In article <rti***8@co***.com^{[ ? ]}>,
"Vincent Runza" <blu***i@ul***.net^{[ ? ]}> wrote:
> Two nights ago, I'm at the convenience store just before closing. A
very
> cute girl with great breasts is behind the counter. I say, "Hi,
again",
> since I've seen her once before, and ask for my stuff. While she gets
it, I
> comment, "Looks like it's just about time to close", as if I just
noticed
> that , not that I would try to pick her up after she closed the store
(Yeah,
> RIGHT).
> She 'scans' the items (which come to $2.35) and announces "$7.35."
I
> lock eyes with her and say, "No", like 'oops, you goofed'. She gets
all
> flustered as I hand her $3.00, so I say, "You know, last night I was
> chatting on line with someone. I was so tired I finally typed, in
quotes,
> 'It's tired and I'm getting late.'"
> She laughed, and before she could say anything, I headed for the
door
> like I just had to go (take away). She called after me, "You have a
> beautiful night."
> Last night, I'm back, same time. Ask for what I want, then say,
"You're
> new here, huh?" She says yeah, been here just a week. I commented that
she
> didn't have a name tag yet. She says, "Oh, do the other employees have
> them?" I say yes, followed with "My name's Vince", holding out my hand
for a
> handshake. I get one of those limp-wristed, fingers-only
handshakes."I'm
> Jen". Not very encouraging, so I just smile and head for the door,
just in
> time to bump into a buddy I haven't seen in a while. He's a little
hammered,
> so I decide to use him for a little staged convo. Before I can start,
a guy
> walks in who later turns out to be Jen's significant other. "So, have
you
> heard about my new business? I've gone from computer consulting to
> publishing Adult Web pages and doing nude photography." Yes, I am a
bad boy.
> Without turning around to check for a reaction, I take the convo
outside,
> since I don't want 'boyfriend' catching me eyeing his girl (this is a
> redneck town where you get your lights punched out for that stuff). We
chat
> for a while, then split. I pass the window where I see her talking
with BF.
> BTW, though she doesn't turn her head, I have observed she has great
> peripheral vision.
> ANALYSIS: The handshake may have been in response to seeing BF pull up
in
> his car, since he was in the store within a minute. This girl gives
off a
> vibe that she's very earnest and that 'beautiful night' comment
indicates
> she's not shut off from guys other than her boyfriend.
> So, any suggestions re: sarging a girl with a BF? I've never
attempted
> this before.
> Vince

No problem about hitting on girls with BFs... sometimes they just keep
bringing it up, then I just give up. In other ocasions I hit really hard
and they don't even mention the BF...

last friday, in a college party, I saw a 9 and went for it. Actually I
didn't use the 3s rule because I was talking to some other guy when I
saw her and it would be too rude to just go away like that. But
fortunately she didn't see me, so it's not so bad (the worst part of not
using the 3s rule is when the girl see you hesitating... if the girl
didn't see you then it's not that bad).

She was standing over there, watching the guys on the band get ready to
play, some other guys were near her, but I couldn't tell if they knew
her or were just around her.

I was smiling and showing excitement, just started talking to her (about
the band), no introductions. I just start talking like I knew her
forever and that was the most natural thing in the world to do (I really
like this approach).

She starts talking to me, really smiling, in about 30 secconds I'm doing
kino, got my hand on her shoulder, my mouth really close to her ear, she
just keeps smiling...

... then, a guy twice my size arrives holding two drinks claiming to be
her boyfriend... I just said bye and went away.

So... she was with her boyfriend, the guy was right over there buying
the drinks and she allows me to hit pretty hard on her...

Going back to the original post subject: I never hit on girls while they
are working... they are always so nice, but because I'm a costumer and
she is working there and it's her job to be nice... so I can never tell
if she likes me or if she's just being nice... so I never try that.

V.


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