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MVP Newbie     Ok well I've heard all these patterns and I was just thinking how the hell do you use them?  Do I need to memorize these patterns and how do I present them to her.  I was also thinking if you do tell her these patterns wont she think your gay and then you'll just be in LJBF land?  Any help would be great cause these patterns are really confusing to me thanks! ----- -MVP Most Valuable "Player" Total Posts: 11 | Joined July 2002 | Posted on: 2:48 pm on July 4, 2002 | IP the 1 Newbie     i think that basically those patterns are to tell her what you want let me tell anybody out there what realy worked for me and by the way i have gotten more bjs then pussy, okay i bugged and annoyed this girl tried to put it in her mouth and she just got pissed and did not do it, the next time i see her i act like bjs do not even exist dont even ask nothing and this was my plan all along. well she does it so if you bug her she may do it so you can calm down, and if not she may do it next time if u act like u dont care about it ----- bonehead Total Posts: 2 | Joined Nov. 2002 | Posted on: 4:45 am on Nov. 17, 2002 | IP Solid Snake Newbie     Personally, I see the patterns as a guideline for a way of thinking, not a one way path that has to be performed to the T. If you were to think of all of the possible blowjob patterns you could possibly make up, then remove the bad parts and mix in the good ones, you would invariably come up with the basis of the "Blowjob" patterns suggested on this site. Try not to copy them, but use the patterns like a block of wood or marble; carve out any parts that don't quite match the scenario you are in until you have "sculpted" or "formed" a pattern to use. ----- Come on you sons of bitches! Do you want to live forever? -United States Marine Corps Total Posts: 3 | Joined May 2003 | Posted on: 10:14 pm on May 6, 2003 | IP Mean Newbie     I try to use them as thay are. Som of the like the rose pattern i even tell them tha I have a good teknik to make them feel god. If thay told you that they had a crapy day then thats a key to start that. Tip is to memorise one or two befor you go to a party and try to mix them in the conversation. If you have nothing to say then a pattern can be helpfull. They are also a guideline for how to talk and present what you whant. If you whant a GF to pay for her own food and drink you can say somting like.. Dont you like the feling when your equal to your partner. Total Posts: 41 | Joined Aug. 2005 | Posted on: 5:22 am on Aug. 10, 2005 | IP FUBAR Newbie     Now I may be overly critical since I just got back from a buddy's house and have had a couple of drinks tonight, BUT this topic seems to be very useless.   There are different levels of mastery to using patterns. At the first level, you may learn to memorize these patterns and use them. That's when you first begin. Then you may mix the patterns with others and basically get the jist of the pattern. The final level of mastery, you'll accept the patterns as guides and can actually create your own patterns on the spot to suit the situation. You need to learn to be flexible. The best way to do this is to use different patterns in every day conversation with anyone you talk to. Read the books by Grinder and Bandler. I've read a couple of them and they are quite useful. Simply memorizing the patterns (and using good tonality to deliver them) is useful, but it's far more effective to be able to simply make them up. ----- FUBAR Total Posts: 15 | Joined July 2006 | Posted on: 3:24 am on Aug. 5, 2006 | IP Lukeyboy8 Newbie     Hey all i'm a newbie just signed up and i must say what a lovely site, i'm from the land downunder and i must say that these patterns work beautifully. it gets u talking and talking with the girls, and girls love guys that can talk with out sounding nerves if u can do that and make the patterns work you are a winner, i normally go into a club go to as many girls as possible and use basically 3 patterns, I start with If u were to meet the guy of your dreams, would you first let him know or would you go home and tell all your girlfriends how u met a guy and how u think his the one?  (Ross Jefferies pattern i think) And then i go in with You know the other day i was watching the discorvery channel, etc etc and then the Incredible connection pattern, then i say nice meeting u girls and go up to the next couple/group/single girl etc by the end of the night i've probably talked to about 30 girls depands on the place i'm at. I normally get at least one girl to come home with me or i get phone numbers, that's ever since i started learning the patterns that's not bad huh plus i'm only 23 and pretty good looking so that helps too. although i'm not perfect. oh and when i go out i never spend more then $25 on drinks that's all for me by the way nice talking to u all and keep these posts coming ----- *lukey* Total Posts: 38 | Joined Sep. 2006 | Posted on: 2:40 am on Sep. 18, 2006 | IP Grikes Newbie     Actually, I think running patterns that you feel comfortable with usally work. I suggest you take an idea and run it in your head for a few days until you feel very comfortable using it in normal speech. It really is about getting the right pattern to fit the girl. The easiest way to get laid for begginers is to do the two meet approach. First meet is for a reccy. Listen to what she has to say..work out her likes and dislikes. Work out the patterns you are going to use.. Second meet lots of touching smiling and patterns that you have worked out. It has never failed yet.. ----- To be succesful you need to try. Total Posts: 1 | Joined Oct. 2007 | Posted on: 8:24 am on Oct. 11, 2007 | IP

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