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Desperadolf Newbie     Ok, so last night I went out with this HB8.3 that I met at a party about a week ago. That night I played her perfectly all night long, and we ended up at my place, where I even got to take her anal virginity! Hah! But, it wasn't enough for me. I really thought we had a pretty good thing going, so in the morning I asked her if she wanted to meet me again. She said "definitely", but I didn't call her until three days later (yes, I now know that I shouldn't wait that long to call a girl after having sex with her, 'cause it'll make her feel used according to the player guide, but I did) and she was happy to hear from me. She told me she was spending the weekend at her parents house but we decided to talk in the beginning of next week. So I called her on tuesday, and we agreed to meet on wednesday. I told her I'd call her after I got home from school, so I did, but she didn't answer. She called me back half an hour later and told me she was sorry but she'd been forced to stay in school a bit longer and now had a headache and was feeling tired and blah blah. So I said ok, and she asked me when we could meet instead. I told her I was quite busy but that I could squeeze her in the next night (thursday, yesterday), and she said that'd be perfect 'cause she'd be free all day. So I met her last night, and we went to a bar. We bought drinks and sat down. I'm a spontaneous guy and I had no problem finding things to talk about. We have a lot in common and I listened carefully to her and she listened to me, and we had fun. I don't know so much about Jeffries-techniques other than the stuff that I've read on this website, but I still experimented a bit with finding her trance words. I turned her own stuff back at her, but I noticed that I need to practice, practice, practice. Of course I kept negging her every now and then, and then we started to talk about love. She told me about the only time she's been in love, so I asked her to describe the exact feelings she experienced then. She described them to me in detail, but it was hard for her to really describe the physical emotions, she seemed to get back to more materialistic stuff all the time. After a while it became a bit awkward and we continued fluffing about other stuff. I spotted some IOIs but they weren't enough to convince me. The tiny amount of kino I tried out gave me no response from her side, but I still thought about time distortion so I took her to another bar. While we were walking she called her mother because they have a strong bond and she talks with her mother several times a day. She told her mother that she was with me and she asked me to speak with her mom, which I took as a definite IOI. I was the perfect gentleman to her mom and the feeling was at this point quite good. So we came to the bar and sat down and contiued fluffing. I knew she had a strong passsion for Italy, and I'm half Italian, so we spoke some Italian and then I asked her about her love for Italy. She said blah blah blah and I said blah blah and we blah'd some more and then I told her that I had a gift for her. So I took out this small rock from my pocket, and handed it to her. I told her that I had taken the rock from the Forum Romanum in Rome, and that I always kept it in my hand when I wanted to escape to Italy blah blah. A story which was actually true!!! So she was very moved and asked me why I didn't want it anymore, and I said that I have it in my blood, so I don't need the rock. (Comment: This little act gave me a great idea for a new player move - just keep a few rocks in your pocket and give a girl one and tell her that it means something really special to you, like you make up this story about some castle you went to where you stole this rock and then you start telling romantic stories about this castle...haha!) Also, handing her the rock gave me a great opportunity to take hold of her hands and start off some real hardcore kino. But as I kinoed in on her, she was once again very non-responsive. She even pulled her hand away at one point. Then she moved on to tell me about her problems, she'd had A LOT of them, her last bf was a complete jerk who threatened her and her family and was violent, and her cousin or something had commited suicide and what not... So I fell into my bad old afc-pattern and suddenly realized I had become her shrink. I actually thought that at this point in her life, she'd prefer a guy who was kind and gentle and could listen, but oh was I wrong. I made her cry when I told her about my own personal demons and finally we completely drowned in a far too deep conversation. I pulled us out of it and said that we should dance, but it was too late. The dancefloor was closed because it was thursday, and she told me she had to get up at 8. So we started to walk to the bus stop, and we still fluffed and sometimes she even stopped walking, which I took as some kind of IOI... We came to the bus stop, and I asked her if she wanted to meet me again. She said "Of course" in a very cute voice, and then she asked me if I wanted to meet her, and I said "of course" and so I thought "YESSS!!!" So I took a hold of her and tried to kiss her, but that was when she stabbed me in the heart/cock with a pathetic "But... I want to be honest, 'cause honesty is very important to me. At this point in my life I have to take care of all these old things blahblahblahblahblahblahblah... But I'll call you and..." So I looked her in the eyes and I said; "Look, I have enough friends already. If that's what you're looking for it was nice meeting you. Yeah you have my number...", and I gave her a  quick hug. She looked shocked and I could see real tears in her eyes, like she was thinking "a minute ago he was so kind to me and now he's just cold all through". Then I walked away. That last move was probably one of the few and definitely the most correct move I'd done all night. I went home and watched Alias on DVD. Boy, what a night, haha. Anyway, this experience was an incredible energy boost for me, I'm really into the dating thing now 'cause I manage the pick-up quite well nowadays. And it gave me proof once again that when it comes to playing, all girls are the same. The bigger the bastard you are, the more they come back to you. It's not until you have a girl wrapped around your little finger that you can start removing your asshole armour and slowly reveal your soft, kind inner self. Total Posts: 10 | Joined June 2006 | Posted on: 5:06 am on Sep. 15, 2006 | IP

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