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BaldGuy
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I suppose that's because the only way to get a girl to open up when you go up to her is to entertain her, and the only way to do that is to be funny, witty, happy and playful. Nothing works unless you succeed in that. The chances are that most women are not in the club for a load of ultra-serious talk, so it's best to avoid it until you get to the impress-phase and she's really interested in finding out what sort of a man you really are. Then the serious stuff works because she expects a man to show that he is capable of making a serious commitment. But at NO point can you stop being funny, or you will lose.
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"Know your target and know yourself, and you shall always achieve punani."
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Total Posts: 6 | Joined Nov. 2002 | Posted on: 8:27 am on Nov. 24, 2002 | IP
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Aquaman
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I agree about playfulness being key. When they laugh, they relax and let their guard down and so become more receptive to what you have to say.
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May the force be with you.
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Total Posts: 12 | Joined April 2004 | Posted on: 5:31 am on May 11, 2004 | IP
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timeforacatnap
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just to reopen this tread....how would you develope a sense of playfulness? are there exercises?
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signing on with mystery method» in UK in august
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Total Posts: 75 | Joined Nov. 2005 | Posted on: 10:46 am on Nov. 18, 2005 | IP
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Enxo
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how to develop a sense of playfulness? easy, you joke about anything she says. Make fun of her insecurity, and go kino a lot at the waste (you only do this after you've got to know the girl better), they always lough at that....you have to joke about the things she says and to not be a jerk, make fun of the things you say... this idea is key to playfulness. It's just like stand-up comedians. They make fun of the audience, then they make fun of themselves...otherwise they just lose the support of the crowd. And one more thing, when you joke around with her try not to lough a lot, especially remeber not to lough at your own jokes. (if you can't keep it give it a smile, don't start cracking up like an idiot)
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If u want her...get over ur isecurities and image problems!?
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Total Posts: 2 | Joined Dec. 2005 | Posted on: 8:12 am on Dec. 20, 2005 | IP
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The Eppion
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The only exercise I could think of would be to try and react the way a totally superficial, HB would react. What would her frame be? How is that different from the normal guy frame? When they guy takes a highly sought after girl frame, and makes the female the "guy" its really funny. For instance: When you're walking alone, and shes walking close to you while your building rapport, say something like: "Walking kinda close arn't we, iam a toy you can just fondle at will ya know" Or Look down at your leg and say: "You trying to hump my leg or something cowgirl?" Ive got a ton of material for being playful hehe, here are some. When a girl yawns, look over all serious REALLY fast in a jerking motion and say "Get that hand away from your mouth you dont know where its been..." If they sneeze or cough: "Dont you dare touch my ass with that hand woman" If your walking with her in a mall or something: Get a pen out of your pocket, and drop it on the ground with the "oops I went and dropped my pen" face. And bend over all sexy-like and show off your ass while you bend over to get it. I set playfull up from the first interaction of the date as well, heres my patended trick, feel free to steal my shit: Keep a corny mistletoe christmas decoration over your front door. When they come in say: "Uh oh.... looks like somebody has to kiss me" You'd be suprised how much money that $2 prop has saved me tens of dollars per date. You dont have to leave lol! I just spilled some of my most reguarded material here, now you spill some!
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Only after disaster can we be resurrected. You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. -Tyler Durden-
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Total Posts: 28 | Joined April 2006 | Posted on: 7:56 am on April 17, 2006 | IP
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