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"Boyfriend Destroyer Works Again!" / May 4th, 2007

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Boyfriend Destroyer Works Again!
by Ross» Jeffries of Ross Jeffries -
May 4th, 2007

Just before I left for a Ross Jeffries -» Seminar" onmouseover="window.status='Click for more info on Ross Jeffries -» Seminar'; return(true);" onmouseout="window.status=''; return(true);" href="/cgi-bin/redir.cgi?">Seminar, I had an opportunity to once again use one of my pattened "Boyfriend Destroyer" patterns on a stunning blonde medical student.

(Actually, I should say Boyfriend "Ignorer". I don't care if she keeps the boyfriend to do her errands, pay her bills, be her "fix it man" etc. Just as long as ***I*** am the one she is wildly pleasing between the sheets, on the couch, against the wall, etc. etc. etc, good buddy!)

I met this young lady while I was sitting at breakfast at a local restaurant I frequent.

I'll skip most of this in order to keep it short, but at one point, in response to my question about her watch she said, "My boyfriend gave it to me".

Immediately I countered with, "Boyfriends are like colds. You can catch one at any time. That doesn't mean you want to keep him."

She laughed at that and then I added, "Besides, I don't want to be a boyfriend. Too much work. I'd rather relax and enjoy each other without all the worry and heartache."

Her eyes lit up, she smiled and nodded.

She wound up volunteering her contact info after I told her that she and I should hang out and she did it with a smile on her face, quite willingly.

Now, here is a more important point.

All of this happened right in front of one my students who was vying for her attention!

He wasn't doing that badly. But when she mentioned the boyfriend, I saw him non-verbally wince and sort of "collapse" inside.

HE saw it as a barrier. So HE gave up.

I had (and have) a different belief about the whole boyfriend thing, indeed about ANY "objection" that a woman may bring up, and here it is:


I never take a woman's first response to me as written in stone. It's only a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling or responding to IN THAT MOMENT and it is ALWAYS SUBJECT TO CHANGE.


In fact, there are 6 different beliefs I hold that make it possible for me to come up with all the slippery language that works so well.

The Importance And Practical Power Of Beliefs

Please get this: without the beliefs, using the language alone CAN work. But adding in the beliefs makes the language far, FAR more effective.

In addition to that, I know what to do with my energy to keep from collapsing non-verbally as my student did.

Trust me, my friend: knowing how to properly create and use beliefs and control your "energy" will make the power of your words 500 to 1000% more effective.

But more on that in another issue.

Peace and Piece,

~Ross» Jeffries, Founder, Speed Seduction»»®

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