mASF post by "Thundercat"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, January 1, 2005On 1/19/05 10:30:00 PM, MRCHOSEN wrote:
>99% of the time an AFC is
>going to step to a female and
>court her. This is known as
>CHOOSING.
Well, every guy who wants to get with a chick will approach her, AFC or
no. Call it "macking," "gaming," "sarging," or "courting" it all comes
down to the same thing: Guy talks to Girl because he wants to get laid.
You're just splitting hairs here.
>99% of the time the person who
>gets CHOSEN is the one who
>will have control in a
>relationship. That's why women
>are usually the TRUE leaders
>in relationships.
Not necessarilly. There are two dynamics at play when it comes to
control. The first is sexual control, and the second is relationship
control. Typically, women have the sexual control, because the men
can't have sex without the woman (well, they can, but I won't get into
that) and the men have the relationship control, because the woman
can't have a relationship if the man doesn't want one.
With this dynamic, you have two people trading off their power for what
they want. Women will trade sex for relationships, and men will trade
relationships for sex. Occassionally, you'll get sex for sex, but most
often this is the dynamic.
Typically, what happens is that men will give away their relationship
power in the hopes of wooing the woman to have sex with him. He'll
confess his undying love hoping to get her in the sack, but she won't
bang him because, well, she's got what she wants now and she doesn't
need to give up her sexual power to get it.
>1. The first most important
>thing is that I noticed that
>you said "hb8". This is a sign
>that you have NO GAME. You
>see, as a player, a female
>should have no value to you.
>As a player, you are the only
>important person in a
>relationship.
Well, the woman has to have SOME value. Otherwise, why go after her?
>2. The BEST PLAYERS are the
>ones who are able to totally
>"flip the script" on females.
>You need to learn the correct
>clothes and body language you
>need, in order to get females
>to approach YOU. Yes, if you
>wear the correct clothes and
>have the correct body
>language, then females will
>want to approach you...and if
>you wear a unique hat in
>addition to that, then they
>will have SOME EXCUSE for THEM
>to come over and talk to YOU.
Well, flipping the script is always a good way to go, but correct clothes
and bodylanguage is only part of the game. If you sit around waiting for
a girl to approach you, you're gonna be waiting a looooong time,
especially in high competition areas like bars and clubs.
I've yet to meet a guy who gets laid reguarly who doesn't take the
initiative to approach women himself.
Thundercat
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