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BigBull Newbie     I live in quite a small town by the coast, and when I go out, there's always 60-70% men in the pubs/clubs, and among the girls, there are never many pretty ones. On a Saturday night, I never see more than 10 girls that I'd like to talk to. I guess you guys are going to tell me to move to a bigger city, but that's not an option. Anyone out there with the same problem? What to do when there really aren't many pretty girls around? ----- You can't kill me, motherfuckers! Total Posts: 31 | Joined May 2006 | Posted on: 3:48 pm on June 18, 2006 | IP EngeL Newbie     i have the same problem. there's always the same girls, and they arent that pretty.. the only sollution i have, is to take the buss to a bigger city. either you get on the bus, or maybe find yourself a nice guy Total Posts: 2 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 3:58 am on June 25, 2006 | IP BigBull Newbie     Well, I'd rather die than be homosexual. OK, a bit offensive to the homosexuals, but I guess they're not in this forum anyway... ----- You can't kill me, motherfuckers! Total Posts: 31 | Joined May 2006 | Posted on: 9:08 am on June 29, 2006 | IP FUBAR Newbie     I live in a rather small city myself. I went out to a pub for the first time ever. I walk around this city (second most obese city in all of Canada---Sudbury ON) and I'm actually disgusted by the majority of girls. I went to a pub tonight figuring I'd give it a shot. I asked someone I knew where a good place to pick up was. He told me in the pub I was at and another night club. There actually were attractive girls there. I didn't approach them. I had no fucking excuse. Living in a small/obese city is not an excuse. You want some honesty? I was a fucking pansie. I live in the second most obese city in my entire country. There were at least 20 girls in that pub I could have approached but I was to chicken shit to do so. While I type this, guys that are fucking shit compared to me are fucking the girls that I wish I were fucking right now. So ask yourself something. Are you making excuses for not approaching people? Are you too chicken shit (like I was tonight) to approach the actually attractive girls? I learned something tonight. The guys that did approach the girls I wanted to approach but didn't have the balls to approach had a fairly good level of success. The girls seemed rather responsive. Stop making excuses for the lack of balls that you have. Get out there and talk to the attractive girls. If you see ten attractive girls...why the fuck are you not talking to them? Are you a pussy like I am? My next post will be of me having the fucking balls to approach. You need to admit you're a pussy before you can get over it! ----- FUBAR Total Posts: 15 | Joined July 2006 | Posted on: 3:26 am on July 29, 2006 | IP FUBAR Newbie     Well I finally grew a pair. I went out tonight and approached a girl. It was pretty easy. It was going pretty well right up to the point where her friends showed up and the bartender IDed me and told me that my ID wasn't valid (it wasn't fake - it was a photo health card because I don't have a license). Even if you live in a small city, there are attractive girls out there. I have always complained that there aren't any. The fact is, there just isn't an abundance of them. There are only a select few. There may only be 10 girls worth talking to but you MUST approach them. Chances are these girls are complaining that they never meet decent guys. You must learn the material and BE better than the other douche bags in your city. If you can't pick up 8s in a small city, you'll never pick up 9s in a larger city. It may be hard but you must try. The only real downfall is that while you could go to a large city and have multiple sets to chose from, you may only have up to three sets in a night if you live in a small city. It's all about capitalising on your opportunities. If you live in a small city, you can't afford to pick or chose because the situation isn't "perfect." You just need to be versatile. It's a challenge but it's possible. ----- FUBAR Total Posts: 15 | Joined July 2006 | Posted on: 2:44 am on Aug. 3, 2006 | IP FUBAR Newbie     Okay, so living in a small city can be very discouraging. I went out this evening to sarge and I found absolutely no girl above the age of 16 who was even close to being a 7. Yes, it can be depressing. It's frustrating to look and feel good and go out to sarge to find nothing approachable. I went to the only busy shopping mall and to the city bookstore. NOTHING! Universities are good. Once classes start up again, there are many good looking girls at the University.   If you live in a small city, if it has a large university or college, those are likely the BEST places to meet girls. Other than that, bars CAN be good. Malls, can often be younger girls or older pig women who love to spend their AFC husbands' money (these women are often overweight because women let lose after marriage). The only thing you can do (if you are stuck in the city you live in for the time being) is keep looking. Maybe practice approaching girls. Any field work is experience. Good Luck! ----- FUBAR Total Posts: 15 | Joined July 2006 | Posted on: 9:38 pm on Aug. 3, 2006 | IP Casa Newbie     I cant confirm it, but Im 80% sure its an excuse for yourself for not appraoching them. I use to be like that too, telling myslef, naw, shes not hot enough, not rich enough, BS BS and more BS. Its subconscious and very disturbing, do yourself a favour, just walk up to them and do a casual chit chat. Remember your main objective is not to PICK girls up, its to have fun. Thats your number one piority and it always should. Im not going into this any futher, just do yourself a favour by appraoching or wear a pair of skirts. You pick ----- Comments not complaints are always welcomed. Total Posts: 12 | Joined Jan. 2006 | Posted on: 11:17 am on Aug. 21, 2006 | IP aesop Member     Casa has the right idea, who cares, approach them anwyay!  Ya know if you meet a table of 7's then chances are they have a few friends that are 9's!  Also, the next time you see them out they'll probably be with different girls and eventually you'll get to know the hot chicks. The more people you get to know, the more access you have to other parties and more 8+ girls ----- Pray for a good harvest, but continue to hoe!! Total Posts: 150 | Joined Sep. 2005 | Posted on: 12:59 pm on Sep. 1, 2006 | IP

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