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djxme200 Newbie     This chick is working in a bar as a waitress, and i want to talk to her in private, but i don't know how?!?I know that she is somehow interested in me because i my best friend is working there as a barman, he introduced me to her  but i didn't get the chance to speak to her because she had so many orders and the music was so loud, during daytime it isn't so crowded and i can talk to her but she stays behind the bar, and the whole staff is there, and i don't know them very well, this chik is like 7 or 8, but i don't know how to get to speak to her. Can you help me????? Total Posts: 2 | Joined Mar. 2004 | Posted on: 4:53 am on Mar. 10, 2004 | IP chick logic Newbie     Hey there, First off see if you're getting any legit signs of interest from her. Wave a 20 dollar bill and then order water, see what her reaction is. Do it again, and see if she comes up to you without giving shit. Look for pleasant eye contact, smile, or anything else thats different from what she does to other guys at the bar (to get tips from them, or course). If you notice that you're receiving special treatment, you're in. =D Ok, the music is definetly a cockblock here. You can't talk to her cause its too f-ing loud and you can't grind behind her cause she works there. Your goal is to get her out of that envirnment. My suggestion would be to obtain some social proof first, and then go in for the pick up. So ignore the first paragraph i wrote up there. (save it smartass, i know). =D Now, she's bombarded with guys hitting on her and you'd be just another sucker she can shoot down and watch your fragile ego is shatered. YOU DONT WANT THAT! (need i say) =D So, first off when you go in the bar, act as Maniac said as "the host of the party". Walk around everywhere, with as smile on your face, chit-chat to everyone you see -- guys and girls. Notice something nice about everyone and comment them real fast, wish them a great evenening. You'll be soon getting more attention that you can handle. Anyways, this "party host" attitude is excellent confidence builder with 0 risk. Now, all the girls that you just said "Hi" to and walked away, will be wondering who DA FUCK YOU IS? (is?) and will ask their female friends about it. As you can see, the attention of is just getting bigger. One more thing in yout case, be sure to do the same with all the waitresses/waiters at that bar EXCEPT the one you're tryna score with -- the target. This will confuse the shit out of her. HB confused --> good. =D Once you got plenty of attention, start talking to other HB girls in your target's visual vicinity (if it's a group --> awesome!). Your aim here is to "make friends" with these girls. Make them laugh, add a bit of kino, and just basically distribute your attention between all of the ones in the group, even the UG ones. Anyways, get them creaming between the panties by (eventually)talking about their favorite sex positions, and so on...   Now, so what you'll have is like a group of super horny chicks that just want to jump on your cock, give it a bath and do it until the sun comes up. Guess what, your target (if you still want her by this time) will sence what you just did. I guess its that women thing where they can tell how someone's feeling just by looking at them. She'll know how horny these girls are. This is when you excuse yourself from the group, and go order a drink from the target. If you want, have a wingman/men occupy the group that you just got horny for you. When you go up the target you gotta act like you just noticed her. Go like [with a big smile, and open arms] "hey, angelina, where have you been? did you just get here?" or if that's inapropriate, then try some other opener where you already know her, but for whatever reason did not get to say "hi" to her up till now. This is what will happen. She saw you "own the place". She saw you talking to all the waitresses. She saw the group of girls all over you. You value as a mate has just become astronomical. =D she'll do anything to keep a conversation with you. BUT you must refuse to talk to her there. Your goal is to tell her you're busy or whatever, "but it would be really nice to talk to you outside of the bar", get her number. Tell your group of chicks that something important has come up, and you need to take care of some "business" -- you know, some guy's been selling in your territory, you gotta wack him, eh? haha! So anywyas, call her in 3-7 days, go out for cofee, use your kino, patterning, and values on her, and you'll have her begging to "please, please let me suck your cock" (nice work eminem) =D Anyways, keep it cool, dress real nice that night, and if it doesn't work out with the waitress you have 3-4 chicks creaming in the panties for you. I'd personally go for 2 hotter ones of the 3-4. But that's just me. =D Good luck..... uh, screw that.... how about good fuck? I like that much better =D -Chick logic Total Posts: 2 | Joined Mar. 2004 | Posted on: 1:14 am on Mar. 29, 2004 | IP djxme200 Newbie     Thank you very much but this would have helped me if it were posted earlier, now i got to know her better and dangerosly slipped into the LJBF zone....i know it sucks.....i tried the thing with not giving too much attention to her and it turned ugly...because after that she said to my friend that i'm too shy to talk to her...but with the other waitresses i am not.....(sorry my english grammar isn't very good.....i'm from romania ).ok the thing is that i asked her phone number and she doesn't have a mobile phone.....she just said to drop by the bar and talk there....and in the meantime i became friend with the rest of the staff, but i can't talk to her there because she has a boyfriend who is working in another contry and they might say to her boyfriend what is going on...stuff like that.....what shall i do????....to continue courting her....or to slip totally in the LJBF zone with her and continue with the "search" for other HB's????..thanks again for the reply...it will be usefull in the future ) Total Posts: 2 | Joined Mar. 2004 | Posted on: 7:16 am on Mar. 29, 2004 | IP

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