Subject: Attraction game/phase from square one.
Date: March 3rd, 2005 04:07:00 AM (EST)Group: alt.seduction.fast.advanced
Author: Gunwitch
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Gonna go super deep psychology shit no one has ever heard about, who hasn't
studied it, so read carefully.
Ok we all know at some base level people are attracted to each other based on
their body, face, hair, build or their overall looks.
That's the simple first fact of it. Simple absolute truth.
In this game, in this community however, our goal is of course to use that
thing between her ears to get her attracted, regardless of having ideal overall
looks for her ideal.
What I will explain here is how to get her brain working in the proper
directions, so she will then be influenced in her choices about you.
When I studied everything from neurology to biological psychology to
physiological psychology, I always had an eye on that exact mechanism. The
"choice mechanism", what was it, how could I work in to it and influence it?
I never imagined I would even have a debate with someone in my life who did not
work at it from this angle. Never imagined this because the use of "changing
someone's choices", for influence in any area, is of course NEED ONE.
Any practitioner of influence who doesn't understand this and exactly how it
works has no hope of ever understanding their game fully.
So what is the first and foremost understanding one needs to have in
interpersonal influence?
Between a man and a woman?
Psychology 101 here so don't write it off, and if you are a woman, unless you
have attended a university and studied the shit don't tell me I am wrong, out
of ego:
Sex is an act of submission for a woman, to an overall dominance of her being.
To be penetrated, to take in, to be filled up with someone else is an act of
submission. This is not to say women do not enjoy the act, they in fact love
it, but it is hard wired in the DNA of heterosexual women that this submission
is the ultimate in sexual pleasure.
If anyone knows their shit already and wants the "gattaca" dna breakdown and
consequence from the chemical reactions behind it on male vs female neurons
look it up yourself. Or if enough ask for it I will draw it up and get it
online.
Of course looks can come in to play and cause a biological attraction to the
guy which fosters this, but does not make it happen by itself.
We won't concern ourselves with that element of it however. Everyone who knows
anything knows to look their socially acceptable best for the mating game
already. Anyone who knows anything also knows good looking guys fuck up their
attraction game just as bad if not worse than others at times.
Without going in to all the exact science and filling up 30 pages, just know
that women take in, men put in. Not in some little kid fashion, but hard wired
in the resulting DNA from the x and y chromosones.
We cannot however just walk up and put our penis inside of her to achieve this.
We need dominant behaviors to trigger this inside her mind that will result in
her feeling submissive.
First what is "dominant" to her "submissive" nature?
As you look at the below traits listed, think of how women possessing them have
a harder time with men in general, how they repulse us, or in the guy with no
game, even scare him away.
Quick list of traits:
Being masculine.
Being looked up to by others.
Being of more social intelligence than others.
Being able to let loose and not hold back/confidence in actions.
Having a stronger persona than her.
Having a more powerful positive state than her.
Lots more.
Now I don't want this to get TOO long so I will list some behavior and
situations you can get examples of that are these things:
Oldie but a goody, not supplicating. Instant fucked up frame is established
when you kiss ass of course.
Having a conversation with her and she says she doesn't like something you say
you like, saying "well you don't know shit about it woman!" tongue in cheek is
dominant without being a dick. While on the other hand saying "come to think of
it yeah it is stupid" breaks frame.
Something I like to do at bars and clubs and parties is have a stronger party
vibe than everyone else. An "UP" state which inside of I will:
Walk up to a chick and put up my fists as if to fight and when she puts hers up
play fight super light with her until she turns her back to me from me fake
slapping at her.
I will literally walk up and pick up a chick. On my shoulder and carry her
away.
If a chick does the "ahhhh scream and run away" thing mid conversation I will
chase after her and grab her around the waist and pick her up.
If a chick busts my balls about something, maybe makes a joke at me, I will put
her in a light headlock.
If you are reading these saying "I ain't like that though that's what other
guys do with their girlfriends" you are dead on right. That's why they are some
other guys girlfriend, not yours.
Other things I will do is if in a deep conversation with a chick and she is
talking a lot and offering a lot more insight in to the topic, I will change
the subject to something I am more well versed in and not act phased by her
insights.
I frame women and other men as a student and me as the teacher in
conversations. I ain't a rude and interrupting guy, and I don't talk down to
people. But I also tell people how it is, I don't go "uhmmm maybe you should
think about getting rid of that car if you can". I say "get rid a that car that
sounds like a piece of shit"
Dedication to what you say. Not "approval hopefully for saying this" is the
key.
Old one here in this community but I don't look away first when eyes lock with
mine, chicks or guys. I make sure they look away first.
Another old one, I don't speak super fast, I come off like people actually want
to hear what I have to say and will wait. I naturally talk fast so have to work
at this one sometimes.
I see myself as masculine, a man, not a boy, and project that to people.
I will tickle you, I will tickle her, someone tickles me I don't giggle, they
do.
I don't always feel the need to answer everything everyone says to me. Someone
says something trivial like "this is a cool song" that I just put on the radio
I don't go in to a novel about how I like it.
I pick up words. Phrases I like and words other people don't use, I use em, and
talk how I want to talk, I don't hold back for fear of "seeming weird".
Lots of things like this, that you can easily realize by looking for
dominance(not MEAN but MORE based dominance).
Now these alone will not achieve attraction fully.
At this point she simply has submitted to your frame and is now admiring you,
attracted to you as a persona.
You will start to then notice her do opposite behaviors things like:
Never giving you eye contact for more than a few seconds with a certain look in
here eye you have to know to know.
Running off and looking back at you playfully.
Play fighting with you and losing rather easy.
Jumping on your back to get a piggy back ride.
Jumping on your front and wrapping her legs around you.
Trying to make you tickle her.
Asking your opinion on things in the conversation.
Things to suck you in to the mating ritual, naturally start to come out of her.
At this point you simply need to go sexual state on her fully:
Project the sexuality through your tone of voice.
Touch her more sensually/slower and longer strokes.
Get closer and closer to her.
Give her deep sensual eye contact.
She will at this point:
1. At a neurological level she will see you as a lover, because you are taking
the actions of a lover. This works a lot like "anchors" of the Pavolvian sense
(CS), but more modern HUMAN biological psychology instead. Different areas of
the brain process this than sense (visual, auditory, kinosethetic) based
anchors, and she feels a sense of similarity with you as a lover from her
awareness of other people. This also works in other terms like the (UCS)in that
she feels she SHOULD act on it because she HAS in the past.
2. She will follow your sexual state because of the dominance set in before.
She begins to herself slide in to the sexual state as part of her overall
attraction to you, and hence becomes biologically attracted as well.
3. No science here, but I suspect from all I know it is, she once going sexual
also begins to wonder "why" she is attracted, and attributes good qualities to
you. Like "fractionating" theory. Basically she says if she is in to looks and
knows it: "oh it must be because he has strong arms", if she is in to money and
knows it: "this guy is so smart he has a lot of potential" even though you may
be fat and broke. As she does not 100% KNOW you are attracted, as you have not
told her you are, yet SHE is becoming attracted she will come up with her own
reasons/excuses if you are not her "classic type".
Put all 3 together, or AT LEAST the first two from biological fact, you have
attraction achieved that you can easily close her based on, the sooner the
better.
Get laid not just liked!
http://www.dynamicsexlife.com/»
"make the ho say no"
studied it, so read carefully.
Ok we all know at some base level people are attracted to each other based on
their body, face, hair, build or their overall looks.
That's the simple first fact of it. Simple absolute truth.
In this game, in this community however, our goal is of course to use that
thing between her ears to get her attracted, regardless of having ideal overall
looks for her ideal.
What I will explain here is how to get her brain working in the proper
directions, so she will then be influenced in her choices about you.
When I studied everything from neurology to biological psychology to
physiological psychology, I always had an eye on that exact mechanism. The
"choice mechanism", what was it, how could I work in to it and influence it?
I never imagined I would even have a debate with someone in my life who did not
work at it from this angle. Never imagined this because the use of "changing
someone's choices", for influence in any area, is of course NEED ONE.
Any practitioner of influence who doesn't understand this and exactly how it
works has no hope of ever understanding their game fully.
So what is the first and foremost understanding one needs to have in
interpersonal influence?
Between a man and a woman?
Psychology 101 here so don't write it off, and if you are a woman, unless you
have attended a university and studied the shit don't tell me I am wrong, out
of ego:
Sex is an act of submission for a woman, to an overall dominance of her being.
To be penetrated, to take in, to be filled up with someone else is an act of
submission. This is not to say women do not enjoy the act, they in fact love
it, but it is hard wired in the DNA of heterosexual women that this submission
is the ultimate in sexual pleasure.
If anyone knows their shit already and wants the "gattaca" dna breakdown and
consequence from the chemical reactions behind it on male vs female neurons
look it up yourself. Or if enough ask for it I will draw it up and get it
online.
Of course looks can come in to play and cause a biological attraction to the
guy which fosters this, but does not make it happen by itself.
We won't concern ourselves with that element of it however. Everyone who knows
anything knows to look their socially acceptable best for the mating game
already. Anyone who knows anything also knows good looking guys fuck up their
attraction game just as bad if not worse than others at times.
Without going in to all the exact science and filling up 30 pages, just know
that women take in, men put in. Not in some little kid fashion, but hard wired
in the resulting DNA from the x and y chromosones.
We cannot however just walk up and put our penis inside of her to achieve this.
We need dominant behaviors to trigger this inside her mind that will result in
her feeling submissive.
First what is "dominant" to her "submissive" nature?
As you look at the below traits listed, think of how women possessing them have
a harder time with men in general, how they repulse us, or in the guy with no
game, even scare him away.
Quick list of traits:
Being masculine.
Being looked up to by others.
Being of more social intelligence than others.
Being able to let loose and not hold back/confidence in actions.
Having a stronger persona than her.
Having a more powerful positive state than her.
Lots more.
Now I don't want this to get TOO long so I will list some behavior and
situations you can get examples of that are these things:
Oldie but a goody, not supplicating. Instant fucked up frame is established
when you kiss ass of course.
Having a conversation with her and she says she doesn't like something you say
you like, saying "well you don't know shit about it woman!" tongue in cheek is
dominant without being a dick. While on the other hand saying "come to think of
it yeah it is stupid" breaks frame.
Something I like to do at bars and clubs and parties is have a stronger party
vibe than everyone else. An "UP" state which inside of I will:
Walk up to a chick and put up my fists as if to fight and when she puts hers up
play fight super light with her until she turns her back to me from me fake
slapping at her.
I will literally walk up and pick up a chick. On my shoulder and carry her
away.
If a chick does the "ahhhh scream and run away" thing mid conversation I will
chase after her and grab her around the waist and pick her up.
If a chick busts my balls about something, maybe makes a joke at me, I will put
her in a light headlock.
If you are reading these saying "I ain't like that though that's what other
guys do with their girlfriends" you are dead on right. That's why they are some
other guys girlfriend, not yours.
Other things I will do is if in a deep conversation with a chick and she is
talking a lot and offering a lot more insight in to the topic, I will change
the subject to something I am more well versed in and not act phased by her
insights.
I frame women and other men as a student and me as the teacher in
conversations. I ain't a rude and interrupting guy, and I don't talk down to
people. But I also tell people how it is, I don't go "uhmmm maybe you should
think about getting rid of that car if you can". I say "get rid a that car that
sounds like a piece of shit"
Dedication to what you say. Not "approval hopefully for saying this" is the
key.
Old one here in this community but I don't look away first when eyes lock with
mine, chicks or guys. I make sure they look away first.
Another old one, I don't speak super fast, I come off like people actually want
to hear what I have to say and will wait. I naturally talk fast so have to work
at this one sometimes.
I see myself as masculine, a man, not a boy, and project that to people.
I will tickle you, I will tickle her, someone tickles me I don't giggle, they
do.
I don't always feel the need to answer everything everyone says to me. Someone
says something trivial like "this is a cool song" that I just put on the radio
I don't go in to a novel about how I like it.
I pick up words. Phrases I like and words other people don't use, I use em, and
talk how I want to talk, I don't hold back for fear of "seeming weird".
Lots of things like this, that you can easily realize by looking for
dominance(not MEAN but MORE based dominance).
Now these alone will not achieve attraction fully.
At this point she simply has submitted to your frame and is now admiring you,
attracted to you as a persona.
You will start to then notice her do opposite behaviors things like:
Never giving you eye contact for more than a few seconds with a certain look in
here eye you have to know to know.
Running off and looking back at you playfully.
Play fighting with you and losing rather easy.
Jumping on your back to get a piggy back ride.
Jumping on your front and wrapping her legs around you.
Trying to make you tickle her.
Asking your opinion on things in the conversation.
Things to suck you in to the mating ritual, naturally start to come out of her.
At this point you simply need to go sexual state on her fully:
Project the sexuality through your tone of voice.
Touch her more sensually/slower and longer strokes.
Get closer and closer to her.
Give her deep sensual eye contact.
She will at this point:
1. At a neurological level she will see you as a lover, because you are taking
the actions of a lover. This works a lot like "anchors" of the Pavolvian sense
(CS), but more modern HUMAN biological psychology instead. Different areas of
the brain process this than sense (visual, auditory, kinosethetic) based
anchors, and she feels a sense of similarity with you as a lover from her
awareness of other people. This also works in other terms like the (UCS)in that
she feels she SHOULD act on it because she HAS in the past.
2. She will follow your sexual state because of the dominance set in before.
She begins to herself slide in to the sexual state as part of her overall
attraction to you, and hence becomes biologically attracted as well.
3. No science here, but I suspect from all I know it is, she once going sexual
also begins to wonder "why" she is attracted, and attributes good qualities to
you. Like "fractionating" theory. Basically she says if she is in to looks and
knows it: "oh it must be because he has strong arms", if she is in to money and
knows it: "this guy is so smart he has a lot of potential" even though you may
be fat and broke. As she does not 100% KNOW you are attracted, as you have not
told her you are, yet SHE is becoming attracted she will come up with her own
reasons/excuses if you are not her "classic type".
Put all 3 together, or AT LEAST the first two from biological fact, you have
attraction achieved that you can easily close her based on, the sooner the
better.
Get laid not just liked!
http://www.dynamicsexlife.com/»
"make the ho say no"
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