mASF post by "putnik"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, April 4, 2005

On 4/7/05 3:21:00 PM, TylerDurden wrote:
>You aren't controlling the
>frame here. You shouldn't say
>"I don't have a car." Just
>get her laughing, and then
>give her exact instructions on
>what you want. Don't discuss
>logistics or other pointless
>shit. She doesn't need to
>know that you don't have a
>car. Just say what you want.
>
>At Project Hollywood, I don't
>have a bedroom (I live in
>Canada, and stay down there on
>and off). I slept in a walk
>in closet with a mattress, and
>used that to extract girls for
>months on end. It was very
>difficult, but rather than
>complaining about it I made
>the best of it and made it
>work. I also do the same when
>I travel and stay in a hotel
>room with five guys. I bring
>the girl into the bathroom and
>turn on the shower so there is
>noise.
>
>In any of these situations, if
>I flinch for a minute to show
>that I'm self-conscious about
>it, I am done. I just control
>the frame. Control what she
>thinks. Control what she
>feels. Control what she does.
>I don't let a girl start
>thinking that me not having a
>car is a problem. I don't let
>her THINK.

I totally got you. I understand what you're saying. And I must say I was like
that with my current GF when we met first time...I brought her to my flat where
I live with parents and brother. And I was totally controling the frame there
but It was somehow easier. Don't know why....maybe cause my GF isn't hot as
this 18yo was, or cause my GF is very cool and was totally contributing to our
interaction that evening.
Anyway I see what you mean. thanks for advice(I for sure lost my frame
here)....but can you please give me some advice on what would you reply to
hers: "Can you come to my place to pick us up?"

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