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RagnaRock Newbie     well i'm new here...were can i read about these patterns? is there any section on this site/forum only about the different patterns? ----- yup i'm a noob Total Posts: 1 | Joined Mar. 2006 | Posted on: 2:09 pm on Mar. 12, 2006 | IP riverspecialist Newbie     "patterns" are sort of like hypnosis, or NLP as they call it on here.  If you went to a hypnotist and told him u wanted her to help u lose weight, quit smoking, stop stuttering, etc, she would do something similar to this stuff.  He or she would have u get comfortable, spend a minute getting u to relax, talking in a slow confident monotone, etc.   Eventually ur brain relaxes and allows her to to implant "suggestions" like "cigarettes taste like poop", "the thought of food makes u sick", "you will speak slowly and calmly" etc.  They will be a bit longer an mor ecomplicated but u get the point. You never actually lose consciousness (with some caveats) but you allow these suggestions to get into your mind and fester.  For the most part they cant make u do anything u dont want to do, they just help make ur mind more plastic/maliable so that u can train your thoughts, etc. These patterns do sound silly, but so does hypnosis.  But they both work if the subject wants it to work (see fluff and values) About the original post...will they catch on?  Maybe, but they will probably not mind.  Do you scold a girl when she dyes her hair? wears fake nails? pushup bras? etc  Its not like its a secret.  They do this stuff cause they know we like it and they want our attention.  So memorize the patterns cause they like it and itll get their attention. ----- Shoot for the moon, at least you'll be among the stars Total Posts: 18 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 5:38 pm on June 13, 2006 | IP FUBAR Newbie     The patterns are great. They can be used in every day conversation. The patterns on this site are great patterns, but ever since I started reading this material and the books on NLP, I've been using them regularly on the spot in most of my conversations. You basically just need to describe a state that the people around you would like to experience or enjoy and they'll normally cling to your every word.   The trick to using these patterns effectively is to BELIEVE in them. KNOW that they work. It's all about confidence. If you question what you're doing, you will never get anywhere. You have to KNOW that what you're doing is working. The reframing aspect of NLP has given me the confidence I need to be successful with people. I believe in NLP and I can use it effectively. If I doubted it, I wouldn't be able to do this. People will rarely have any idea what you're doing. None of my friends have any idea what NLP is because I never tell them. All they know is that I'm an interesting guy they love spending time with.   Kill the inner wuss and know you have what it takes. ----- FUBAR Total Posts: 15 | Joined July 2006 | Posted on: 3:37 am on Aug. 5, 2006 | IP

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