“re: Sven's MLTR theory” (by MrSex4uNYC) | PUA Archive | alt.seduction.fast

for those of you that are NEW to this:

Sven posted some interesting things about what the FOCUS is (or perhaps should
be) when pulling chicks. among the GEMS of information was his MLTR theory
(don't ask, search DEJA). I immediately recognized it as a desireable way of
relating to chicks and set out to make it happen.

I am pretty sure it was ALSO Sven's idea to SCREEN chicks before dealing with
them physically. that was a major hassle for me because I am attracted to
chicks INSTINCTUALLY and have no desire to curb my appetite... much like a drug
addict does not CHOOSE not to partake when his favorite drug is offered to him.
also, being a "natural", lots of chicks are interested in meeting me, or at
least ACCEPT me enough to chat with me for a couple of minutes.

what cured me of that was picking up a couple of stalkers and psychos along the
way let me tell you gentlemen... once you know what you are doing and are
GOOD at it...

it is MUCH easier to GET chicks than GET RID of chicks

mark my words... hopefully, you will find this out for yourselves anyway, I
started screening chicks that I felt were possibly WORTHY of ANY form of
"relationship" with me whatsoever. I found out what I THOUGHT I would find out
is that MOST chicks are full of shit! they are just playing around or cheating
on boyfriends or straight WHORES or want to get married... all types of shit
that is NOT compatible with me AT ALL. eventually, I stumbled onto one that
actually had a BRAIN in her head and HAPPENED to be sexy also I met her in
real life, but moved our interactions to the net so I could talk to other
chicks simultaneously.

since my FOCUS was different here, I used a different strategy. my apologies
if I am being redundant, but I have not been reading the NG. what I NORMALLY
do is elicit her values and convince her that I am EVERYTHING she is looking
for and go STRAIGHT for the pussy that is FINE for hit-and-run ONS, but
there are two problems with that approach for MLTRs A) you have NO IDEA what
skills this girl has to please you so you have NO IDEA if you ACTUALLY want to
own her, and B) she does not know what YOU are looking for, so there is almost
NO WAY she can be what you want her to be except by random accident. so I
switched up and did BOTH of the latter. instead of eliciting her values in an
attempt to please HER, I elicited her relationships to other guys to find out
if she can please ME. I also told her about prior (and current) relationships
so she could get the idea of who I am and what I am looking for from chicks.
the reason I could get away with all this is that chicks LOVE to talk...
especially about relationships.

I put NO pressure on her to get with me... instead, I let her know what my
IDEAL girl is like and allowed her to fit the bill or not. THAT was the KEY
IMO to the MLTR (though I can't rightfully call it MULTIPLE until I have more
girls on the same level with her). one of the things that I let her know from
the beginning was that I can't STAND being restricted, and that I will break up
with a chick to go out with another one. the reason that was effective was
that she enjoyed interacting with me... even over the net. she KNEW that if
she attempted to restrict me, she would be EJECTED, and I would go about my
business with my OTHER girls that don't restrict me at all. the OTHER part of
the key was that this all happened BEFORE we started "going out". yes, I was
spending time with her on the net, but that time was being used chatting with
other girls and meeting new ones at the same time. if I had been chatting with
her in person, I would have missed out on other opportunities AND I would have
been a CHUMP for giving quality time to a girl that is not sexing me (rocks for
gold)

the effect of the screening and the "prep" chats was that I CLEARLY outlined
what a girl had to be for me in order to stand a CHANCE at being with me. I
also made it clear that being with me was NOT an invitation to monogamy, and
probably never would be. at the same time, I gave her examples of how I treat
girls that are sexing me. how I treat them sexually, going places with them,
taking them to eat... ALL things that would be CONSIDERED AFC behavior, if NOT
for the context of it being a REWARD for her CORRECT BEHAVIOR! so that leaves
the chick with NOTHING on her side of the fence and LOTS of great stuff on my
side of the fence... it is HER decision... and ALL she has to do to get all the
treatment and sex that I just told her about is climb over that fence...
herself. I am not going to MAKE her do it. I am not going to ASK her to do it
she is going to do it on her own (congruence, cognitive dissonance) she is
going to decide that she wants to be with me and she is going to do whatever it
takes to be with me.

this style is a MAJOR gamble, and I would NOT suggest using it UNLESS you
really have assessed the chick and you feel like she is good for more than sex.
if you are just trying to fuck her, use the regular shit as it turned out,
she DECIDED that she wanted to be with me and she did everything that I had
TOLD HER I wanted my ideal girl to do. there were a couple of snags because
this was the first time I was trying this, but overall, it went according to
plan after we had hooked up a few times, we had the "what are we doing?"
discussion. SHE said that she didn't want to restrict me, AND she wanted to
keep our relationship going INDEFINITELY!... bingo! my first MLTR I mean
at this point it is only an "open" LTR because there are no other girls on her
level with me... only WAY BELOW her. she has made it through the trial by fire
and gets to reap the rewards

now the REAL test comes when I meet another girl that HAPPENS to fit the bill
also. THEN I will see if she can REALLY stand being in an MLTR with me or
not... because if she can't, I have two choices:

A) just her... with her personality and sexual skills
B) ALL OTHER FINE CHICKS ON THE PLANET and their combined sexual skills

and I KNOW she KNOWS which one I'M gonna choose