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clovett
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Heres a thought, but please take into consideration that because I'm new to this, I have no idea of the jargon used in this culture, anyway, a story to illustrate my point: spotted a rather attractive young lady at a bar and did a little smile and wave from across the room when we made eye contact. I did my thing, worked the room talked with friends, made new ones, etc. for most of the night, all the while making sure that this target noticed me not paying attention to her. There came a point in the evening when she excused herself from the masses. At this point I made a point to let her see me excuse myself from my conversation. I walked up to her, introduced myself, and indicated that it had been a busy social night, but was glad to finally get a chance to introduce myself. She indicated that a guy had never just walked up an introduced himself before and that she was impressed by it (granted, I was in a college bar, where most guys pick up lines start with "what sorority are you in" . After some small talk and a drink (I have my own philosophy on "drink buying" and when it is appropriate...ask if you're curious) I told her that I would like to go watch a movie that she had just indicated she really liked (I wanted to give her an excuse to leave with me other than "do you want to go fire?"--seems that girls like to be given an excuse to leave so they dont feel slutty). I took her home, it was fantastic...she was a giver! One obvious drawback of this approach is that if the girl had wanted to stay at the bar a little longer, you run the risk of having to be around the girl AND the guys who have been hitting on her all night---this is bad because you've already showed the guys your hand--they know you're trying to game her so theres no chance to befriend them and get their guard down--In my experience, they're likely to gang up on you with the "group cold shoulder" or clown you---then you dont look quite as socially adept as you did when you walked up and said hello.....so it's kind of an all or nothing approach, but it can work....hope that helps...
----- C.L.
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Total Posts: 5 | Joined Oct. 2006 | Posted on: 1:18 pm on Oct. 4, 2006 | IP
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