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Is Ogling Women’s Breasts Good For Your Health
by Ray Devans
of The Art of the Pickup
June 14th, 2007
Back when I had a “normal” job, I remember one of my coworkers sending me an email referencing a fascinating study by the New England Medical Center. What they found was that men who were instructed to ogle women’s breasts daily were found to have lower cholesterol levels, lower blood pressure, and generally lower chance of heart attack than a control group of men who did not ogle women’s breasts. Here is what it had to say:
“Great news for girl watchers: Ogling over women's breasts is good for a man's health and can add years to his life, medical experts have discovered. According to the New England Journal of Medicine, "Just 10 minutes of staring at the charms of a well-endowed female is roughly equivalent to a 30-minute aerobics work-out" declared gerontologist Dr. Karen Weatherby.
Dr. Weatherby and fellow researchers at three hospitals in Frankfurt, Germany, reached the startling conclusion after comparing the health of 200 male outpatients - half of whom were instructed to look at busty females daily, the other half told to refrain from doing so. The study revealed that after five years, the chest-watchers had lower blood pressure, slower resting pulse rates and fewer instances of coronary artery disease.
"Sexual excitement gets the heart pumping and improves blood circulation," explains Dr. Weatherby. "There's no question: Gazing at breasts makes men healthier." "Our study indicates that engaging in this activity a few minutes daily cuts the risk of stroke and heart attack in half. We believe that by doing so consistently, the average man can extend his life four to five years."
The study was of course total B.S., but it sure sounded fun and it even sounded somehow realistic. Certainly I for one feel better when I am see a woman with a really nice pair of breasts.
But I am going off on a tangent here. Even if it was true that we could improve our health by ogling women, how many of us would do it actively? How many of us would be more ashamed of the fact that we are expressing a sort of sexual appreciation and let our health suffer for it?
OK, this is being a bit tongue and cheek, but the fact is that we are socialized to generally hide our real desires as men and certainly not act on them.
Now there are good reasons for this, society won’t work if all men go overboard. The problem is the socialization has over compensated made us afraid to do too many things. Often some of this comes from our parents. Our father’s might not have been around enough to tell us “be a man, son.” And our mother’s advice is well intentioned, but often translates to something that winds up being more like “be a girl, son.” Religion and school and certain popular media have the same message.
Most men are afraid to turn around and check out a woman when she passes by, or even smile at her in appreciation before that. Most men are paralyzed by a fear of telling a woman that they find her sexy and want to take her home. Most men constantly restrain themselves in various ways from showing that they are sexual beings. (Note that getting drunk and letting go doesn’t count).
We tend to be thinking “what will other people think?” The fact is that most people are more worried about the same thing so they hardly even notice you. And even if they do, who cares?
At some point if you want to be successful with women, you have to give yourself permission to accept and follow your natural desires with women (within legal limits of course).
Ask yourself, if you see a hot woman walking down the street past you, how often will you turn around and go try to pick her up? What thoughts go through your mind?
I’m willing to bet that they go sort of like “Wow, she is hot, I’d love to meet her, but I can’t just turn around and talk to her, other people would know I am trying to pick her up.”
Yeah, other people that you will likely never see again. In cases like this you just have to get over your fears and make the approach.
There are other biological reasons like fear that might cause you not to approach, and that is also a natural feeling that you have to learn to get around, usually by repeated approaches. The more you approach in a short period of time, the less afraid you will become. Wait a few months with no approaches and you will likely be afraid again. You have to get on a roll and stay on it.
Now our DVDs have a lot of useful information to get you approaching women in all kinds of places, basically anywhere you go. They help you by giving you the things to say and the framework for what to do in order from meeting, to getting her contact info, to meeting again, to getting her to your place and then how to get to sex. If you haven’t gotten them yet you really owe it to yourself to buy them.
No single hint can replace the complete system in our DVDs, but I always try to give our readers something useful in each newsletter. So a quick hint to help you accept your natural desires more is simply to do more manly activities in your daily life than you probably do now. Here are some examples:
Do you lift weights?
Do you practice a martial art regularly?
Do you spar with a partner in a sport like boxing?
Do you do adrenaline releasing activities like rock climbing, etc?
Finding activities like these will help you be a bit more of a “natural” with women. In fact if you schedule a date with a woman after you lift weights or do one of these types of activities, you might be surprised how much more naturally you act in masculine ways that attract her. Go ahead, give it a try.
And if nothing else, you will very likely not feel much guilt about appreciating a nice pair of breasts here and there.
Ray Devans
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