Men,
2 weeks ago I met this stunning FEM on a friday evening out in Liverpool Street, London... She is a gorgeous 25yr old working as a Trainee Solicitor for a local investment bank.
During this evening, she approached me and literally hauled me to a corner of bar where we proceeded to get to know one another a little better. Needless to say we had a fantastic evening; the evening ended with me getting her number and her repeatedly saying I think you're gorgeous etc etc and since I've given you my number I expect to hear from you...
I've been single for about 8 months now, and she is by far the hottest I've been with for ages..
Anyway, like a fool I texted her the following day saying it was great to meet you etc, enjoy the rest of your weekend. She responded later that evening with a similar message saying that she had enjoyed meeting me to etc etc.
During the first week I tried to arrange to meet her for drinks (I cockily told her that she should invite me for drinks somewhere.... she played along and tried to free up her tuesday evening, but couldnt)
I left it till that thursday and sent her a text suggesting she join myself and a few colleagues for drinks that friday, that I would call to discuss later. I tried calling that evening and she didnt answer. She later sent me a text saying that she was sorry she didnt answer the call and was unable to join me for drinks that friday as he father had suddenly been rushed to hospital (which later turned out to be true), but she hoped that I'd a good time out. On the friday I sent her a text saying that I hoped her dad was Ok, and I hoped she was OK...
I got a reply saying that That she thought it was really sweet and that she would maybe see me for a drink next week. This time I thought I would leave it until Sunday evening, when I sent a text saying Hypothetically If I want to call to arrange drinks would she be available?
I got a response back saying, Hypothetically, I guess I would be.... I was only able to call around 2 hrs later. again the call wasnt answered. So i left it....
Last week Tuesday I got a text saying that She had only got home around 8am sunday morning so the whole day had been a right off, but that she was still keen to do something.
I texted her (since the phone call technique didnt seem to work so well) suggesting we try thursday night. So I got a response that she was seeing a friend that evening for drinks but I should come along, bring some friends if I wanted to.... So I arranged everything, she let me know the venue 10pm the evening before there wasnt much time to organise some mates to come along. But I did (although at this stage I was already sick and tired of the tactics that she uses) and to be honest i expected that at the last minute she would cancel.
Thursday morning I had a look at some reviews of the place and sent a cocky text saying The Venue looks a little cheesy and I would try to be there later. I received a bitchy text back saying Well I'll be in there, if you dont fancy it dont worry about it.
I rounded up everyone (we were 4) and had a drink at a nearby place before meeting her and her friend. We arrived at the place and at first I couldnt see her anywhere and didnt recognise her, finally I spotted her and plucked up the courage to walk over. Said hello and joined them. The evening started well, but it turned out that one of my mates lives a street down from her (which is very unusual for london) and he spends the majority of the evening pulling cheap shots at her (which was funny but in no way helping my cause). Anyway finally he left and I managed to get a word in - we started chatting, it went well - her friend needed to leave and she decided to go with her. We kissed and I asked if she was available for dinner, she said she was... and we kissed again. She ran off to join her friend.
Like a clown, being a little drunk - I texted her when i got home saying it was fantastic to see her again and i would get in touch with her in the morning to arrange something.
So I send a text in the middle of the day friday, asking her to excuse my mates (as i had been unable to get a word in) and that I wanted to know what her plans were for the weekend? I got a response back which said I shouldnt apologise for my friends, they were funny... she was busy saturday.
So I asked about Sunday, she said she had a family lunch on and getting her hair cut in the evening, what did i have in mind?
So i said what i had in mind would fit into that time bracket. I got a response fri/sat morn 1am - asking me where i had in mind
So saturday morning I suggested we go to this place... (it was a little out of the way for her admittedly) on sunday afternoon. But I havent heard back from her since.
Right now I must admit that I'm really really interested in this chick, although she is proving a huge challenge (she is stunning and well worth the effort). Most of my guy mates reckon I should leave it until she gets back to me - I'm not sure if I will hear back from her and I'm tempted to phone her up and ask if she is ok?
She really is driving me crazy (my life is quite complicated in the female side of things, I'm seeing about 3 other women and I would be more than happy to let all of that go if I could secure it)
Advice?