I use this phrase a lot... Here is quick run down of what it means to
me.
If you watch animal shows on PBS or Discovery Channel, many species
have a dominant male who has sex with all the females in the group,
while the other males get none while waiting for him to die or until
they are tough enough to kick his ass and become the alpha male
themselves. Many males never get to be an alpha male (never get laid).
Often it seems like you know guys who are always getting laid and other
guys never get laid. You'll even see women talking to/hanging
out/being friends the average guy, but then sleep with some other guy
(even if he is jerk, sleeps around and doesn't respect them). The guy
who gets laid is playing the role of the alpha male, while the other
guys are submissive males.
I'm saying be the guy who gets laid. That guy is confident that he's
going to get laid, because he knows he's an alpha male. He knows that
women and people in general want to be with him so he doesn't shy away
from conversation and meeting new people. He doesn't worry what others
think about him when he's doing his thing. He takes control of a
situation with athority. He knows he's fun to be with because he is
always having a good time and therefore he
isfun to be with. He
knows that if he is in group of guys and a group of girls, he will be
the one the girls choose to be with, and by having this be the expected
outcome, it is a self fufilling profecy. He is the alpha male. And
being the alpha male is sexy to women.
Being the alpha male is all about attitude and projecting the image
that you are fun to be with and the a woman should want to be with
you. Being the alpha male is self perpetuating. The more you believe
you are the alpha male, the more you become the alpha male.
NightLight9
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bjorn <
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> I've heard the term "alpha male" in this NG. Can someone
elaborate
> on this phrase. Thanks.>>
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