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plant Newbie     Hi All, I would like your advice on something though. At work, I know this girl. We have been friends when I was married and she had a 5 year boyfriend because thats all it could of been at that time. She is pretty, fun and we click. However, I like her. I am now separated and getting a divorce. She broke up with her boyfriend but was crushed and heart broken. Lately we've been hanging out. We talked about us and she said she really wants a friend right now and am not ready to give my heart to anyone. I know that could be fluff. The other day, we talked and she said "I really just like you as a friend and I want things to be the way they were and that I don't want to be uncomfortable around you or put distance between us". I don't have many friends here since my wife and I just moved here 2 years ago. I really do like her as a friend but of course want more. She asked me if we could just be friends ... I know the kiss of death. I told her, I don't know, I thought you were attracted to me ... but I am glad you told me, because now I know where you stand... but I also told her I thought we could have something real special here. But I told her I need a friend too ... and basically she is my best friend here. So before she left my house after our talk, I asked her to have dinner that night. She said sure. She came over and looked stunning, better than ever before. We had a drink or two and then I told her ... Hey, I’m really glad we talked today. I feel much more at ease. So we went to eat and had a blast as we always do. She always pays attention to me. Never talks to other guys. One guy at the bar thought we were on a match.com date. I said no we are just good friends. It told her this and she was impressed. We went bar hopping and all the while as I picked out girls for me, she said they were not pretty enough for me. She still never pointed out guys she liked or talked to them. She was 100% with me. She said what do you want to drink? I said I don't know. She said I'll surprise you. From bar to bar, she grabbed my arm while we walked. And at the bar she put her arms around me. We were tipsy but not shitfaced. We slept in my bed together but no romance ... just sleep. She couldn't drive home. We've done this before, either her place or mine. In the past I have tried to make a move on her but she said no. We did kiss once months ago when she just broke up with her boyfriend and I was actually still married but not happy. Since then there has been no kissing, no cuddling but we have become real close. We see each other at least twice a week mostly on weekend nights. She always says we will do that or we will do this or hey lets do this next time …. She even wants to take a vacation with me but does not want me to expect anything. I’m dating other women and she goes out on a date now and then but never has anything good to say about it. I don’t know, this all seems so crazy to me. What is she thinking? Why is she acting the way she is? What do you think I should do? Keep seeing her? Total Posts: 2 | Joined May 2006 | Posted on: 12:35 pm on May 4, 2006 | IP

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