Wow, you guys are got really tramautising past...Just to share with you, picking up girls online is simple and fast, IF you know the magic words.3yrs ago, when i was new at this whole thing, i played the numbers game, just like what the nyc guy said. I literally sent out 30 over mails a day. You guessed the response? A couple I would say, sometimes i would get lucky though.
Now when i look back to the original template i use to send, i almost laugh myself off the chair, Its so damn ridiculous and wussified. Man...its unbeleivable. Talk about childhood memory lol.
Anyway, Ive been in online dating for some time already, used friendster, match and just created an acc for myspace a few mths ago. Btw, if your serious into online dating, use match, myspace. That will garuntee maximum response.
Right now Im gona share with you guys a few of the most impt things on online dating.
#1 Tic-tac-toe, spot the real deal.
This is especially impt. Ive estimated that around 10% of accounts of myspace are "ghost"(meaning fake acc,i'll talk more about them later) Ignore them, your just wasting your time messaging them.
How to spot the real deal.
Look at her pictures, if she got one pic, no description of herself, technically an empty profile, forget it.
Look for the blogs, if she has a blog on myspace or a link to it, its 99% real.
Lookout for the comments she gets, ignore those "thx for the add BS" Spot the real comments from her real friends, thats the best testimonial of her true existence. And check that friends profile too, she may be a "ghost" too.
With these basic checklist in hand, you're sure to message someone REAL.
#2 Ghost profile.
Ever wonder why your wussy messages dont get any reply? Because the hotties are receiving BS like that 50 times daily(no joke)
And you seriously think they are gona reply to msges like "Hey can we be friends? add me at Im_***y@lo***.com[ ? ] and we can have a boring conversation on msn, and i hope i can bore you into liking me. "
Do yourself a favour and setup a "ghost" profile. If your living at US, literally copy the entire pic and profile of a hottie in UK(preferable a 9/10) and clone it into your own. If your living in the UK, clone one from the US, vice versa. Dont ever clone the same chick living in the same neighborhood you place. Its just stupidity.
Edit the profile so it looks real/congruent.
Add some myspace layout, its simple, just copy a html code and paste it into the profiles. No real women would want a cliche profile, you've gone this far, go a little futher to perfection.
As the saying goes "add the pubs to the pussy to make it real..."
And then wait...you'll see how many wussified messages these "ghost" profile receives, its amazing, i figured you guys probably see your messages in there, dont sue them for plagairism though, or you'll be suing the other 80million myspace users, or they will be suing you! Ah!! THE IRONY
Online dating is so simple and easy and you guys can screw up!!?? This gives me total right to verbally abuse you, if you disagree, you're wrong.
#3 Personalise
Its funny why people put so much importance in customizing their profile, after all, its the third thing the chicks are going to see, after your subject and your message.
Have a killer template that you're gona send, do some minor differentiating when you send it to diff girls. Laymans term, personalise it.
Eg. If she states she loves cooking, add in something like
*brownie points for you loving to cook*
Personlise it!! Make it looks like this email was specially written for her. HBs can smell canned messages.
Ok, I've spent like an hour plus typing all theses + the other 2 comment in this thread. Nuggets of gold, go check it out, Im just feeling extremely gererous today.
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