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cubanoloco



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Hi first time here i want to share with you guys little of my knowledge. Great site.
I have a story that may help those that think that looks matter and it actually does. Just read on.
Girls are like us. When they are on the street and they see a flashy guy the say to their friend. He is hot. Now lets go into what hot means for the women is not the same as what it means for us. For us, men, when we say a girl is hot is because she is skinny, has a nice tight pant and is physicly good looking. For girls it is more than physical, it is class, money, education, and many more.
Now i come to the point where i say the way you look matters. but only for us. Do we really go to the gym to look girls for the girls or do we really go for us. In my case i go to the gym because i box and it is my physical preparation. However i used to be a little overweight before and i have finally noticed the difference. It is all about conffidence. Girls want guys who can actually get them of their dayily routine. They want guys whe they can spend time with and have fun. When i used to be overweight i tough that i wasnt going to get anygirl. One night i went out with a couple of friends to a nightclub and had a couple of drinks. Just enough to relax me. I saw this girl across the table and she was hot. Since i never though she will go out with me since i was fat and the few mojitos (drinks) i wasnt afraid of asking her to dance. She refused me to dance but next morning we had breakfast in bed.
If you are not in the best shape you should try to do something to change it you know why because is you who feel good. If you are overwight and start going to the gym and the Friday night before you go out hunting you weight yourself and you see that you have lost 3 pounds you will feel totally confident on you. Even though you may not look any different you feel different and this change is what girls want CONFIDENCE. Feel good about yourself. Off course im not saying that you should stay overwight or anything but if you go to the gym just to impress girls you will stop going soon to the Gym. Find yourself a goal that is not Getting more HBs when you go regularly to the Gym you feel good about yourself. Dont get me wrong though most girls like slimmer guys but that doesnt mean that we have no chance. I personally feel better now and im still with the girl i met at that club. I am almost twice her size but she is still with me and no complains what so ever.

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Total Posts: 3 | Joined Aug. 2005 | Posted on: 2:15 am on Aug. 27, 2005 | IP
Cyreath


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Do looks matter? - Yes, a bit, but not as much as you might think.
But that answers too short so here's my thinking...

Do looks matter? - That's an interesting question, let me ask one back - what do you mean by 'looks'?

Taking what you wrote: "women are attracted to certain physical features - height, muscularity, hair, face, eyes"

So 'looks' as in the appearance of your physical self? I agree with what you say yet I feel women's attraction to these things isn't fixed, in fact it's variable within certain limits that she finds acceptable within the boundaries of her own expectations, those expectations being variable of themselves.

Think of your own experiences, sometimes you'll be attracted to that short-arse 6 who's just so lively, energetic and relaxed, with the punky hairstyle and wild clothes that you just want to get with her and have some fun. Othertimes it's that elegant, formally dressed, tall 10 that's so hot but perhaps not so much of a 'character'. Maybe extreme examples, but you get my point. It's the same with women.

Other than physical self how about when you enhance that physical self with clothes, jewellery, etc. and combine them to create a great 'look'? Your 'looks' have a number of aspects.

At any given time the women you encounter are holding certain expectations, but you have the power to reset those expectations. When you're in front of them doing your game they will change their expectations, be in no doubt about that. Naturally, some things will be fixed for them but I'd suggest that's the minority of things. When you walk away however they'll drift back to their previous set of expectations.

So, do looks matter? As is often said "Not as much as you think".
But what does matter is not 'missing a trick' and so screwing things up for yourself.

-- Are you overweight? Looking pale? Bad posture? Looking a bit unkempt (hair, nails, teeth)?
So diet a little or get to the gym, hit the tan cabs, get a haircut/more often, etc.
Go fix these things and prehandle any objections she might have about your physical looks that might clash with the set of expectations she has and so screw up your chances from the get go.

-- Are your clothes old? Unfashionable? Badly fitting?
Go get some new ones. Get 'sets' that you can wear in different locations, peacock a little so you're 'different from all the other guys' but not so out of place you 'look odd'. (Though you may actually want to do that, I'm not that balls-out! I'm more DDA than Mystery) Get a good watch and maybe a few rings if you wear them to add points of interest or use in routines.

One final thought about 'looks', does this sound familiar; "man you look great, what's different / happened?" as they look you up and down trying to find out what's changed. 'Looks' has the inside/out element of you. When you feel confident, self assured, relaxed and so on you'll look more attractive. Bring all three aspects up to the best level you can and you'll be the most attractive, good looking guy in the location

You can have dirty hands, tatty clothes and be shifting rubble from the garden and still 'look good/attractive' because of that inner glow. You can be smartly dressed, confidently poised and relaxed at a dinner party and catch every ladies eye.

So, "Do looks matter?" - External looks matter only to a point, when you reach the point where you've improved as much as you feel you can. After that looks no longer matter and what's inside, that inner game, matters way more.

Cy

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Total Posts: 9 | Joined Oct. 2005 | Posted on: 10:14 am on Oct. 13, 2005 | IP
dirtmgirt


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interracial PU.

Ok, so I know this is a touchy subject. So people who have the "race doesn't matter bla bla bla" knee-jerk response, just move along.

I'm  interested in hearing from people who are non-white, whatever, black, hispanic, asian, indian, etc.. and have tried approaching sets and/or targets that were white women.

If anyone has anything interesting to say rather than "Race doesn't matter, it only matters if you think it matters..." then please save your keyboard typing energy.

Thanks.


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