mASF post by "Beaver"
posted on: alt.seduction.relationships, July 7, 2005

I have some comments. Maybe it sounds rude.

>I guess part of me recognizes
>this as being a one-itis-but
>I still needed to get some
>feedback on it..

I hate to tell you, but GFTOW!

>I have done something in the
>past based on the things I've
>read in this forum to keep my
>relationship alive and it has
>worked beautifully, so this
>might explain why I came here
>for another magic pill answer.

There is no magic pill. Your ex is seeing someone else. So should you.

>The LTR lasted for two years.
>we eventually broke up. no
>cheating involved.

That's okay, but hasn't anything to do with your problem.

>I find like my best shot is
>with this one... and I've come
>to believe she posesses the
>qualities I want in a mate.

And which you can certainly find in some of the three billion women on this
planet as well.

>But how can I know for sure...

You can't. There is no magic sign behind the clouds in the sky. Sad, but true.

>I don't know. I might not have
>experienced enough to know for
>sure if this is really what I
>want. But from what I have
>experienced up to now, getting
>back with her is what I think
>and feel to be the right thing
>to do.

I can assure you that it won't. Why the heck should you relationship work? You
broke up before and from what you are writing I can see, that you don't want
your girl back. You want to satisfy your oneitis[snipped]

>I don't like to rate girls,
>because I think she's good
>enough for me, but would be a
>7 according to most guys I
>believe. She's very reserved
>and shy and has good values at
>her age (20).

If you don't like rating, then why the heck are you doing it?

>She was a virgin before she
>met me and introduced her to
>many things, exploring her
>sexuality being one.. coming
>from a more reserved kind of
>environment where her
>religion(taoism) is VERY much
>apart of her life.. (prays
>every night, does benevolence
>work at temple, and is 100%
>vegetarian since childhood)

So what? Anything to do with your problem?

>In my mind, I've found a rare
>gem. And I'm filling in the
>detais as much as I can so you
>can understand where I'm
>coming from.

Get rid of your fixation.

>If I had one specific question
>to ask I guess it would be
>this:
>
>How do I get back with her?

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/06_Troubleshooting/Miscellaneous/reallywant.shtml

greetz
B.
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