok... simple scan.. this is what you do... Dont call her... this will be punishment for when she didnt anwser her phone. or return your calls. if you are guna be serious about putting her on a leash it will take a little self control and trust in your self that. if you dont call her she will eventually call you.. and if she doesnt then... Move on.  Your better then waiting around for her. ----- Bold, Italic and http://www.yourdomain.com Total Posts: 3 | Joined July 2006 | Posted on: 1:54 am on July 13, 2006 | IP FUBAR Newbie     Have you F**ked ten girls yet? I hope you have. If you're still chasing her and haven't gotten anywhere, get over it. This is a great example of one-itis. The key is FAST seduction. I used to love the idea of having that girl to be there for all the time and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.  Right now, I'm trying to master the approach. The biggest tool to have is confidence. If you have the confidence, it really doesn't matter what you do because everything will work. Confidence is the greatest aphrodisiac. While I am focusing primarily on good approaches, it is easy to recognize one-itis and horrible examples of one-itis I've personally had. Detecting this horrible disease is one of the first steps of recovery. Hope it works out for you ----- FUBAR Total Posts: 15 | Joined July 2006 | Posted on: 2:18 am on Aug. 5, 2006 | IP bitchonwheels Newbie     wow reading these post will really help me to recognize pussy ass whiney losers when they try to run some lame ass mind game on me.  i cant wait to tell all my girlfriends about this site so they can see how pathetic guys r in their quest 4 tha poon-tang. ----- adam asked god about eve, "why did u make her so beautiful?" god replied, "so u would luv her." adam then asked, "why did u make her so stupid?" god repled, "so she would luv u." Total Posts: 11 | Joined Aug. 2006 | Posted on: 3:27 pm on Aug. 22, 2006 | IP aesop Member     Something tells me that Bitch is in need of some new batteries for that vibrator that she has lodged in her ass... ----- Pray for a good harvest, but continue to hoe!! Total Posts: 150 | Joined Sep. 2005 | Posted on: 7:45 pm on Aug. 30, 2006 | IP

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