» Welcome Guest: log in | Register

	Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide Board     The 3 seconds rule         the bartender...
	Mark all forum posts as read   [ help ] » Welcome to The 3 seconds rule «

Topic Jump << Back Next >> Single Page for this topic Forum moderated by: webmaster

clovett Newbie     I'm new to this (see post titled "fill me in", but I already have a specific question. There's a bar tender that I'd like to hook up with. I find girls that are "hired to look good" interesting because they realize it...and sometimes it makes for easier game.--in my experience, I like to act somewhat uninterested, and let them "fall" into us discussing plans for later in the evening. Thus far, the chi (woman) has fit the category, but I find myself unable to close the deal. She keeps coming up just short of "what are you doing later," "well, you should call me," etc....there has got to be a way that I can be proactive in my approach, but I'm having trouble finding something that will work now---I've already established myself as socially secure, but impartial (I think...). I want to reinforce her for not being the typical "I get hit on by every guy" bartender, but I don't want to become aversive by being to forward, which, in my eyes, makes just the same as every chump that runs game on her. Where should I look for advice? Ideas? ----- C.L. Total Posts: 5 | Joined Oct. 2006 | Posted on: 12:30 pm on Oct. 4, 2006 | IP TazDevil Newbie     I'm probabaly more of a noob to this than you, but I've got this feeling that female bartenders are supposed to always appear to be available, but never actually be available. That might be the reason for her always staying just out of reach. Sadly I'm not much of a player, that's why I'm not going to try and tell you what to do.... I have'nt got  a clue! Sorry! I'm really looking forward to seeing som guy who knows what he's talking about tell you what to do! I'd love to know! ----- Learning as fast as I can Total Posts: 4 | Joined Oct. 2006 | Posted on: 8:07 am on Oct. 16, 2006 | IP mantis Newbie            Honestly your dealing with damaged goods there... As a n00b you better pack up shop till you get better at the game.  Bar tenders get practice tons of times each and every time they work, their a product of hundreds, if not thousands of afcs hitting on them.  I myself am decent at the game but I dont even bother with bartenders because they usually have pretty solid preconceived notions about things and they're harder to "turn" or open up etc. Good luck though Total Posts: 4 | Joined Oct. 2006 | Posted on: 4:48 pm on Oct. 20, 2006 | IP

Topic Jump << Back Next >> Single Page for this topic Forum Jump --   The Basic Rules Be the Alpha/Dominant male Do my looks matter? Good traits to have It all comes down to satisfaction Look and feel your best Nice guys vs jerks Should you express or contain your sexual desires? The 3 seconds rule The rules with your wingman Wanna play the dating game? Women want good sex --   How to Get Started At a party Casual meetings vs pick-ups Experiment! Fluff talk How to initiate a conversation Just say "Hi" Kinesthetics Mirroring On confidence Reading body language Talk to girls Talking to her = echoing her The "don't"s of fluff talk --   Approaching Women And Getting Them Interested "GM" Style "Neg Hits" Approaches Club/dancing Demonstrate value and personality Eliciting Values General guidelines on approaching Gimmicks Group Techniques If she seems unapproachable More Patterning Skills Pace and lead Patterning Remote Seduction Sex Talk The Patterns The importance of a first impression Where to meet girls --   You've Got Her Interested...Now What? Asking for a... date? Building a bridge AFC-style Capitalise Closing Common signs of interest If more than one girl is interested in you If she has second-thoughts Inviting the girl over to your place Making a timely exit My home is my love-nest Networking and pivots Our World routine Proceeding instead of closing Reading the signs of a "committed" woman --   How to Handle Girls Act like its special Be busy Cook for her and "date" at home Have and reveal secrets If she compliments you Judge her by her actions, not by her words Managing many relationships at once Paying her a compliment Put a price on yourself Romantic gifts and things to do Show a willingness to walk away Suggest competition Use her friends Use poetry When should you call a woman after having sex with her? --   Troubleshooting "Have you ever...?" gets busted But I really want this girl! Dealing with rejection Ejecting If she asks "Are you trying to seduce me?" If she asks for YOUR number instead If she cancels a date If she doesn't return your phone-calls/e-mails If she says "Let's just be friends" If she says "Why do you ask?" If she shows disrespect for you If she still refuses to give you her number Nothing works with the girl The age difference problem --   The Boyfriend Problem Dealing with boyfriend issues --   Micellaneous A game of Crash and Burn Bad jokes Fun and games Miscellaneous suggestions and observations about seduction More things to do for fun Top colognes

Topic Options: Lock topic | Unlock topic | Delete topic | Move topic