A little about me first.. I graduated with a 4 yr degree in experimental psychology (focused on evolutionary psy. and abnormal psy.) from a well known college in NY and it seems the only thing it helped me with is getting laid... I know it def didnt help me get a job thats for sure, but anyways lets continue.
Before I even started my college career I began reading some posts on this website and its funny that after college I return once again.. I think some of the things ive learned can be really helpful to all you guys.. ALSO, my room mate was a pretty known pua in the field as well (randomn luck I guess ; )
Anyways after going out 4-5 times a night getting drunk (although being drunk hurts your chances) and chasing women for 3 years using a combination of psychology and pua skills ive come to a few solid conclusions. But, keep in mind that what works great for me may not for you.
Randomn tips that ive learned...
#1 Nomatter how big of a loser you were or are it doesent matter. You have to decide that its time to change your destiny in any way you wish to shape it ( eg; getting good with the ladies etc)
I was about 17-18 when I got really sick and fedup of not getting laid, so I came in search of answers and knowledge and this site was one of the first that popped up. I went out a lot more and started practicing and reading books, etc. I soon learned that picking up women was much like a skill such as ice skating or riding a bike. I mean granted unless your brad pitt, but honestly most of us are not that good looking.
#2 Women are nothing like us at all.. And believe me thats a good thing.
But you have to start learning to fight fire with fire.. A mans weapons are logic and reason, and honesty.. Then why is it that women always say that we have to lie and cheat etc etc. Because we have to obviously come down to their level to play the game. If you only knew the games most women played youd be amazed.
The point im trying to make here is that the HB 10 that your going to hit on is 9 times out of 10 NOTHING like you in any way. Physically speaking, shes amazing, a model etc. We are not, lets face it. Mentally speaking, shes a mental midget. Relying on her looks to get anything she may get in life, the only strengthed part in her brain is the one to reject guys because thats most likely the only neuro pathway ever used. I know it sounds shovanistic, but lets at least be honest..
#3 You really have to become a master of analyzing your target(s) before you can be truly good. Find out what makes them tick and using your skill and game use that against them.
A good example is a girl with father issues, if I found this out I would immediately start treating her like total shit. Why would I do this? Because thats what shes used to, comfortable with, etc etc. Everyone gets pissed with a guy who treats a girl like crap, but the reason is. is that if he treated her good she would leave him. Does this make any sense at all, NO. But it gets you laid so use it.
#4 It's always good to pick a target, never just go for whatever bites. Your chances are better.Then you can use more advanced skills like avoiding your target so they can build up some curiousity and jealousy.
One example I had last year happened at college at a friends party. I got the target interested by doing some card tricks and other misc chick crack and then avoided her for awhile by flirting with her another room mate. Then all of a sudden she busts in the room and asks what im doing, "oh showing your roomie some fun tricks etc" She then replies to come in my room and goto sleep with her haha. Good times... Later I found out she was a virgin though =(
#5 You are always the exception. Your different than any other guy, you dont want just a hookup, your interesting, smart, funny, cocky, you do magic, etc etc. ** Thats not true obviously, but thats what you want them to believe.
One huge rule that I learned concerning this was that you can never show interest in a girl, in a sexual way at least... You just want a friend so to speak.. I usually play it cool like this until the girl starts melting in my arms and then after she likes you its cool to do whatever. But honestly ive fucked girls just being "friends" like this, you can always do anything you want and still be "friends". Seriously try it, fuck a girl by just saying you wanna be friends the whole time.. It's easier then you think.
#6 Money means a little, but not very much when going out sarging.. Let me explain
I've been a poor college student for most of my life it seems (or the past 4-5 yrs at least). And you do not need seriously more than 5-10 dollars each night to bring back girls. Although if you live at your parents still thats gonna hurt you. As long as you have your own place and not with your rents your going to be in good shape usually. Honestly with the whole money situation, I have girls take me out and buy me food these days. Pay for my gas, cellphone etc. Im telling you the real deal though, its possible. I can get 7s and 8s to do this, not 10s yet though. (ha)
** BUT.. The more money you have to work with the better, 1) it builds confidence 2) girls love money, obviously 3) buying 1 or 2 drinks (max) is always a help. It gets them talking and interested, and the more of that the better.
#7 Clothes/Appearance. This part is important, women are caddy as we all know so clothes do matter. The most important point is not what exactly you wear, but what others are wearing.
What this means is that what your wearing should be not the top clothing around but near the top. Most people my age wear abrecrombie and fitch dress shirts with nice pants or expensive jeans etc. That's upstate ny. But in LA you obviously might have to shell out some more money to look good and trendy. So my point here is be trendy with your environment, and especially not overly trendy. Find out what the top colognes are and buy one, and use it. Always shower, have a great haircut and if you can wear contacts if you wear glasses (although some girls go for guys with glasses). Common sense here.. Look around, see whats the best and use it.
#8 The importance of a good wingman, group of friends..
This is HUGE. I used to have 2 friends id always go out with and constantly get 9s and 10s, the hottest bitches youve ever seen. This was back at college. But I have a group of friends from back when I was younger and I'd be lucky to catch a 7, catching my drift? There are just some people that you can go out with and theres a great positive energy and the women just go for it. Then theres the depressing type friends, the AFCS who never will change etc, the guys that are your good friends but picking up girls is not something you want to indulge in with them. You'll find out which ones work and dont real fast. Avoid the friends who are depressing and also the ones who clown you too much. Good looking friends and ones who share your style work better also.
#9 You ARE the life of the party.. You are not the alpha male, you ARE one step above him.
Most alpha males are fucking retards anyways, high school prom kings who own their own landscaping business (mowing lawns). Although nobody likes to deal with them, alpha males are usually an obstacle in the way of your 9-10 dream woman. One of the most important parts is that they are gonna try to clown you and neg you etc, keep a positive attitude throw back some shit and hang in there. Because a HB has seen a million alpha males in her day but shes never seen one of you, a pua or an educated guy who wants to meet a hot girl etc. Whatever you wanna call yourself.
#10 Do not let the game consume you. When you reach a peak level you will realize that all of these women mean nothing to you.
In my experience the game never let me connect with a person in most cases (not all). All it did was get me laid, and make sure you keep that mind. Any girl you use game on to fuck and not be totally yourself you are risking ruining a good relationship. Trust me on that one. My last year in college I went through a phase where I broke so many girls hearts I couldnt count. It really gets to you after awhile and it can be stressful. I seriously wished all these girls would leave me a lone. I almost failed out of college etc because of it. Thats an attestment to how much my game had evolved I shit you not.
Hope you found some useful information guys! Good Luck! I have pictures of most of my sarges so if you need proof hit me up. AIM DESAN2005 Email: osw***1@ya***.com[ ? ] Or if you need any tips im hereee. peace
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