mASF post by "PlayerQ20"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2005On 8/13/05 7:02:00 PM, Jestor wrote:
>When she is trying to get
>rapport with you, that's when
>you give her a straight answer
>to her questions. This
>usually happens right after
>you said something which
>spiked her
>attraction/interest. And it
>usually happens later on in
>the interaction.
>
>Examples of typical rapport
>seeking questions:
>
>-what music do you like?
>-where do you like to go?
>-what is your name?
>-where do you live?
>
>When she is trying to qualify
>you, that's when you don't
>give her a straight answer.
>It usually happens too early
>into the interaction, and it's
>clear she is doing some type
>of screening.
>
>Examples of typical qualifying
>type questions:
>
>- what do you do?
>- what car do you drive?
>- how old are you?
>
>With the former you can just
>answer straightly. With the
>latter it is recommended that
>you don't give her a straight
>answer.
>
>- what do you do? I model
>underwear. *warning* some
>girls are stupid enough to
>believe you and not get the
>subcommunication.
>
>- what car do you drive? The
>shuttle, parking is a real
>bitch.
>
>- how old are you? This one is
>borderline. You can answer
>straightly or tell an obvious
>lie like you are 150 or
>whatever.
>
>Comments?
>
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>---------
>"So what you don't want to
>fuck me! Do you have any idea
>how many chicks have pussies
>and mouths??" - MrSex4uNYC
Jestor, a good, clear and concise post. I would add that when she is asking
rapport questions, this gives you an opportunity to structure your identity.
Thus, I would avoid straight and direct answers and instead color your
responses.
For example, instead of:
HB: What type of music do you like?
Guy: Rap. What type do you like?
Do this:
HB: What type of music do you like?
Q20: Do you hear this song playing?
HB: You mean "Freebird?"
Q20: Yeah, I actually wrote this..for you. Hot, isn't it?
HB: Hah, oh really, yeah..sure.
Q20: I'm actually really into XYZ, I went to this really cool concert a awhile
back where XYZ was playing and they did this thing where... (lot's of
description, and either funny anecdote or adventurous story inter-mixed)
HB: Oh, wow! Hah ha! That sounds cool!
(and then the lead)
Q20: What's the coolest show you've ever been to?
HB: XYZ
Q20: What did you like so much about it?
HB: Well they did...
Q20: Oh, that sounds cool, you mean like (descriptive language..)
In addition, I'm a big fan of the push-pull concept since my game is
predominately led by a C+F frame, but occasionally exposes mock
"vulnerabilities" at the right time to draw the girl in.
Thus, throughout my conversation I will still use the C+F response method, but
as the interaction progresses I will only use it sporadically and begin to tone
it down before following with a legit answer as above.
It's also important to note that when a girl is trying to qualify you, whether
through a shit-test or a question like: "what do you do,?" she is throwing out
an IOI and is looking for you to pass it.
The way I pass it is either by ignoring it altogether and immediately starting
a new thread in our conversation, or a C+F response that never answers her
question. Just remember that you have to control the frame at all times and
not be afraid to plow when needed.
-Q20
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