mASF post by "Jestor"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2005Making strong statements is how you lure her in. It makes her seek rapport
with you. Cause and effect: I make a strong statement, she gets intrigued and
wants to know more.
You have a point to make and you make it. It could be a profound realization
about the world or pop culture in general. Gets into her head, makes her
think. And while she's taking it in you start to get closer and more sexual.
making strong statements <-------> go sexual (innuendos, kino etc)
"You know I don't think people are able to appreciate good things..sometimes
all that you need is right in front of you", and then slowly slide your hand up
her skirt. Do that for a bit, withdraw, lay back and continue chatting. Then
go in again from the other angle. Back and forth. It's like GOD going in for
the kill. How can she resist?
On 8/13/05 3:07:00 PM, express wrote:
>Juggler talks about the
>importance of making
>statements. Why? Basically
>because they put the focus on
>YOU as the prize (someone with
>value), rather than hiding
>behind a safe curtain of
>questions.
>
>This sounds good in theory.
>
>In practice, though, I've
>found how tricky it is. In
>most settings (party, club,
>street, gym, etc.) no one
>wants to get into deep values
>and emotions. Juggler says
>that the focus is on being
>GENUINE rather than deep, but
>how do you make honest
>statements that reveal any
>VALUE in you in these
>settings? Surely exhibiting
>genuine value can only be done
>by making deep points. But at
>a party, for example, there's
>really not much to declare or
>state. Juggler gives the
>example of saying "I like..."
>if you're stuck for
>statements, but this seems
>pretty limited to me. What
>other ways can effective
>statements be made?
>
>It also seems really awkward
>to bring up conversational
>threads by making statements.
>I can't seem to get my head
>around this.
>
>Have you guys written down
>your "values" in life? To me,
>this seems very artificial --
>I'm sure most of us can't be
>boilt down to five core
>values. Even if you have, how
>can you make value-stacked
>statements that are not "deep"
>but are "genuine"? Do you have
>a stockpile or stories about
>your life to rely on?
>
>I'm still confused on this
>issue of making interesting
>statements in everyday
>situations, so I'd really
>appreciate your thoughts.
>
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