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WhiteKnightZ Newbie     Ok, read this stuff about body language two days ago. I know her about a year and a half, but she said a time ago ljbf to me, but that she wasn't ever gonna be in a relationship or have kids, she isn't gay or something(she told me that). But since I read the whole stuff about body language(had a great time studying it with her today), and got a lot of positive signals(eyes,legs, lips,hair,voice,hands & miscelaneus) & one negative, crossed legs, but crossed leg/knee on top pointing away. But got a lot of touching(brushing by me with her body, leaning on me, with her breast, standing with her hips touching my body, tried some kino, but she responded neutral(did a lot of the same, and kept brushing/touching). So now I ask myself, WTF, coz, some of the last things weren't mentioned so I can't interprete it. Thx for any help on this Total Posts: 1 | Joined April 2006 | Posted on: 8:03 pm on April 6, 2006 | IP LoneFing3r Newbie     MAn u NEED help!  judging from your inabilty to read signals I will assume you are fairly young. Firstly, you dont need a manual or list for signals to know how to read women ur trying way to hard. It is about feel, it is about experience and that is why all PUA's Practice. BUT one easy rule I follow is...With anything a girl does, think how she would react if you were some AFC and she was completely disinterested.  FOR EXAMPLE I was at a private party alone at the bar drinking for a moment...and the bar chick tapped me on the shoulder (who was hot) and offered me an easter egg with a smile saying "shh, dont tell anyone,  its my private stash" .  NOW STOP! IF YOU were at the bar and some fat girl was chugging down a beer, would you go out of her way to talk to her, offer her chocolate? NO! (unless from pity) Do you think giving away chocolate was on her mind and I just happened to be lucky?....NO.... it was a concious thought and outright initiation of conversation on her behalf! Sharing is not somthing we do naturally...especially with strangers. So what im saying is...if a girl treats you in any way different to an AFC there is SOME reason behind it and 80% of the time it is linked to sexual interest. If a girl makes eye contact with you ONCE on a bus...why was she looking at you?  She certainly wasnt looking at FAt balding guyz in their mid thirtys!There was a REASON ...she wanted to check you out. BTW this girl you described sounds like she is doing everything BAR sucking your dick to show she is interested! Kino is just the platform from which you jump. Kino is how u test the water depth before jumping in and breaking your neck...it will lead to nothing in itself.   This girl brushes against you and doesnt budge an inch...if the nerdiest guy in the school was in the exact same position would she move away? ffs yes she would! You also said you did kino and she just KINOED back rofl! and you call that nuetral? Man her kinoing back says " OK....you can start kissing me any time now...waiting...."   She will wait/kino until YOU do as you please and make a more serious gesture, maybe when you are heavy kinoing at a party you just grab her waist like she if your girlfriend and take her to the dancefloor....or just to a wall and look her in the eyes and kiss her. Be daring...confident and above all, a dominant male. I hope MY inane rambling yealds so AFC wisdom...HAve fun Total Posts: 8 | Joined April 2006 | Posted on: 9:11 am on April 26, 2006 | IP Aniken Newbie      I'll again have to agree with Lonefing on this one.  The time for analyzing is over it's time to get involved.  Make your next move.  This will take you to the next level and thats when the seduction will begin.  Too many guys get caught up in this "Does she like me?" phase.  Which can be the kiss of death since a womans window never remains open forever.  Get busy and post your progress. ----- The greatest trick the devil ever played was convincing the world he didnt exsist. Total Posts: 22 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 4:25 pm on June 27, 2006 | IP aesop Member     I gotta say, I think Lonefingr gavea perfect response, kudos on that one! Now as far as the girl goes, Knight, you have to remember that reading body language is important, but you cant put all your focus on just body language!  Its almost like you were trying to bake a cake w/out half of the ingredients.  Its a combination of different things that you need to interpret in order to determine the next step. In this case, one she gave several positive touches then you HAVE to make the move.  You cant sit there and try to interpret every single thing, b/c its just too much info... you need to learn to adapt to what is happening and make adjustments accordingly. ----- Pray for a good harvest, but continue to hoe!! Total Posts: 150 | Joined Sep. 2005 | Posted on: 3:28 pm on Aug. 30, 2006 | IP

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