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ChrisEDO Newbie     I'm curious, does the Secret Admirer (sending anonymous emails with hints, eventually revealing true identity), approach actually work? I've just heard several conflicting views on this, some say girls feel flattered by it, others say that this is being supplicating and should not be done. ----- --- "Before you insult someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Because then, you're a mile away with their shoes. Total Posts: 17 | Joined June 2004 | Posted on: 4:12 am on July 13, 2004 | IP FLA Alpha Newbie     From my experience, it seems the older the woman the better it works.   Reasoning:  As people get older, they become more set in their ways and their avenues to meet people and time spent hanging out around strangers diminishes.  Using the secret admirer approach works better on these kinds of women who are not expecting anything out of the ordinary to happen in thier day  (friend left a rose on the windshield of her car later that week approached and now he is in there).  And older women are dreaming more about the swept off the feet romance and mystery thing.   Younger women, especially still into the drinking scene will not take much of a liking to it in my opinion and experience! ----- You cannot Bitch until you try! Total Posts: 35 | Joined June 2005 | Posted on: 8:27 pm on Nov. 12, 2005 | IP NatAngelino Newbie     I would tell you to immediately dump this approach and I'll tell you why.  It is not because it is a form of supplication.  It is because it makes you look like a total wuss, especially with hot younger women who react much better to bold, different people.  Any numbnuts can write anonymous e-mails and send cards and gifts.  It takes a real man to dump all that crap and go for the gusto.  So, unless you find an exceptional case, sack up and sarge the hell out of the girl.  Be the exception to the rule, don't prove it!!! ----- "Do or do not.  There is no try."-Yoda Total Posts: 1 | Joined Feb. 2006 | Posted on: 1:04 am on Mar. 1, 2006 | IP aesop Member     Nat is completely correct!  Not only does it make you look like a total puss, but you also look like a freaky stalker!  Even if she is interested and you go out, then she is going to have total control because she knows that you are crazy about her.  She will shit all over you and you'll take it!  Its much better to do a direct approach, have some balls and go for it, if nothing else, she will definitely respect you more than if you're leaving love letters on her car. ----- Pray for a good harvest, but continue to hoe!! Total Posts: 150 | Joined Sep. 2005 | Posted on: 5:17 pm on May 10, 2006 | IP

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