mASF post by "Laife"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, June 6, 2003My thoughts are this:
1. Living in your own reality is about living by your rules.
For example if you like doing X and Y tells you, "You shouldn't do that.
You should do Z." If you do Z, because Y told you to, then you are not
living in your reality. In fact, Y owns your reality.
If on the other hand, Y can tell me how doing Z benefits me and I decide for
myself that it does benefit me. I do this not because he is the authority,
but decide it is the best option for me to do at this point therefore I am
the authority. You are able to think for yourself on what to do.
2. If you don't know what you want or what to do, then you have no reality.
You are highly suggestible. Your personality can be highly rebellious
(reactive), or highly submissive. You are lost and looking for direction.
(anarchy)
3. So you seek to experience a reality that is better than yours which is
nothing at this point :). So you seek out cult group leaders such as
seduction gurus to give you another reality.
This person does not have his own reality yet and seeks to live by other's
rules such as religion, society, or PUA rules passed down from others. This
is being a guest in another's reality and you can be ex-communicated at any
time and go back to (2). "If you do not live by these PUA rules, then you
are banished back to whence you came from." "If you do
not follow these 'holy scriptures', then you are an evil sinner banished to
hell." "If you are not macho, then you are a loser, banished to the land of
no pussy." Do you guys see a difference among these statements?
So do you have the power in the reality you are in (1), or are you in a
powerless system (2), or do others have the power (3).
Let's discuss.
Laife
What does Laife suggest? Finding your own life, your own missions and
hobbies. Then you have a reality to center your rules around. Then you can
share your life and offer women a chance to be in your reality. That is her
dream, her adventure. They want to be guests in your reality. Offer her
the dream. They do not own your reality (3). Think, think. :) Keep your
head clear, man.
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