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kirby Newbie     (whole post edited to cover my tracks - sorry) In short, neg, neg, neg!! (Edited by Kirby at 2:03 pm on Dec. 2, 2004) Total Posts: 9 | Joined Nov. 2004 | Posted on: 4:30 pm on Dec. 1, 2004 | IP Doug Newbie     I'm not sure I follow you. Do you mean "negotiate, negotiate, negotiate"? Total Posts: 4 | Joined Nov. 2004 | Posted on: 3:41 pm on Dec. 12, 2004 | IP gOOfyeRRoR Newbie     Strippers eh? In the past I followed a few rules that the seduction community has been using for awhile. I start by ignoring them. Strippers are looking for your money. They will say and do whatever they can to get whats in your wallet. I have played by the same guidelines that follw since I was 19 and have bedded several strippers. It may be blind luck, but I think a little bit of game helped out: 1) Go on a day and time when there are few customers. This gets you more attention without having to seek it. Ex. Sundays around 4pm when they open. It also helps if you are just an average guy. 2) Always take a good reliable wing. 3) Don't buy/pay for anything. When asked if you want a drink/dance simply reply with a " No thanks" and explain that you are just there to relax or hang out with a friend. This makes the girls seek you more because there usually aren't too many people there if any, so you are going to receive a lot of attention. 4) After you are plagued enough by their questions simply ask them if they wouldn't mind just sitting and talking. Since its slow they have nothing else to do right? Don't talk about their job or why they work there. Focus the conversation on THEM. Ask open ended questions. Let them be the center of attention. They take their cloths off for a living, attention is what they want. 5) Freeze out. Every five or so minutes go back to a previous conversation you and your wing had. Talk  amongst the two of you and ignore her. Once She gets to the point of feeling awkward for not getting enough attention she will want to walk away. 6) Reel her back in. Bring her back into the conversation. Let her think that you want to talk to her but she is not the only reason you are there. 7) run your pick up. Ex. " You are a very down to earth person. What steps can we take to continue this conversation?" Ex. " You are so energetic. I think we could have a lot of fun together and who knows, maybe we can become pretty good friends" 8) Get outta there. If you hang around too long they will think you hang out at strip bars regularly and no stripper wants a reguar unless he is loaded. If she thinks this is something you do on an every now and then basis she will believe that you are a decent guy and different from the rest.   I am no pro, however I have run this at 90% of the strip bars I have been to in various cities (LA, San Diego, Vegas, New Orleans, Austin, San Antonio) and have number closed regularly, kiss closed plenty, and bedded several times. Remember, most strippers are sluts. They are used to being hit on. They expect it. Stand apart from the rest of the typical strip club goers and you have a better chance. ----- gOOfyeRRoR Total Posts: 7 | Joined April 2006 | Posted on: 4:41 am on April 16, 2006 | IP aesop Member     i know that noone is gonna like this response, but I try to steer clear of picking up girls at the strip clubs.  Dont get me wrong, I have on a few occasions and i've dated several others that i've met outside of the club, but no matter what, they are there to make money and thats it.  I completely understand the idea of acting uninterested, but then they'll just go on to the next guy who WILL act interested.  If you still want to go for it, then I do think that negs are the best way to get the girls attention at a strip club.   I pay them attention, but not too sexually, give them negs, you dont want to be too direct of course, but jsut enough to get them out of their comfort zone.  Guys always tell them they are beautiful so I dont... I tell them that they have to earn compliments.  Give it a try and it will work better than you'd think.  Also dont let them stray, its easy for them to move on to an easier target, so keep them interested with soemthing to get them thinking. ----- Pray for a good harvest, but continue to hoe!! Total Posts: 150 | Joined Sep. 2005 | Posted on: 4:51 pm on May 10, 2006 | IP wingo Newbie     Its best to pick up strippers when they arent at a strip club..You have to learn how to identify strippers when they are in regular clubs. Total Posts: 4 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 2:10 am on June 4, 2006 | IP com Newbie     Doug, DEFINITION: neg / neg hit A negative remark towards a girl designed to break her indifference to you by showing her that you are indifferent to her beauty (or other striking features). Not an insult, that would be bad. More like "Those are interesting nails - are they real?" or "It's really cute how your nose wiggles when you talk - look, there it goes again! <chuckle>". No more than 2 negs on an average HB (7-9/7-9), a maximum of 3 on a super HB (10/10). Negs are pretty much a necessity for 10s or strippers (whether they're 10s or not - simply because they are in an environment which is conducive to them thinking they are 10s). Check the acronyms link if you see something like that. Com Total Posts: 1 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 3:17 am on June 27, 2006 | IP prefamous Newbie     [quote]Quote: from gOOfyeRRoR on 4:41 am on April 16, 2006[br]Strippers eh? In the past I followed a few rules that the seduction community has been using for awhile. I start by ignoring them. Strippers are looking for your money. They will say and do whatever they can to get whats in your wallet. I have played by the same guidelines that follw since I was 19 and have bedded several strippers. It may be blind luck, but I think a little bit of game helped out: 1) Go on a day and time when there are few customers. This gets you more attention without having to seek it. Ex. Sundays around 4pm when they open. It also helps if you are just an average guy. 2) Always take a good reliable wing. 3) Don't buy/pay for anything. When asked if you want a drink/dance simply reply with a " No thanks" and explain that you are just there to relax or hang out with a friend. This makes the girls seek you more because there usually aren't too many people there if any, so you are going to receive a lot of attention. 4) After you are plagued enough by their questions simply ask them if they wouldn't mind just sitting and talking. Since its slow they have nothing else to do right? Don't talk about their job or why they work there. Focus the conversation on THEM. Ask open ended questions. Let them be the center of attention. They take their cloths off for a living, attention is what they want. 5) Freeze out. Every five or so minutes go back to a previous conversation you and your wing had. Talk  amongst the two of you and ignore her. Once She gets to the point of feeling awkward for not getting enough attention she will want to walk away. 6) Reel her back in. Bring her back into the conversation. Let her think that you want to talk to her but she is not the only reason you are there. 7) run your pick up. Ex. " You are a very down to earth person. What steps can we take to continue this conversation?" Ex. " You are so energetic. I think we could have a lot of fun together and who knows, maybe we can become pretty good friends" 8) Get outta there. If you hang around too long they will think you hang out at strip bars regularly and no stripper wants a reguar unless he is loaded. If she thinks this is something you do on an every now and then basis she will believe that you are a decent guy and different from the rest.   I am no pro, however I have run this at 90% of the strip bars I have been to in various cities (LA, San Diego, Vegas, New Orleans, Austin, San Antonio) and have number closed regularly, kiss closed plenty, and bedded several times. Remember, most strippers are sluts. They are used to being hit on. They expect it. Stand apart from the rest of the typical strip club goers and you have a better chance. [/quote] all the strip bars I have been to in california where I live. usually deja vu in ontario california, usually the girl will just wlak up and ask for a dance if you don't want to they ask another guy. that place always at least a couple guys there even when it has just opened Total Posts: 8 | Joined Aug. 2006 | Posted on: 2:56 pm on Aug. 5, 2006 | IP prefamous Newbie     [quote]Quote: from wingo on 2:10 am on June 4, 2006[br]Its best to pick up strippers when they arent at a strip club..You have to learn how to identify strippers when they are in regular clubs. [/quote] Total Posts: 8 | Joined Aug. 2006 | Posted on: 2:51 am on Aug. 8, 2006 | IP

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