The Basic Rules
seconds rule - THE most important rule for Pick-up Artists.
Look and feel your best - Not rocket
science, but a lot of guys need to be reminded.
Be the Alpha/Dominant male - Because when
you're not, you can only be second best.
Do my looks matter? - Yes... and no. At least
not as much as you think.
Nice guys vs jerks - the key difference
between the two explained.
Good traits to have - or develop, to be
a successful player.
It all comes down to satisfaction -
read why you actually have the upper hand with the most beautiful of women.
Women want good sex - so make sure you do
Should you express or contain your sexual
desires? - a moot point, read why.
Wanna play the dating game? - ... um...
let's see now...
The rules with your wingman - if you
approach girls together with a friend / wingman, make sure you agree on the rules.
How to Get Started
confidence - and getting started with approaching girls.
Experiment! - don't think twice,
don't look back, just have fun!.
Casual meetings vs pick-ups - the pros
At a party - a mild alternative to the
Just say "Hi" - then continue with
one of the two tactics described in the article.
Talk to girls - everywhere!
How to initiate a conversation - here's
your back-up, in case your primary parashoot doesn't open.
Talking to her = echoing her - a
stripped down version of Trance
words and Eliciting
Fluff talk - the essential skill of
talking about nothing, and how to evolve from that.
The "don't"s of fluff talk -
what to avoid.
Reading body language - its like
reading people's thoughts, it'll blow you away:)
Mirroring - the Jedi mind tricks of
Kinesthetics - make touching the girls your
second nature, even (and especially!:) if you just met them, they'll love it:)
Approaching Women And Getting Them Interested
Where to meet
girls - the most popular places for a pick-up.
If she seems unapproachable - then maybe
everyone thinks so... and she's all alone.
General guidelines on approaching - a
few pointers and examples to get you started.
Demonstrate value and personality - the basic
premise of seduction.
The importance of a first impression - or
relative unimportance, depending on whether you're an AFC or a PUA:)
Pace and lead - and demonstrate understanding to
More Patterning Skills
- Introducing patterns into a
discussion - without sounding unnatural. Also how to approach.
Channel pattern - "the ride goes up and down and once you get off, you want to
come again and again":)
Necklace pattern - tell her a breathless/speechless-making story:)
Trust pattern - alleviate her most common fears.
Rose patterns - and she'll be obsessed with you:) 3 patterns.
- Believing the Supernatural
patterns - "destinies", "higher beings", "chi energies";
feed her with her favourite food:)
to Passion pattern - shift her passion from "something" to
- Mental Screen pattern -
"close eyes, imagine great feelings, open eyes, see... me?:)"
Experience pattern - exchange peak experiences with her.
Woman pattern - show her you know the secret and natural side of her.
- Meeting the Perfect Man pattern - and she'll feel what its like... in your presence:)
Drawn patterns - descriptions of initial attraction plus examples of using vague
language. 4 patterns.
- Incredible Connection patterns - the classic and its various derivatives. 12 patterns.
- Falling in Love patterns -
make her feel the feeling of falling in love:) 7 patterns.
Dream pattern - help a girl have dreams about you.
Similar pattern - and she'll feel what you feel (a growing boner?:).
bad we don't
but if we could
" pattern - you can describe almost any
state you want to her with this one:)
Your Desire pattern - and turn good girls into "naughty":).
- Sex is Natural pattern -
you're adults, you can talk intelligently about sex... right:)?
more... the more.." pattern - a simple yet powerful application of thought
the Poem pattern - transition from patterning to reciting poetry.
Eyes patterns - what better topic to talk about than her eyes. 2 patterns.
- I Want You pattern - transition
from patterning to kissing:)
Least We Can Be Friends pattern - LJBF her into tearing your clothes off on the spot:)
- Indifference to Attraction
patterns - convert her from friend to lover:) 3 patterns.
- Find That Girl pattern -
reinstate her faith in men.
Job patterns - these are supposed to make her want to... well, you figure it out:) 2
- Backdoor Pleasure patterns -
the funniest patterns ever:) Read and you'll know why:) 3 patterns.
Void pattern - the contrast of feeling empty versus feeling happy and fulfilled..
Door pattern - a pattern so evil, that even Ross Jeffries has denounced this one.
- The Solution pattern - help
her make up her mind, the way you want.
- Presuppositions and other
"mind-tricks" - don't leave her any choice:)
You've Got Her Interested...Now What?
signs of interest - to know you're "in":)
Building a bridge AFC-style - if you
can't do anything, do it at least the AFC way:)
If more than one girl is interested in you - don't choose, you might loose:)
Reading the signs of a
"committed" woman - understand her seemingly contradictory signs, and the
door will be open:)
Capitalise - there's a girl that has
started liking you quite on her own!? Now don't let that window close:)
Making a timely exit - instead on lingering
on forever, leave her hungry for more.
Closing - how to get a girl to give you
her number and a kiss:)
Asking for a... date? - now that you have
her number... what next?
Proceeding instead of closing - for
why would you want to "close" if things are going smooth?
Our World routine - constructing a world
for her in which she will feel free to make love to you:)
Inviting the girl over to your place -
to "check out a book or something...":)
If she has second-thoughts - she wants it
but can't quite make up her mind, "help" her:)
My home is my love-nest - make sure you can
be confident» about the quality of your retreat.
Networking and pivots - if you're not
quite interested anymore or she's not quite interested yet.
How to Handle Girls
Be busy - attract girls by being "busy".
Suggest competition - keep her on
Put a price on yourself - the more
you "cost", the more value she attributes to you.
Show a willingness to walk away -
don't let her take you for granted.
Use her friends - by realising, that
"friendship" also means "rivalry".
Judge her by her actions, not by her words - or rather, let her actions speak the words.
Have and reveal secrets - provide a
constant thrill for the woman.
Use poetry - women are about feelings;
poems are about feelings - and mixing the two gets you dynamite:) 12 poems.
If she compliments you - make
her feel good for having done that:)
Act like its special - and what you
have can not be found anywhere else.
Paying her a compliment - an AFC
trap, unless you do it right.
Cook for her and "date" at home - the main dish will be less expensive and the "dessert" more convenient:)
When should you call a woman after
having sex with her? - don't blow it, she'll be very sensitive and tender about this
Romantic gifts and things to do - but
use these to reward, not to bribe.
Managing many relationships at once -
best policy is (tailored:) honesty.
If she asks for YOUR number
instead - don't fall for this (relates to Closing).
If she still refuses to give
you her number - a strategy of covert persistence.
If she says "Why do you
ask?" - read how to recover (relates to Patterning and Eliciting values).
If she asks "Are you trying
to seduce me?" - this isn't trouble actually (she likes it:), but you still need
to know how to answer.
"Have you ever...?"
gets busted - what do you do, if she says "No" in response (relates to Patterning).
Ejecting - you don't always
have to close. Know when to cut your losses.
If she cancels a date -
she screwed you (and not the way you hoped she would:). Now what?
If she doesn't return your
phone-calls/e-mails - a zero-tolerance policy.
If she shows disrespect for
you - How to deal with (dump) her and why.
The age difference problem -
you shouldn't anticipate it, but its good to be prepared.
Nothing works with the girl - and you tried all your techniques. But there's an ace up your sleeve:)
If she says "Let's just be
friends" - looks like you're in trouble, read how to recover.
Dealing with rejection -
why you should never get rejected and how to cope with it, if you do.
But I really want this girl! - read why this is such a self-defeating attitude.
The Boyfriend Problem
Fun and games - you'll love these:) "The kissing bet", "Osama", "A-Hole + truth
Bad jokes - careful:) "Pants in the
air", "Telepathic watch", "Spermogram", "Doctor's
appointment", "Voodoo dildo" etc.
A game of Crash and Burn - guess it depends
on your definition of fun:) But a great experience (and confidence?:) builder.
More things to do for fun - useless, but fun:)
Top colognes - for getting the girls, of
Miscellaneous suggestions and observations
about seduction - a recap.
from hell - do your looks matter? Read this report by Maniac High and decide for
Eye contact experiment - David Shade
finds out, how girls react to eye-contact with a stranger.
The pivot theory - NYC explains the
benefits of making girls your pivots.
Ross comments on www.introme.com - his
one-page website / personals ad full of NLP and SS.
Falling in love vs being a player - in
case you have any feelings of guilt.
A female seducer turning straight girls into
bi and lesbian - if you're a girl reading "How to Lay Girls", this one's for
Article in Rolling Stone - a tour of
modern seduction literature, NLP and Speed Seduction».
Article in Playboy - the
Harvard-educated journalist experiences a paradigm shift.
-> Job Interview patterns - a
different perspective on NLP and patterning. 2 patterns.
and famous setup - but even more accurately the "tired of female attention"
The effectiveness of persistence with a smile - true seduction (choose and seduce:), not a numbers game or easy girls.
Svengali's street pick-up - a classic street
pick-up using humour, romance, sex-talk and kino with confidence.
Svengali's friend's street pick-up - a
"neg" of sorts gets the ball rolling:)
The original Mr Smooth posts - Maniac
High describes the technique of a Japanese PUA.
NightShadow's IRC seduction - an example
of an image to create good feelings.
David Shade's online seduction - this guy is
really good:) A log of him and a married woman.
David Shade's real-life seduction - and he's
not just a computer geek cowering behind his keyboard:) Read and gasp:)
David Shade's "The Kiss" post -
Maniac High's report, NYC's comments -
important points being discussed.
The Orgasmotron - Alex Akselrod plants a