mASF post by "TheShangriLa"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, August 8, 2005

You know, it's random stuff you learn from reading FR's, but sometimes it plugs
a gap in a person's game even though it may not seem that groundshaking to
others. Am I qualifying my response here? lol!

The three were:

1.
I DLV'd with "I'm sad". She's like instantly wondering why etc and I play on
this. I also recall telling her that girls always give me a hard time. More
DLV. She likes this. She starts to mellow.

2.
"So are you able to sit and talk about things, you know, things that we might
have in common and stuff? Are you ever normal and chilled?"

BANG.

Straight into solid rapport.

3.
Stay in there and persist, just be agreeable, the psychology of time almost
does the work for you sometimes.


And maybe even a fourth, just cause it's cheeky:

"I'll have to see your bedroom another time".

This is stuff I will go out and use.


And no, I'm not suggesting you write romance novels. Romance novels usually end
with a cool guy turning into a pathetic wussbag AFC. I'm more suggesting an
anti-romance, where the guy conquers at will, Don Juan style. It's politically
incorrect, but women love players so they'd read it anyway. And guys would
learn from it - even thought they'd fucking hate you and say they'd never be
like that! Ha ha, I'm a bit of an anarchist at heart and hate popular fiction,
so anything else is good.

Take it easy
The Shangri La