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Field Report: I think I was programmed at birth to be afraid
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mASF post by "JackOfSpades"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, April 4, 2005

Did you approach anyone at all? If you never approached, you should come out
with the guys from our lair. We'll make sure you open sets.

If you never really opened before, try this: wear a very noticeable watch and
just ask random people what time it is. This is just a very basic thing. After
you open you can choose to stay in set or leave.

Or you can just go up and just do any opener. And then leave after the opener.
That's it. Anyone can do that. Just approach with the mindset of doing just the
opener. Maybe in a few sets you'll be in there longer than you think.

On 4/22/05 1:51:00 PM, Sin wrote:
>Field Report Total crash and
>Okay So I planned Thursday
>night¡Kas the day I get out
>there and DO something! Well I
>pretty much did nothing ƒ¼
>-long sleeved button up
>-express jeans
>-white shoes
>-beaded choker
>-watch.bracelet rings
>It was around 12:00 o clock
>when we stepped into the
>club¡Kthe music was loud the
>place was on felt
>good to be inside a social
>atmosphere¡Kso I immediately
>started thinking of
>sarging¡K..this is what I¡¦m
>here to do right¡K.
>I see this girl by the
>entrance standing there¡Kmy
>thoughts start to get to
>me¡K¡¨what should I do..what
>should I say¡K.should I just
>say hello¡Kmaybe opinon
>opener¡K.what will other
>people think of me¡K.ahhhhhaaa
>plenty of time tonight ¡§
>didn¡¦t open
>Girls walking by the stairs on
>the dance floor same thoughts
>didn¡¦t open
>Girls sitting at a table with
>drinks by themselves didn¡¦t
>Two girls that were sitting
>outside smoking a ciggerate
>didn¡¦t open (and watch
>another guy open)
>Overall there was atleast five
>times I could have really
>openend but I didn¡¦t why? I
>think it¡¦s a mixture of fear
>and not knowing what to say
>(again my past sticking
>points) but why?
>Am I afraid of the word no? Am
>I afraid of a woman just
>looking at me and ignoring me?
>I¡¦ve had that happen
>before¡K.Am I afraid of akward
>moments? Hell I used to be
>really into hip hop I had no
>problem getting up on stage
>and battling rappers infront
>of loads of people but when it
>comes to talking to ONE single
>woman I choke out, get the
>shakes¡Kand freeze¡KIs this a
>issue with internal
>dialogue..and internal image?
>I read the M.A.S.F. FAQ and it
>mentions that any doubt in
>myself stems from taking
>myself to seriously and maybe
>I do¡Kmaybe for some reason I
>am ¡§dreaded¡¨ by the feeling
>of a girl not liking me¡K.
>The closet to opening a girl
>was actually going up to girls
>dancing and just dancing..some
>women let me dance other women
>sorta looked at me funny and
>turned their backs 2 me facing
>in another direction..(no
>grinding) The funny thing was
>those moments didn¡¦t stop me
>from approaching women on the
>dance floor to dance¡Ksimply
>because I liked
>dancing¡K.(until the end of
>the night..where I felt really
>exhausted and just wanted a
>sprite and a bed)
>My mental state was totally
>screwed up¡K.and it seems like
>when I¡¦m not in PU doing the
>affirmations and NLP I feel
>like a million bucks but as
>soon as I step out of the car
>and it¡¦s game time¡Kin the
>field..>AFC feelings take
>The sticking points I can
>think off are one¡Kfind a way
>to get rid of this AFC mind¡KI
>think I attract way to much
>value to what women think of
>me¡K.and honestly I take PU
>way to seriously¡K.(I
>literally work hours on this
>stuff¡Kwith theory it
>shouldn¡¦t be that serious) I
>do need to practice routines,
>and some sort of chart that
>shows me what to say, how the
>pick up should go because
>after HI¡Kor )the opener I
>totally am clueless¡K..I need
>something that is going to
>make me more comfortable..hell
>how about I learn how to open
>I¡¦m wondering if my fear is
>coming from actually women or
>fear from not knowing what to
>-Read the Player guide (been
>sleeping on this)
>-Learn the player guide and PU
>(practice the shit)
>-Stop putting to much value on
>women I don¡¦t know..(I got to
>affirm this shit in my brain
>somehow god I¡¦m such a afc
>when ti comes to this)
>-3 sec rule (learn how to use
>-Have FUN! ( I think the
>problem was I keep seeing pick
>up as a chore and when I do
>what I¡¦m supposed to do I¡¦m
>more happy that the process is
>over rather then actually
>enjoying the pick up..if I
>can¡¦t enjoy this shit what¡¦s
>the point)
>-practice state control
>-read and study FIELD
>reports¡Kthe best way to see
>this stuff in action
>"You never knocked me down
>ray, you never knocked me
>down" Robert DiNero as Jake La
>Motta,Raging Bull

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