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"How To "Lock-In" Lasting Confidence With Women!" / May 7th, 2007

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How To "Lock-In" Lasting Confidence With Women!
by Ross Jeffries of Ross Jeffries -
May 7th, 2007

Over the years, I've had a chance to look at what really makes permanent, large, personal change possible. I've watched thousands of guys use my methods to go very rapidly from no confidence with women at all, to ease, power, grace and fun with all the women they could possibly desire.

And one of the big things they had in common, in addition to buying and using my products, is…


They didn't just listen to my products once, or give it a few tries.


They immersed themselves in the material.

In fact, I've gotten many reports of guys going so far as to have my, videos, Ross Jeffries -» cd" onmouseover="window.status='Click for more info on Ross Jeffries -» cd'; return(true);" onmouseout="window.status=''; return(true);" href="/cgi-bin/redir.cgi?">cd's and tapes playing all the time in every room of their house, apartment or hotel, no matter the time of day, on multiple tape players, VHS's etc.

Other students(including some of my current top guys) have said that they took long drives out of town, often hundreds of miles each way, with the tapes or Ross Jeffries -» CD" onmouseover="window.status='Click for more info on Ross Jeffries -» CD'; return(true);" onmouseout="window.status=''; return(true);" href="/cgi-bin/redir.cgi?">CD's playing the entire trip.

Now, personally, I don't think I could stand listening to my own voice that much!

But immersing yourself in the material, in fact, immersing yourself when it comes to any truly new way of thinking and feeling and acting, is probably…

........A Damn Fine Idea!

Remember, one of my key rules for success and power with women, which I've repeated over and over: Use Your Language To Capture And Lead Her Imagination And Emotions!

Well, the same is true with changing yourself. You've got to learn to capture and lead your own imagination and emotions on a consistent basis to take you where you really want to go! And then follow up with your external behavior, in the real world, with women!

Anyway, yesterday I got an email from someone who brought up this very issue. So let's here from this devoted client/reader:

"Hey Ross, I know you probably get a million emails a day, but I felt the need to take the time to thank you for the work you've put in to Speed Seduction» and the» Unstoppable Confidence'; return(true);" href="/cgi-bin/redir.cgi?" onmouseout="window.status=''; return(true);" title="Ross Jeffries -» Unstoppable Confidence">Unstoppable Confidence series. I've only received SS 2 days ago, but just by listening to your exercises on visualization and overcoming fear and shyness, I can already tell it's having an effect on the way I perceive myself.

If you happen to get through this and feel like replying, I'm just wondering if it's normal to feel sort of...hollow, or feel almost a blank emptiness after doing these exercises? Seriously, after I listen and study for a while I feel like I've completely erased a part of myself and it takes a little getting used to but goes away after a while. Any idea what I'm talking about, or am I just convincing myself that I should feel different?

Again, thanks a million and I promise to study hard and practice as often as I possibly can. :)

-Tim T. New Castle, PA "


Thanks for the kind words. I personally love the» Unstoppable Confidence'; return(true);" href="/cgi-bin/redir.cgi?" onmouseout="window.status=''; return(true);" title="Ross Jeffries -» Unstoppable Confidence">Unstoppable Confidence tapes. They are one of our all time best sellers, and still, over a decade after I created them in 1994, they stand up as one of my finest products.

While it's great that only after 2 days you are already noticing some good effects, bear in mind that it takes a while for big changes to take hold and feel real.

That's not to say you aren't changing already. You are. It just takes a while for new feelings, new thoughts and new behaviors to "feel like the real you". Most studies show that, in fact, the time period for new ways of thinking, feeling and acting to "set" and feel "natural" is 21 days.

My suggestion is to keep on listening to the UC Tapes and keep doing the exercises. It takes some consistent(but not heroic or hard) effort to get change going. And for goodness sakes, make sure you are a member of the Speed Seduction» on-line discussion group where you can get 24 hour support, encouragement and ANSWERS to your questions! Yours for free when you get your Deluxe or Basic Home Study Course.

That's it for this issue. Keep practicing, keep capturing imagination and emotion (your own and womens') and keep on keeping on!

Peace and piece,

~Ross Jeffries, Founder, Speed Seduction»®

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