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GymDoctor Newbie     To sum it up...we were supposed to go to a concert tonight. She cancelled b/c she was getting sick.. I know she didn't lie b/c she woulnd't miss Willie Nelson unless something drastic was amiss...anyhow... It was supposed to be a "Date Night" and before I leave I see her post this on myspace about me... "GymDoctor, the original poster of this message is the nicest person I know in Dallas and my bestest friend. He has supported me so much in the last year that I have moved here and has never asked for a thing in return." She calls me her best friend in this shit!?! Yet we've been going out on dates the past couple months? What the hell? Should I pretend I didn't read that part? She told me to check it too! Just last week I asked her if she wanted to start dating again...so we planned this "date night" tonight..and then she says this? WTF??? (Edited by GymDoctor at 7:43 pm on April 1, 2006) Total Posts: 3 | Joined April 2006 | Posted on: 7:42 pm on April 1, 2006 | IP timeforacatnap Junior Member     dude, i'm guessing your pretty new to the game? see i dont date girls until i've slept with them, till then we're just meeting up and its fairgame. it doesnt take me more than 3 meetings to get her into bed. from what you've stated you've been ahnging with her for a few months, thats an AFC mistake and is probably what landed you in this LJBF. personally, i suspect you've been supplicating and failing to build attraction, however you've build alot of comfor and she trusts you. but without attraction, you aint gonna date her. that being said you've been rather vague so i cnat really goive you more unless you give us some details...how did you meet? have you slept with her, do you kino? is there attraction to you from her? etc? ----- signing on with mystery method» in UK in august Total Posts: 75 | Joined Nov. 2005 | Posted on: 3:06 pm on April 2, 2006 | IP GymDoctor Newbie     Well, we met last may and dated for several months..broke it off then back together..etc. So we've slept together multiple times. I think during the time we were split and still talked I became an AFC again in tryin to get her back. Now, I believe I'm back to building up the attraction again. She has it for me, I know that, I'm just starting slower this time and having to in a sense "prove" that I'm not an AFC anymore. I kino whenever we're together as well...but we're never in a situation to take it further. I just need more help on how to start building hte attraction faster is all. Total Posts: 3 | Joined April 2006 | Posted on: 6:03 pm on April 2, 2006 | IP aesop Member     This may be one of those times that you have to bite the bullet and walk away.  You've crossed into the dreaded 'friend zone', the best way to get out of the friend zone is to relax,  you dont want her to feel pressured into making a decision, you want HER to come after you!  I'm not saying to try to maker her jealous but its a good start, why dont you convince her that she doesnt want to be just friends, but she wants you for herself!   Right now she knows that she has you, women can be just like guys, we never want what we know we can have, so make yourself unavailable,  be too busy next time she wants to hang out, dont try to kiss her, touch her, or call her too much.  Soon she'll realize what she's missing out on....attention!  and she'll come running back ----- Pray for a good harvest, but continue to hoe!! Total Posts: 150 | Joined Sep. 2005 | Posted on: 6:14 pm on May 3, 2006 | IP

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