mASF post by "Jamster"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, March 3, 2005

[Note: What I wrote is a little harsher than I intended. Please don't take it
as hostile. I think the advice really, REALLY would do you good.]


On 3/3/05 9:47:00 AM, Nemanja wrote:
>I need advice from some top
>PUAs,

The top?

Naw. Even I can give you good advice here.


> I have to start somewhere.
>I don't approach women.

Change that.


> I don't go out much,
>not because I don't want to,
>but because I don't have
>enough friends to go out with.


You don';t need to go out with friends. Sometimes friends are a hindrance,
anyhow.


>"Nemanja, if you don't have
>friends then that should be
>your primary concern.

Maybe.

For "YouMeSex?" it was a concern, recently. It min=ght be a concern for you,
but that is independent of PU.

Two different problems.

[Much noise deleted. I suggest you delete this noise in your own framing of
the problem.]


>Nobody in this town goes alone
>to bars.


OK. Coool.


Don't do your work in bars.

> You can't really call
>that an experience, because
>she was sooo in love with me,
>that she did the entire job of
>attracting and seducing. I did
>almost nothing.

...

>I lost my virginity three
>months ago, age 27, with a
>prostitute.


Do you see what is wrong with this picture?

1) Rejecting her without doing here was probably harder on that poor girl than
doing her and then rejecting her.

Easier on you though, I guess. Don't be selfish.

2) If you gave her what she wanted, maybe she would get a little grounded and
not be as spacy as as this "Phoebe" you mentioned. (Aside: You watch TV?
Why waste your time?) "Seducing" you was likely a nerve-wracking task.







> d:
>The Player's Guide...
>TFM ...
>patterns ...
>The Gunwithch method,
>Mike Pilinski's book "Without
>Embarrassment" ...
>David D's Double Your Dating...
>Advanced Series ...

["ADVANCED?" Heh. It's a BOOK. basic by definition.]...

>CD...
>Derek Vitalio's Seduction...
>Science [spare me.] ...
>Keanu Jegger's Situational
>Opener Technology ...
>Swinggcat's "Real World
>Seduction"...


>the entire compilation of
>posts at Bristol Lair...

Oh, dear god.

>The Juggler Method...
>countless TD's and Mystery's...
>and so forth.

There's more??

I probably
>forgot a thing or two.

Actually, no. You probably never learned any of it. Just read it, didn't take
it out to the field? You didn't learn it.

> I am now in the
>process of reading routines I
>like and translating them to
>Serbian language.

PLEASE STOP.

The only routine you need.

"Hi! How ya doing?"

Do it a few hundred, maybe a thousand times.






>I have
>premature ejaculation


Drugs. Large quantities of viagra will help with that.

Also yohimbe, but don't take that with viagra.

After you've don it with someone a coupe of times, I bet your problems will go
away with out drugs.


> some
>of you were at the social
>bottom I am at now, so I hope
>that some of you might have a
>good advice for me.


Here's a plan. PU on the streets, in the grocery, in the laundrymat, in the
park, at concerts, wherever.

I agree with everyone that Gunwitch is the way for you to go. Don't read it
agin though, you've read too much.

Pick girls that are so fat ugly, etc., that they will not expect a relationship
with you beyond one night.

Once you learn to recognize women's sexual response, tune into their excitement
for your excitement. It works better than beauty most of the time.

Repeat "Hi! How are you?" with 1000 women.

Move on.

Your mantra, grasshopper, is "Hi!How are you?"

Use it until you each enlightenment.

Then get back to us.


Jamster Geezer
"If you can't be graceful, fake it."