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Lick Her Neck Before You Kiss Her
by Jay Valens of The Art of the Pickup
February 18th, 2008

Sometimes I keep things to myself but I gave this one away recently, so I don’t mind sharing it some more. I’ll share it with you.

If you’re so new to experiencing success with women that you find yourself hesitating to kiss them, even when you’re alone with them, this nugget is for you. Even for those guys out there who are otherwise doing find but can’t seem to transition easily to kissing, this is still helpful.

Alright, you’re alone with her, or at least you’ve got yourself in a private area with her, she’s sticking around in a way that indicates she’s interested, and you want to kiss her… but you mentally freeze up and can’t seem to “go for it”. If you’ve been in this situation too many times, and didn’t go for it, chances are you eventually lost the girl’s interest and the only result you got was a lingering feeling for days, “I should have kissed her.” But the moment is gone, and so is your chance.

I could tell you, “Just do it.” That would work. Maybe. It works theoretically because you can read that when there are no girls around and think in your mind, “Hell, yeah, next time I’m going to … just do it!” Then when next time comes around, you’re hesitating again and still unsure of yourself.

Instead I will give you a fool-proof method to not only successfully kiss her, but to do so in a way you will find fun and allow you to skip past your hesitation.

She could be talking, drinking, fiddling with her hair, listening to you talk, or just plain sitting there like a lump on a log. It doesn’t matter…

Just stop the girl cold and look at her for a sec, then her bare neck, then back at her eyes and say "That's weird..." When she asks "What?" you say "You've... got a little bit of food where your shoulder meets your neck." When she says "What?" and goes to brush it (the imaginary food) off with her hand or something, stop her and say "No, wait, stop... let me get it..." and then go in and start licking & kissing her where shoulder meets her neck. She will make freaky noises and giggle and then you come up for air after a few seconds and say "Yummmm... that was pretty good." Smile and then ask her one of 2 possible questions:

- "How did it taste before it passed your lips?"
- "Do you want to know what it tastes like?"

Either way, kiss her, without waiting for an answer. It doesn’t matter how she responds to the question, her openness to your kissing her is now increased by a factor of 10 because you just did something outrageous, flirty, fun, and sexy. If she didn’t like it and pushes you away – hey, it’s not like you kissed her HAHA. Once a girl looked at me stone cold after I did that and asked, “Why did you do that?” and I said “Because I was hungry… and you had some leftovers.” She laughed and we kissed. Other times just went like clockwork – shrieks, laughing, then kissing.

Yes, if you look at this logically, it’s retarded, but it accomplishes something that “just do it” lacks. It JUST DOES IT.

So get out there and… just lick it.

Jay Valens

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