mASF post by "Phase2"
posted on: mASF forum: Tactics / Techniques Discussion, June 6, 2005This is a *GREAT* idea.
But I even think it should be tried when you're out alone. Next week I'm
going to go into town for a few hours and see what I can restrict the time
between approaches too. I reckon 5 minutes is a fairly good target.
Ta!
Phase.
<TheShangriLa> wrote in message
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> I've been an active member of the London Seduction Society
> (http://www.thelss.com) over here in London for the past few months and
> have
> mainly posted my field reports etc on that board. But as a solution to a
> problem that's been occuring at our regular sarge meets, I've came up with
> a
> fun new social experiment that I'd like to share with you all. We've tried
> it
> out and it's cool. *Try it* yourself and let's hear what you think.
>
> Background
> Usually there is one regular LSS sarge meet organised each week, often on
> a
> Sunday. We meet in a central London, match up any newbies with more
> advanced
> guys and sarge all the beautiful girls who are lucky enough to cross our
> path.
>
> At many of the usual sarge meets, a lot of time is taken up waiting,
> discussion
> of theory, products, seminars etc. I mean, some of the delays are
> inevitable
> when you are trying to organise a large group of people. But some of the
> delays
> are just unnecessary. Like some guys turning up and straight away saying
> "Hey,
> I need to get food" and we'd all end up going along and that would take a
> while. For me, I just came to sarge. So I began to get annoyed at all the
> unnecessary waiting.
>
> And another thing I noticed was that the more the weeks went on, the more
> and
> more delays were happening. Like last weekend over a 3 hour sarging
> session I
> opened only 3 sets (I remember standing around A LOT). Well, that's just
> not
> good enough because I want to get good and I figure that will only happen
> if I
> regularly open at least 15-20 sets at a sarge meet. Practice makes
> perfect. So
> I came up with the concept of:
>
> *Speed Sarging*
> Much like the concept of speed dating, where you meet an unnaturally high
> amount of girls in the least amount of time. I though about it and came up
> with
> my ideal set of rules to play this game by, which follow:
>
> **********************
> *Speed Sarging* - the Ultimate Excuse Killer!
>
> Be ready to start from the moment you arrive. If you aren't there on
> time - too
> bad - we start without you. Be fed and watered before you get there (or be
> willing to pick up something from a street vendor to eat on the move).
> Have
> your openers, routines etc prepared and rehearsed. Prepared means you've
> said
> them out loud in front of the mirror 12-15 times, changing you tonality
> and BL
> until it is appropriate. Practice success. If you have nothing to open a
> set
> with, how will you open 25-35 sets? Don't waste your time and your fellow
> sarger's time - come prepared.
>
>
> Rules:
>
> 1. Pick the set you want to open. If you take too long, your wing picks
> the set
> for you.
>
> 2. Open the set. You stay in set for as long as you need to make a close.
> Speed
> Sarging is NOT about getting out of sets quickly. It's about getting IN to
> sets
> quickly and not being "out of set" for long. You stay in set for as long
> as you
> need.
>
> N.B. If you find a girl who is really into you - Speed Sarging ends!
> Remember -
> it's all about meeting girls. Don't walk away from a girl who is
> interested.
>
> 3. Otherwise the set closes and then it's your wings turn to open. Rule
> No. 1
> now applies to him. Open sets in rotation, i.e. you open, your wing opens,
> you
> open, your wing opens etc.
>
> The guiding principle behind *Speed Sarging* is to kill all excuses. Once
> a set
> closes, your wing should open another INSTANTLY. The time "out of set"
> should
> be minimal - only a few minutes at the very most. This is the principal of
> speed sarging - speed between sets and a minimum of "lost" time.
>
> If you refuse to open 5 sets that your wing has chosen for you, you will
> be
> asked to leave. Why? Because you are holding yourself and your wing back.
> Just
> ask the time if nothing else and allow your wing his turn.
>
>
> Composure:
>
> Very very important - no matter what happens, keep your composure. Chill
> for a
> moment and regain your composure if something throws you off. You must
> throw
> yourself into the challenge knowing you will survive. It's just chatting
> to
> girls after all! Soon you will be unshakeable. This is a very good skill
> to
> develop.
>
>
> Sarging Etiquette:
>
> Whoever opens the set leads the set. The wing hangs back and only verbally
> enters the set on request or to offer essential help if he sees his friend
> stalling.
>
> That's it!
> Rack up the numbers, quash the anxiety and have fun.
>
> The Shangri La
> 11th June 2005
>
> **********************
>
> We tried this out a few times and what an awesome adventure it was! In my
> original post to invite guys to come *speed sarging*, I said we were going
> to
> do 5 warm-up openers with the GM style line:
>
> "Excuse me, miss, do you kiss strangers?"
> "No"
> "Well then, allow me to introduce myself."
>
> To my surprise, this wasn't just a good warm-up line, but an EXCELLENT
> DIRECT
> OPENER. The first day there were 3 of us and in the first half hour of
> speed
> sarging my wing number closed HBspanish in about 2 minutes and I email
> closed
> HBitalian in less than 3 minutes. Wow, the power of direct game. I've been
> regularly sarging for about 2 1/2 month and that was my first ever email
> close.
> I think I love direct game.
>
> *As an aside, I was treated to some quality chick logic from HBitalian.
> She
> said she out buying a gift for her boyfriend. It was his birthday in a few
> days
> and she was planning to dump him after that - she just couldn't dump him
> before
> his birthday! So she is asking me for advice on what to buy her boyfriend,
> the
> guy she is going to dump in the next few days. I said something like "You
> should buy him a dildo". Funny stuff and she seemed eager to stay in
> contact
> with me.
>
>
> Anyway, try out this cool social experiment for yourselves and report
> back. As
> you are going to be opening lots and lots of sets anyway (I open about 25+
> sets
> over 3 hours), use direct openers. I mean, you will get blown out more
> often,
> but the girls that don't blow you out will be awestruck by your direct,
> masculine approach. Some of the chicks I approached today looked stunned
> and
> thrilled when I used this direct opener, like they had never ever been
> approached like that before in their life. Can't be bad.
>
> Try it out - it's cool!
> The Shangri La
>
>
> P.S. Just to avoid any confusion - *Speed Sarging* is not related to Ross
> Jeffries "Speed Seduction»". As stated above, it has more in common with
> the
> modern phenomenon of speed dating that anything else.
>
>
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