mASF post by "esk6969"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, June 6, 2005On 6/25/05 10:13:00 PM, djmb wrote:
>Ok i met this girl and she
>gave me her number, she tells
>me she's with a guy. we
>end up hooking up. and two
>nights later hook up again.
I can't keep all with all you young whippersnappers and your fancy lingo. What
is meant by "hooking up" in this context. Did you actually fuck her, or not?
>call now to make
>plans and she says she has a
>boyfriend and likes him, and
>doesn't want to ruin
>it.
As above, did you fuck her? If you did, then, you both had your fun, and now,
she's decided she's done. So what? If not, you're getting LJBF'ed....
>i keep stressing the fact
>that he's younger than her,
>and that she's going away
>to college in two months why
>waste her time with one
>person, but she won't
>budge.
This is very "beta-ish" behavior. The way to get a woman to stop thinking
about her man is not by sitting there and talking about him. All that makes
her do is think about him. The idea is to get her mind off of him, right?
Well, the way you do that is by getting her to focus on YOU, and all of your
positive traits, rather than the borefriend, and all of his negative traits.
Plus, talking about good, positive things (i.e., YOU), is going to put them in
a much better and more receptive mood than putting down their previous taste in
men. Add to that, since she was "dumb enough" to pick him, then the more you
criticize him, the more you criticize her, and her poor choice, by extension.
Remember, think like a chick would - EVERYTHING always comes back to how it's
about her. That's how they're built.
>any suggestions on how
>to get her to stop being
>stupid?
Ah, trying to change other people's behavior. The ultimate recipe for
frustration. Here's a lesson for all of life, not just the "world of
seduction": Trying to change other people's behavior is a losing, uphill
battle. Never do this.
Instead, remember the classic Ross Jeffries line: "I don't care what they
want; I only care what they respond to." Or, in your case, don't focus on
changing her behavior; only focus on what she will respond to. I don't know
her, so I can't tell you what that is. If you did your job in the Attraction
and Rapport phases, then you should have enough EV and trance words to utilize
into attempting to pattern based on her particular value set, whatever that
happens to be. And after that, hit her up with a variant of the "Our World"
routine.
"Get your validation from your life, not your women." - L&C
"Girls network" is like the Mafia with the difference that they use the tongue
instead of Beretta. - Franco
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