“Have You Become a Social Robot?” (by Style) | PUA Archive | alt.seduction.fast.advanced

Have you ever noticed that there's something strange about a lot of
sargers?

It's as if you look at a guy, and you can just TELL that something is
missing.

And some of these guys even do amazing in the field. They get great
reactions most of the time, and sometimes even #s and !s. But, at the
same time, they NEVER seem to have a girlfriend.

Most of the guys I know are like this. And there are a few reasons
why: First, it goes back to one of my cardinal rules: The best way to
sarge is to have something BETTER to do than to sarge. Some guys give
up everything -- school, work, even GFs -- to learn to sarge better.
But all these things ALLOW you to sarge better, because they make you
a more COMPLETE person.

A problem I've noticed amongst some of the most dedicated posters
here, especially those who got into ASF in their teens or early 20s,,
is that they have INVENTED themselves through this theory. They are,
to some degree, SOCIAL ROBOTS. And, after a great 20 minute set, it
begins to show through to an HB that you don't have anything MORE
going for you. The other problem with being a social robot is that you
start to thing that everyone else around you is one too, and begin to
read TOO MUCH into their actions.

Here's another thing Social Robots do: They treat Women completely
differently than they treat Men. If they are around women, even at a
lunch for work, they feel a stange shot of adrenaline and feel as if
they have to sarge. Interactions with women are no longer normal; they
become special occasions to feel a sense of self-worth. Your
self-esteem is contantly at the mercy of the reactions of women.

Social robots also stop seeing value in things that are non-PU
related, such as books and movies and even friends that they can't
learn about PU from.

So, what I'm trying to say in short is that ASF and the PU lifestyle
can give you SO much -- I know it's given me so much -- but it can
take away a lot too. You can end up becoming just a one-dimensional
person, a social robot.

The solution is to put your life back into balance; spend just an hour
a day reading ASF/PU-related material; spend just three nights or
afternoons a week sarging or hanging out with PUAs. Alternate PUA
reading with good literature. Make it a HOBBY. And focus a greater
share of your efforts on the job/achievements/success you want in
life. If you can make something of yourself, the HBs will come and
what you've learned here will prepare you to deal with them.

There's a book on cold-reading that basically breaks down all problems
to Health, Wealth and Relationships. And each have an Internal and
External component. (This btw is the book where Mystery got his theory
on this from.) And you need to start DIVIDING your attention between
ALL of these to be successful in any single one.

A lot of guys always ask how I got good so quickly. And I think that
in addition to all the awesome things (like Mystery's workshop) that
changed my life, I was well-rounded and interested in people to start
with. So when I ran out of routines, I could still be INTERESTING and
INTERESTED. Those two words in caps right there are, I think, the
special sauce that can prevent a lot of flaking that guys here seem to
get.

Style

PS I'm willing to expand on this if it's interesting (or not
completely obvious) to anyone.