The Basic Rules
seconds rule – THE most important rule for Pick-up Artists.
Look and feel your best – Not rocket
science, but a lot of guys need to be reminded.
Be the Alpha/Dominant male – Because when
you’re not, you can only be second best.
Do my looks matter? – Yes… and no. At least
not as much as you think.
Nice guys vs jerks – the key difference
between the two explained.
Good traits to have – or develop, to be
a successful player.
It all comes down to satisfaction –
read why you actually have the upper hand with the most beautiful of women.
Women want good sex – so make sure you do
Should you express or contain your sexual
desires? – a moot point, read why.
Wanna play the dating game? – … um…
let’s see now…
The rules with your wingman – if you
approach girls together with a friend / wingman, make sure you agree on the rules.
How to Get Started
confidence – and getting started with approaching girls.
Experiment! – don’t think twice,
don’t look back, just have fun!.
Casual meetings vs pick-ups – the pros
At a party – a mild alternative to the
Just say “Hi” – then continue with
one of the two tactics described in the article.
Talk to girls – everywhere!
How to initiate a conversation – here’s
your back-up, in case your primary parashoot doesn’t open.
Talking to her = echoing her – a
stripped down version of Trance
words and Eliciting
Fluff talk – the essential skill of
talking about nothing, and how to evolve from that.
The “don’t”s of fluff talk –
what to avoid.
Reading body language – its like
reading people’s thoughts, it’ll blow you away:)
Mirroring – the Jedi mind tricks of
Kinesthetics – make touching the girls your
second nature, even (and especially!:) if you just met them, they’ll love it:)
Approaching Women And Getting Them Interested
Where to meet
girls – the most popular places for a pick-up.
If she seems unapproachable – then maybe
everyone thinks so… and she’s all alone.
General guidelines on approaching – a
few pointers and examples to get you started.
Demonstrate value and personality – the basic
premise of seduction.
The importance of a first impression – or
relative unimportance, depending on whether you’re an AFC or a PUA:)
Pace and lead – and demonstrate understanding to
More Patterning Skills
- Introducing patterns into a
discussion – without sounding unnatural. Also how to approach.
Channel pattern – “the ride goes up and down and once you get off, you want to
come again and again”:)
Necklace pattern – tell her a breathless/speechless-making story:)
Trust pattern – alleviate her most common fears.
Rose patterns – and she’ll be obsessed with you:) 3 patterns.
- Believing the Supernatural
patterns – “destinies”, “higher beings”, “chi energies”;
feed her with her favourite food:)
to Passion pattern – shift her passion from “something” to
- Mental Screen pattern –
“close eyes, imagine great feelings, open eyes, see… me?:)”
Experience pattern – exchange peak experiences with her.
Woman pattern – show her you know the secret and natural side of her.
- Meeting the Perfect Man pattern – and she’ll feel what its like… in your presence:)
Drawn patterns – descriptions of initial attraction plus examples of using vague
language. 4 patterns.
- Incredible Connection patterns – the classic and its various derivatives. 12 patterns.
- Falling in Love patterns –
make her feel the feeling of falling in love:) 7 patterns.
Dream pattern – help a girl have dreams about you.
Similar pattern – and she’ll feel what you feel (a growing boner?:).
bad we don’t… but if we could…” pattern – you can describe almost any
state you want to her with this one:)
Your Desire pattern – and turn good girls into “naughty”:).
- Sex is Natural pattern –
you’re adults, you can talk intelligently about sex… right:)?
more… the more..” pattern – a simple yet powerful application of thought
the Poem pattern – transition from patterning to reciting poetry.
Eyes patterns – what better topic to talk about than her eyes. 2 patterns.
- I Want You pattern – transition
from patterning to kissing:)
Least We Can Be Friends pattern – LJBF her into tearing your clothes off on the spot:)
- Indifference to Attraction
patterns – convert her from friend to lover:) 3 patterns.
- Find That Girl pattern –
reinstate her faith in men.
Job patterns – these are supposed to make her want to… well, you figure it out:) 2
- Backdoor Pleasure patterns –
the funniest patterns ever:) Read and you’ll know why:) 3 patterns.
Void pattern – the contrast of feeling empty versus feeling happy and fulfilled..
Door pattern – a pattern so evil, that even Ross Jeffries has denounced this one.
- The Solution pattern – help
her make up her mind, the way you want.
- Presuppositions and other
“mind-tricks” – don’t leave her any choice:)
You’ve Got Her Interested…Now What?
signs of interest – to know you’re “in”:)
Building a bridge AFC-style – if you
can’t do anything, do it at least the AFC way:)
If more than one girl is interested in you – don’t choose, you might loose:)
Reading the signs of a
“committed” woman – understand her seemingly contradictory signs, and the
door will be open:)
Capitalise – there’s a girl that has
started liking you quite on her own!? Now don’t let that window close:)
Making a timely exit – instead on lingering
on forever, leave her hungry for more.
Closing – how to get a girl to give you
her number and a kiss:)
Asking for a… date? – now that you have
her number… what next?
Proceeding instead of closing – for
why would you want to “close” if things are going smooth?
Our World routine – constructing a world
for her in which she will feel free to make love to you:)
Inviting the girl over to your place –
to “check out a book or something…”:)
If she has second-thoughts – she wants it
but can’t quite make up her mind, “help” her:)
My home is my love-nest – make sure you can
be confident» about the quality of your retreat.
Networking and pivots – if you’re not
quite interested anymore or she’s not quite interested yet.
How to Handle Girls
Be busy – attract girls by being “busy”.
Suggest competition – keep her on
Put a price on yourself – the more
you “cost”, the more value she attributes to you.
Show a willingness to walk away –
don’t let her take you for granted.
Use her friends – by realising, that
“friendship” also means “rivalry”.
Judge her by her actions, not by her words – or rather, let her actions speak the words.
Have and reveal secrets – provide a
constant thrill for the woman.
Use poetry – women are about feelings;
poems are about feelings – and mixing the two gets you dynamite:) 12 poems.
If she compliments you – make
her feel good for having done that:)
Act like its special – and what you
have can not be found anywhere else.
Paying her a compliment – an AFC
trap, unless you do it right.
Cook for her and “date” at home – the main dish will be less expensive and the “dessert” more convenient:)
When should you call a woman after
having sex with her? – don’t blow it, she’ll be very sensitive and tender about this
Romantic gifts and things to do – but
use these to reward, not to bribe.
Managing many relationships at once –
best policy is (tailored:) honesty.
If she asks for YOUR number
instead – don’t fall for this (relates to Closing).
If she still refuses to give
you her number – a strategy of covert persistence.
If she says “Why do you
ask?” – read how to recover (relates to Patterning and Eliciting values).
If she asks “Are you trying
to seduce me?” – this isn’t trouble actually (she likes it:), but you still need
to know how to answer.
“Have you ever…?”
gets busted – what do you do, if she says “No” in response (relates to Patterning).
Ejecting – you don’t always
have to close. Know when to cut your losses.
If she cancels a date –
she screwed you (and not the way you hoped she would:). Now what?
If she doesn’t return your
phone-calls/e-mails – a zero-tolerance policy.
If she shows disrespect for
you – How to deal with (dump) her and why.
The age difference problem –
you shouldn’t anticipate it, but its good to be prepared.
Nothing works with the girl – and you tried all your techniques. But there’s an ace up your sleeve:)
If she says “Let’s just be
friends” – looks like you’re in trouble, read how to recover.
Dealing with rejection –
why you should never get rejected and how to cope with it, if you do.
But I really want this girl! – read why this is such a self-defeating attitude.
The Boyfriend Problem
Fun and games – you’ll love these:) “The kissing bet”, “Osama”, “A-Hole + truth
Bad jokes – careful:) “Pants in the
air”, “Telepathic watch”, “Spermogram”, “Doctor’s
appointment”, “Voodoo dildo” etc.
A game of Crash and Burn – guess it depends
on your definition of fun:) But a great experience (and confidence?:) builder.
More things to do for fun – useless, but fun:)
Top colognes – for getting the girls, of
Miscellaneous suggestions and observations
about seduction – a recap.
from hell – do your looks matter? Read this report by Maniac High and decide for
Eye contact experiment – David Shade
finds out, how girls react to eye-contact with a stranger.
The pivot theory – NYC explains the
benefits of making girls your pivots.
Ross comments on www.introme.com – his
one-page website / personals ad full of NLP and SS.
Falling in love vs being a player – in
case you have any feelings of guilt.
A female seducer turning straight girls into
bi and lesbian – if you’re a girl reading “How to Lay Girls”, this one’s for
Article in Rolling Stone – a tour of
modern seduction literature, NLP and Speed Seduction».
Article in Playboy – the
Harvard-educated journalist experiences a paradigm shift.
-> Job Interview patterns – a
different perspective on NLP and patterning. 2 patterns.
and famous setup – but even more accurately the “tired of female attention”
The effectiveness of persistence with a smile – true seduction (choose and seduce:), not a numbers game or easy girls.
Svengali’s street pick-up – a classic street
pick-up using humour, romance, sex-talk and kino with confidence.
Svengali’s friend’s street pick-up – a
“neg” of sorts gets the ball rolling:)
The original Mr Smooth posts – Maniac
High describes the technique of a Japanese PUA.
NightShadow’s IRC seduction – an example
of an image to create good feelings.
David Shade’s online seduction – this guy is
really good:) A log of him and a married woman.
David Shade’s real-life seduction – and he’s
not just a computer geek cowering behind his keyboard:) Read and gasp:)
David Shade’s “The Kiss” post –
Maniac High’s report, NYC’s comments –
important points being discussed.
The Orgasmotron – Alex Akselrod plants a