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le dragueur
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I'm approaching on a regular basis and I don't have approach anxiety anymore. I follow the indications of Mystery and Tyler and after the first approach I feel COMPELLED to continue doing it. It's not difficult. I don't focus on C&F, negs, etc. I just let it flow and release the expectation of outcome. I still have problems HOLDING the sets.
I haven't experienced the humiliations that I feared in the approaches. Instead, I've discovered a certain kind of pain, more profound and diffused, that comes with social isolation. As I meet people essentially to practice, I cannot reel on them for psychological/emotional support (this is KEY when I interact with girls). The result is that often I feel lonely (because I am) and that I don't have "real" friends (because I ditch the AFCs that interfere with ASF learning/experimentation). However, I feel stronger because I've learned to control my emotional state "without help" and more free because I don't have to take into account the priorities/opinions of my AFC friends. That's another important skill (social vibing) but I don't recommend to practice it at the same time that the game.
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Approaches and pain
