NightLight9, ASF: "The Alpha male» - I use this phrase a lot... Here is
quick run down of what it means to me. If you watch animal shows on PBS or Discovery
Channel, many species have a dominant male who has sex with all the females in the group,
while the other males get none while waiting for him to die or until they are tough enough
to kick his ass and become the alpha male» themselves. Many males never get to be an alpha
male» (never get laid).
Often it seems like you know guys who are always getting laid and other guys never get
laid. You'll even see women talking to/hanging out/being friends with the average guy, but
then sleep with some other guy (even if he is a jerk, sleeps around and doesn't respect
them). The guy who gets laid is playing the role of the alpha male», while the other guys
are submissive males.
I'm saying be the guy who gets laid. That guy is confident that he's going to get laid,
because he knows he's an alpha male». He knows that women and people in general want to be
with him so he doesn't shy away from conversation and meeting new people. He doesn't worry
what others think about him when he's doing his thing. He takes control of a situation
with authority. He knows he's fun to be with because he is always having a good time and
therefore he _is_ fun to be with. He knows that if he is in a group of guys and a group of
girls, he will be the one the girls choose to be with, and by having this to be the
expected outcome, it is a self fufilling profecy.
Ok here's, how I did the Alpha/Dominant Male thing.... First I created a model of what
I thought a Dominant Male should be. Much the same as the one stated before. Then I used
it to change my frame of reference about myself, ie I stepped into my model of the
Dominant Male. I claimed what I knew to be my genetic right. nd I didn't care who knew it.
I didn't make excuses for it either. I just excepted it as the natural order of things.
This is not an outward thing that you do but rather an inward change that radiates outward
in everything you do.
Being the alpha male» is all about attitude and projecting the image that you are fun to
be with and the woman should want to be with you. Being the alpha male» is self
perpetuating. The more you believe you are the alpha male», the more you become the alpha
NightLight9?: "As for competing with the muscle boys - that's why I
changed my model from seeing myself as the Alpha Male» (there can only be one) to a
Dominant Male (there can be more than one, but they're all dominant)."
The above quotes discuss being the dominant male in a group of other males. The
following quotes will explain how to expand that attitude into your interatcions with
Jason, Clifford's Seduciton newsletter: "There's an attitude to take with
super HB's (and all women really) that is pure gold. The thought is that
"INSTINCTUALLY women KNOW their role." The key word here is INSTINCTUALLY. What
this means is that on an "instinctual" level women ARE all the same! They get
their juices flowing when they are in the presence of a MAN who is living HIS ROLE. MAN is
the dominant one, NOT woman. And deep down inside women KNOW this. This has NOTHING to do
with being an asshole. This is about being a MAN who is NOT afraid [which doesn't
necessarily only have to mean the usual "TARZAN NOT AFRAID!!" macho stuff, but
also not being afraid to be honest, sensitive and caring when the time is right].
You have to be the MAN who has all the sexual power. And when a woman (no matter how
hot) sees and feels the presence of a man whom she recognizes as the dominant one while
SHE isn't, she does what every woman does - that is SURRENDERS to the more powerful being.
And all that acting like she's hot and knows she's the stuff and all those other
"head up in the air" tricks are just a test and a way to weed out all the men
who are less powerful than her and don't know their role as a MAN."