mASF post by "Magnus"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005
Damn, does this really bother you? I find it funny, and enjoy this shit when
it happens to me.
Here are some of the ways I deal with it; always keeping cool, relaxed and
utterly, utterly secure about it.
When guys wolfwhistle or pull over cars or whatever, I make out like I think
they are whistling at ME. "damn, I hate when guys whistle at me like that,
they make me feel like an object"... "haha, did you see that guy checking me
out?" etc
One time I actually turned round to three black dudes who were staying at my
girlfriend and said "will you guys quit staring at me like that, it makes her
jealous", SHB collapses in fits of giggles.
Guys chatting up your girl is just standard AMOGging. Read up on this. Ask
them to take her off your hands, push her towards him, tell her you think he
likes her, tell her to get him to buy her (and you?) a drink.
You can do this really subtly, one time I was on the dancefloor with HB9, when
this guy dances towards her, and I just subtley nod and wink at her to dance
with him. She immediately started grinding me.
You shouldn't need to get in a fight. If you feel like you have to fight, then
you are losing your cool, and this lowers your value to the HB. Sure it's
important that you are physically dominant and she feels that you can protect
her, but you can show this without even squaring up to a guy. In fact, you can
show it BECAUSE YOU DON'T square up to a guy. Personally I prefer girls who
feel they can look after themselves and deal with the attention, and who
respect me when I trust them to do so.
It's all part of the fun, and I find it immensely validating.
Magnus
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