such. I figured I would repost this here as a lot of guys seem to be showing up
and not getting the basic first shit down. This letter seems to hit home for
There are many internal reasons I have found lately that a guy may not be
getting the sex life he wants.
Usually these are based on one of 3 things:
1. NO WOMEN
Some guys do not talk to, do not meet by accident, do not work with, do not
know ANY women. Yet feel like a "loser" because they dont get laid. This is
simple logic of course.
2. NOT WANTING TO GET LAID
I work with a guy to the final conclusion of:
"I live with my parents and don't want her to know that, how can I take her
"I have a small penis, it's all worthless to even bother"
"I am too skinny, I don't want her to see this"
"I am too fat I don't want her to see this"
"I am not really attracted to them, I don't care"
In other words.....
"I DO NOT WANT TO GET LAID!"
Yeah when you go out you may talk to some women and try to "game them" but if
you know at some core level that you dont wanna get laid for real, then you
will not persist at any level.
There are 3 points you need to persist at
A: To a rapport. You MUST stick in there and talk normally. If not and you
just walk away because of a dead spot in the conversation, you are lost always,
because this is just how conversations go at first.
If you are not wanting to "have to" get to finally trying to lay her, because
you don't even have an attraction to her then you of course will walk away at
the first sign of any difficulty.
B: To getting her alone with you. When you first ask a chick to go home with
you or get alone with you she will usually hem and haw and say "oh I dunno if I
should" etc. You have to persist past this.
If you are scared to take her home cause your house is stinky, your roomate
doesnt respect you, and will bust her balls and yours when you go back, or your
grandma is there, then you won't bother to persist.
C: When making out and she says "we should stop" "I don't know if we should be
If you don't want her to see your body, or maybe you think you need a bigger
dick (not realizing orgasm in human beings is all mental and the physical is
just a catalyst for orgasm) you won't bother to persist here either.
3. NOT BOTHERING TO HAVE ANY REAL VALUE. I am not talking some sort of
"demonstrate value" type of bullshit here.
I am talking knowing you are better than other men in SOME way of some sort.
Yes you merely need to be the dick in her face, available at the moment in most
BUT if you are yourself not feeling like you should be fucking this given
chick, then of COURSE you wont try.
I mean do you think "she is so fit and I am just average I shouldn't be with
her" or "she wouldn't want me".
Or do you think "she is a rich girl and I work at this or that dumpy store I
wouldn't be valuable to her"?
Fuck all that. Realize you will if you just try, 100% break through all these
Really examine these things and find the ones you screw up on. You WILL
progress in dropping them and instead making effort.
No magic pill, no metaphysics, just good old fashioned trying to fuck chicks.
This game for many it seems is all an abstract ideal, not something they
REALLY want to do or are willing to change things they are insecure about for.
All ya really need to get started fucking decent looking chicks is to have it
be a reality of something in your life you genuine try to do.
Get laid not just liked!
"make the ho say no"
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