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Unrestrainable Creature of Pickup
by Ray Devans of The Art of the Pickup
March 22nd, 2007

So “unrestrainable” isn’t really a word, but a reader wrote in recently and asked me how he could become an “unrestrainable creature of pickup”. I liked the sound of that, so let’s talk about how to do it.

Besides buying “The Art of the Pickup»DVDs, there is no simple answer to this question :)

Seriously though, a lot of the questions we get these days ask for just one magic bullet» answer to all problems. I open the mailbox, and get questions like:

“Ray, I have trouble talking to women. What can I say to get any girl interested in me?”

If I knew a simple line like “Abracadabra, you are now my love slave” that worked on all women, I wouldn’t have time to be writing you these newsletters, if you know what I mean.

What guys never seem to realize is that there is a lot to know, and it takes some time to get better with women. It doesn’t happen overnight, even with a great instruction like you will find on our DVDs.

But I can’t blame you for asking for a magic bullet». So for today I will do my best to give you that one magic bullet» that will help you on your quest to become an “unrestrainable creature of pickup”.

Well, it won’t happen overnight, but the answer is a theme you will see pop up indirectly in a lot of what we write in these newsletters.

You have to do things differently than how society wants you to do them.

For example, one reader wrote in and asked us how to get rid of his current girlfriend now that he has a new girlfriend.

Restrained creature of pickup answer: “Just be a man and tell her it’s over.”
Unrestrained creature of pickup answer: “Keep them both.”

Society tells you that you should only have one girlfriend, but once you start achieving high levels of success with women, you will at least have the option to have more than one. The question will be whether you can break out of your mental programming and take advantage of your opportunity.

Sometimes when you have more than one girlfriend and aren’t afraid to tell women that you do, you will actually find that it is easier to get more girlfriends because you already have others! Talk about unrestrained, the only thing that will be restrained is your free time…

Another reader wrote in and said he was using the tips in the newsletter and getting “whatever girls he wants”. But he was concerned about the fact that he was giving off a player vibe and these girls were commenting on it, so he asked how to stop doing that.

Restrained creature of pickup answer: “Stop using the tips, dress more boring and mainstream, and go back to not getting all the women you want.”
Unrestrained creature of pickup answer: “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”

What this reader didn’t realize is that society and women tell men it is bad to be a “player”, but ironically it might be his player vibe that is causing his success. Many women like the player type despite what they say outwardly, BECAUSE of the very fact that he is successful with women. It means there must be a reason he is successful with women, some reason they may not be able to see, even if he isn’t good looking. How is this guy getting all this success if these girls were truly turned off by it?

The fact that a guy has mannerisms of a player often indicates to women that he must have gotten those mannerisms through many previous successes with women. “Maybe he is good in bed?” they wonder to themselves. So they want to find out more, they want to find out for themselves.

Are you starting to see how all this works? How doing what YOU want vs. what society wants you to do can make you ten times more successful?

If I could reach through the computer screen and whack some of you who might not get it yet on the head and thereby magically get this idea into your heads, I would do it in a heartbeat.

Let me tell you a story closer to home. Society tells you that you need a nice car and clothes to attract women. Yet to this day maybe the best looking woman I ever dated and slept with I met when I was in college with no car and living in a house that literally had dirt an inch think at the doorway and a huge hole in the wall. She didn’t seem to care, she even put on an amazing candlelight striptease for me in that shack.

Later when I started making money, I lost sight of this fact and laid out a lot of money on a nice convertible sports car with visions of hot chicks jumping in the front seat, and then jumping on me.

I loved that car because it was fun and fast, I even gave it a name: “Black Sunshine”. It was a lean, mean, growling machine, and the way the engine roared in the morning still brings a smile to my face.

But it never once got me a woman or even really ever helped me with women. I seriously can’t think of one single time it did, no matter how hard I try. I actually had more success with women before they saw it than after.

These days I drive a beat up 1994 Nissan with a rear bumper that is so rusted that only about half of the original bumper exists. This is true even though I could walk onto a lot and buy a car in cash that cost twice as much as my old one for cash if I wanted to. This is not to say that I might not do that some day, but it would be for me, not for trying to get women. Even with my current rust job, I am enjoying the exact level of success with women that I currently want.

How can this be possible? Don’t I need a Porsche and a house on the beach to get girls?


I became an unrestrained creature of pickup simply by continually learning and ultrarelentlessly improving myself, and not caring what society wants me to do. You can do the same. (Even though “ultrarelentlessly” is also not a real word.)

Stop caring what others think.

Start thinking outside the box.

Care more about what you think and what you desire, and free yourself from the Matrix.

It’s that simple. Start today. If you need a step-by-step guide, check out our DVDs and unrestrain yourself.

Your ultrarelentless unrestrainable coach of pickup,

Ray Devans

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