mASF post by "LowRider69"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, November 11, 2002
>Now if a BETA guy did that, he
>would be instantly EXPELLED,
>ridiculed, and possibly
>CRIMINALLY CHARGED.
No way I could get away with that. YET.
>Now when I was at my Mystery
>Method workshop, I was
>initially learning the method
>and C&Bed a few times in a
>row. It was getting to me,
>and for No9's amusement, I
>steal a chick's drink who has
>been snubbing me. She gets
>angry, freaks out, and says
>some shit to me and leaves. I
>look like a WEIRDO, and she
>thinks that I'm FUCKED IN THE
>HEAD. If any guys were with
>her, she probably would have
>told them to fuck me up or
>something.
>
>Of course, I've done this
>SUCCESSFULLY more times than I
>can remember. So why did it
>bomb this one time? Because I
>looked and in fact WAS being
>beta at the time.
How were you "being beta" ?? I'm not getting this.
>I realized I was fucking up,
>bounced back, and pulled off
>the maneuvre to wicked success
>several times after that,
>realizing where I'd fucked up,
>and taking measures to correct
>it.
Where WERE you fucking up???
>I get away with ANYTHING like
>that normally, if I'm -ON-.
>But when I'm tired and looking
>run down, if I do that stuff
>(often out of habit), I get
>the OPPOSITE results than the
>ones I'm looking for.
I TOTALLY get this but its hard to PINPOINT what the difference is. Sometimes
it'll just be something small like "playful eyes" ...whats your "ON" vs
"Run-down"
>
>EG#3)
>A alpha type guy PUSHES and
>PUSHES and PUSHES a chick for
>sex, maybe a date, whatever.
>The chick think's its funny,
>sexy, or cute.. often, she
>eventually cracks and they
>fuck. Why did she fuck him?
>He was just so "confident".
>Hollywood examples are Ben
>Affleck in the movie 'Pearl
>Harbour' when he picks up the
>nurse, and Mel Gibson in the
>movie 'What women want' when
>he picks up Marrisa Tomei.
Love the Mel Gibson coffee shop PU. Its all attitude...Brad Pitt in "MEet Joe
Black" complete bullshit convo but its all attitude - watch his "bedroom eyes"
and tonality ...
>-When you try this type of
>stuff, try to GAUGE how people
>are reacting to it.. do you
>sense that they're questioning
>it, or do they just think its
>funny and cool? If you feel
>like its not working for you,
>try ADJUSTING your behaviour
>in some way, and seeing if
>that works. You'll get it
>eventually, it just takes time
>and experience.
I've had mixed response. For example the other day this chick was drinking
coffee so I said "hey, is this still hot?" and picked up her cup. She was like
"yeah, I just got it" then I was like "hmmm, its cold outside..." and pressed
the warm cup against her arm. She smiled. It worked.
I did the EXACT same thing to another chick and I got a horrible response.
Maybe she saw the hesitation, maybe I was "beta" instead of "alpha" ...I can't
figure it out.
GOod post.
LowRider
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