mASF post by "PlayerSupreme"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, May 5, 2005

Recently I was reading a ebook called The Dating Wizard and the author made a
good point with the following quotes:

"Women are very THOROUGHLY checking out your behavior to
determine if you are THE MAN or if you are a “geek”.

Unconsciously, and quickly, women assess you, and form feelings of
indifference, revulsion, or attraction.

Women will know if you are not THE MAN by sizing up even the most
microscopic incongruities in your behavior. (They’ll even notice incongruities
in your attire.)

Women will notice, consciously or unconsciously, if your words sound
confident but your tone is not, or if your posture or breathing show any signs
of nervousness."

HE ALSO STATED:

First of all, forget all those ideas and books about “communication” being
the key to success with women. What is the point in being even the greatest
communicator if you don’t know how to be a man that women DESIRE?
You can communicate all you want, but unless you are THE MAN, all
you will be communicating to her will be the fact that you are not THE MAN.

And forget those books on pick up lines. Definitely not natural."

In communication it is my opinion that he was talking about all the openers and
scripts that are used at times.

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